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How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by ikbnice(m): 9:29am On Jun 23, 2016
[b]The news these days is filled with cases of child molestation by adults. Some of the incidence leading to this can be avoided if the children are equipped with adequate knowledge right from the early stage. No one will be able to capitalize on their ignorance.
HERE IS A LIST OF THINGS YOU NEED TO TEACH YOUR CHILD(REN) AT EARLY AGE :

1. Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including close relations.

2. Avoid getting dressed/UnCloth in front of your child, once he/she is 2 years old. Let them understand the value of privacy.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband', reprove it immediately.

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values regarding SEX. If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values and peer pressure will bend them negatively.

8. It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons and movies you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves. Many of these are laced with negative sex.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often to do so.

10. Teach your three-year-old how to wash his/her private part properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11. Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd. Being different from others is never a crime.

13. Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, you can't be too careful. [/b]

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Nobody: 9:46am On Jun 23, 2016
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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by sheedy407(m): 1:32pm On Jun 23, 2016
May God and Allah bless me more as i read this post.

I am a Christian and a proud Catholic but it doesnt change anything that we all came from one source which is ALLAH / GOD

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by FreeWorld23: 1:34pm On Jun 23, 2016
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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Nobody: 1:34pm On Jun 23, 2016
Word !!!

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by FreeWorld23: 1:35pm On Jun 23, 2016
ikbnice:
[b]The news these days is filled with cases of child molestation by adults. Some of the incidence leading to this can be avoided if the children are equipped with adequate knowledge right from the early stage. No one will be able to capitalize on their ignorance.
HERE IS A LIST OF THINGS YOU NEED TO TEACH YOUR CHILD(REN) AT EARLY AGE :

1. Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including close relations.

2. Avoid getting dressed/UnCloth in front of your child, once he/she is 2 years old. Let them understand the value of privacy.

3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband', reprove it immediately.

4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.

5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.

6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.

7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values regarding SEX. If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values and peer pressure will bend them negatively.

8. It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons and movies you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves. Many of these are laced with negative sex.

9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often to do so.

10. Teach your three-year-old how to wash his/her private part properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).

11. Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).

12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd. Being different from others is never a crime.

13. Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them.

Remember, you can't be too careful. [/b]

good message

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Nobody: 1:36pm On Jun 23, 2016
useful you know
Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Nobody: 1:37pm On Jun 23, 2016
Thanks for sharing

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Goldenheart(m): 1:37pm On Jun 23, 2016
Equip Them With Pepper Spray, Teach Them How To Use It.
#mykobo

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by naijapresdo2023(m): 1:40pm On Jun 23, 2016
Good relationship with your children will help them feel free to open up on people's advances towards them

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by babyfaceafrica: 1:40pm On Jun 23, 2016
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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by taemilola(f): 1:42pm On Jun 23, 2016
Most Nigerian parents don't like to give their children sex education.

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by McBrooklyn(m): 1:43pm On Jun 23, 2016
Then I Guess This Should Really Be The Watchword Of The Children cool


*** Give Us Pen Not Pen*s *** angry


*** Ask For Our Books Not Our Boobs *** angry


*** Pay Our School Fee Not Our Bride Price *** angry


*** We Need Education Not Ejaculati*n *** angry


You Can Actually Thank Me Later! cool

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jun 23, 2016
Finally!!!
Restrict their male friends to three
(1) The Father
(2) The Son
(3) The Holy Spirit

grin grin grin

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by visijo(m): 1:46pm On Jun 23, 2016
was i thought all these Better pikin na still better pikin and spoilt one will still be spoilt no matter what.. May God save us

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by esxty(f): 1:46pm On Jun 23, 2016
when an adult call children my wife, my husband. it might be of no harm. just saying

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Omoge5: 1:47pm On Jun 23, 2016
Wow, very correct. we really need to be close to our children as much as we really can.
Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by McBrooklyn(m): 1:47pm On Jun 23, 2016
Goldenheart:
Equip Them With Pepper Spray, Teach Them How To Use It.

#mykobo

undecided undecided

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by DExplorer1: 1:52pm On Jun 23, 2016
These tips are great, I can only agree 80%
Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jun 23, 2016
Thank you. I used to think how I'll protect my children from molestation when I start having kids. My neighbor her children are 11,9,4,2.. She will just naked all of them and say she wants to baff them.. You will see the big boy and his senior sister.. Naked waiting to have their bath. What rubbish!

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Nobody: 1:54pm On Jun 23, 2016
Nice one
Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by seangy4konji: 1:54pm On Jun 23, 2016
Only God can guide the heart.

Most of Europe have nude beaches where every one is always naked(practically very on on your street) and still they don't have high rape cases. It's the population of places where they wear pant,tight,padlock the inner short knicker and wear jeans that have high rape case.

It obviously means here is something wron wit a black mans brain.

Ps. What we don't understand is this. It is what you shield,hide or deny the human eyes from seeing that sends signals to the inquisitive part of the brain to uncover that mystery either hook or crooked method which usually starts from the younger age.just like a mom putting pot of stew in her room,the young lad would always find a way to enter that room without her knowledge to eat from that pot to satisfy his soul that is that not it?

