firstking01:
Sweery, still givit time, with time his true colour will surfice...you knw some guys can go any length to get inbetween those your froshy laps;P...just be very careful and givit sometime, truth is, there's always an elasticity in every extention...weather his intentions are genuine or not, it must show with time.

AniemaEniye:
thanks for your advise. He doesn't womanize but he tak alcohol. He has never for once lay hi hands on me. He seem neat too

RZArecta:
is the level of alcohol intake okay with you ? (i.e. those type of guys who will level a crate of beer at Casablanca) I don't see why you shouldn't date him especially if he has something doing (job or private business) during the course of the relationship you'll know him well enough to decide if he's what you want in life

AniemaEniye:
many thanks

firstking01:
You are wellcome dear, btw, where in ph are you cos you seem farmiliar?

DonnaCorleone:
This is how you recognize people who've never held on to quality & are used to being treated like trash.

He's nice. So what exactly is your issue now?

AniemaEniye:
I seem not to get you

AniemaEniye:
many thanks

AniemaEniye:
my fear is that will he not ask for something I can't afford later? The way he's nice scare me. I love him so dearly

DonnaCorleone:


My dear, stop looking for trouble where there is none & just accept happiness for what it is. If you've been hurt in the past, maybe this is karma's way of repaying you back for the pain you endured. Don't they say men are not all the same? Maybe he's the living proof to that urban legend Sounds like you've found the ever elusive Prince Charming, so don't screw this up by creating drama out of thin air. Just enjoy & be happy.

What could he possibly ask that you cannot afford to give him? A kidney? Sex? What? I just don't get you or your fears.

AniemaEniye:
Very many thanks to you my sister. You really spoke well. My ugly experience with guys in the past make me wonder that there could be someone different

DonnaCorleone:


Yeah, please stop overthinking & go with the current. Even if he turns out to be a loser, I'm sure you can & will survive.

I hope there's more of him wherever heaven he fell from

AniemaEniye:
sure . Can't stop thanking you

DonnaCorleone:


Awww, sweetheart For your sake I hope he's for real. That'll mean there's hope out there

Be happy. I wish both of you everlasting love.

AniemaEniye:
Amen and I pray you find yours soon. God bless you

KingCheezyPuff:
A gentle man who doesn't push over with my little finger's touch.

AniemaEniye:

Hello Nairalanders,

I hope this script find you all well. I'll try as much as I can to be brief.

I met this guy around April 2015 and we attend the same Church here in PH. First we became friends and along the line, it became emotional. The guy is 8 years older than me. At first I thought he's one of those bandwagon of "eat and run" guys, but what keep me wandering till date is that this guy have not for once ask of sex from me (despite the fact that we are always together alone). He's just too nice to me as well, he always try to meet my needs (even when I don't ask). He seem to be concern most about the future and how we both can make a family together. I've asked severally why he's this nice to me, he said he can't really explain how I won his heart. I'm kind of worried and disturbed about this, don't you think he might be up to something fishy? I need your advise pls.

Mod please help me move to FP

AniemaEniye:
Hmmmm! Really? Ada George

AniemaEniye:
You know guys initially can be nice and later can change. I took him to be among those but he kept prooving me wrong. Is it bad to seek advise as regard that?

no its not, but this dude never asked u for sex yet but still sees to ur every need EVEN before u ask... . Babe this guy is for keeps nah, can't u see



Don't do this to ur self oo cos other ladies aint smiling and u know what that means, and pls pls and pls, do not change ur attitude towards him all in the name of u trying to know what his ugly plan is against u cos as much as i have read and understood ur thread, the guy is innocent and God given just like me (blushing)


Bae hold the man tight and make him see more reasons why u are the woman for him, get to know if he's pretending by knowing more of his friends and asking about him