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by DExplorer1: 1:54pm On Jun 23, 2016
Goldenheart:
Equip Them With Pepper Spray, Teach Them How To Use It.

#mykobo
Your own don pass ordinary tips, this one na war grin

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by RedCapChief(m): 1:55pm On Jun 23, 2016
sheedy407:
May God and Allah bless me more as i read this post.

I am a Christian and a proud Catholic but it doesnt change anything that we all came from one source which is ALLAH / GOD

Allah ≠ God

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by johnstar(m): 1:58pm On Jun 23, 2016
Na dis kind tym una dey warn ppl, wey dis generation don spoil finish
Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by McBrooklyn(m): 2:00pm On Jun 23, 2016
RedCapChief:


Allah ≠ God

Oga, this thread is for "How to guide your children against molestation" and not to argue about Religion. Either you're Muslim or Christian, it doesn't count here. And I even wonder if you even bother to read the disclaimer at the bottom of every page on Nairaland especially the part where it says "Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland" . . . You Need To Grow Up!!! undecided angry

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by seangy4konji: 2:01pm On Jun 23, 2016
A deh tell you.

Most of secondary school students now even sow their uniforms to look like a mini gown. Way above the knee and tight. You don't need Wikipedia to know what's up or the boys with school uniform already smoking sk all around your area
johnstar:
Na dis kind tym una dey warn ppl, wey dis generation don spoil finish
Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by michaelwilli(m): 2:01pm On Jun 23, 2016
ikbnice:
[b]The news these days is filled with cases of child molestation by adults. Some of the incidence leading to this can be avoided if the children are equipped with adequate knowledge right from the early stage. No one will be able to capitalize on their ignorance.
HERE IS A LIST OF THINGS YOU NEED TO TEACH YOUR CHILD(REN) AT EARLY AGE :

1. Warn your girl child never to sit on anyone's laps no matter the situation including close relations .

Wat if person no get motor, cuz dey might need to even lap in public transport. Even if you get motor, u cnt drive dem everywhere

2. Avoid getting dressed/UnCloth in front of your child, once he/she is 2 years old. Let them understand the value of privacy.


Some kids don spoil from belle. Izz pathetic


3. Never allow any adult refer to your child as 'my wife' or 'my husband', reprove it immediately.


Na dis generation i dey hear am. Wen I small everybody dey call you my husband, my wife nd wu born monkey well to try rubbish


4. Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they do, because young people now sexually abuse themselves.


Example : lezz do mumi n dadi. Ka ni pe we want to make baby. Oya, tope, open ur......


5. Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.


Na tru. Which kind love?


6. Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you may need to patiently ask lots of questions from your child.


Maybe u didn't take him to mr Biggs


7. Carefully educate your grown ups about the right values regarding SEX. If you don't, the society will teach them the wrong values and peer pressure will bend them negatively.


Instead of talking about abstinence, it's now protected sex. Smh.


8. It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons and movies you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves. Many of these are laced with negative sex.


Just give dem tom n jerry n relax ur brain


9. Ensure you activate parental controls on your cable networks and advice your friends especially those your child(ren) visit(s) often to do so.


Hide d remote, n make sure it's always on cartoon network or as i said tom n jerry


10. Teach your three-year-old how to wash his/her private part properly and warn them never to allow anyone touch those areas and that
includes you (remember, charity begins from home and with you).


Includes who? D mama wey dey baf am? Someone else but not d pikin mama. Na da one small pikin go dey tell u to excuse because e wan dress. Wetin he carry?


11. Blacklist some materials/associates you think could threaten the sanity of your child (this includes music, movies and even friends and families).


Yh. If uncle sam grit u, dnt ansa him


12. Let your child(ren) understand the value of standing out of the crowd. Being different from others is never a crime.


Just teach em d value of being the best. No too much grammar.


13. Once your child complains about a particular person, don't keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend them.


No go fite person on top wetin u no knw. Jst dnt allow ur child meet with such person, daz enough

Remember, you can't be too careful. [/b]

Importantly, u nid God, good members of the community n ursef to raise ur child. That u cn raise ur child alone is impossible.



Tnx op. Educative

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Jobabori(m): 2:04pm On Jun 23, 2016
The tips are meant for GRA based " ajebuter" parents. A culture vast traditional parents brought up his/ her child to appreciate the "do' and " don't "of communal life which not only prohibit any form of sexual molestation but all form of abuses. You do not need to memorise tips about parenting, you imbibe it from your parents. The way you are brought up has a form of correlation with how you train your children. Do not sit on laps, do not call a kid your wife, do not visit neighbours are cosmetic child rearing tips. Parenting is natural, an innate skills, it is not learn through any formal approach as intend by the poster. If parenting is to be learn as a subject, then the kids of the educated ones could have been the best mortally but it is not so.

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Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Nobody: 2:06pm On Jun 23, 2016
These are fp materials not Davi this Whizkid that.....Nonsense topics making fp. God bless op.
Re: How To Guide Your Child(ren) Against Molestation by Akjr(m): 2:07pm On Jun 23, 2016
sheedy407:
May God and Allah bless me more as i read this post.

I am a Christian and a proud Catholic but it doesnt change anything that we all came from one source which is ALLAH / GOD
i wish majority of muslims have d mind n heart of a christians 2 tink so

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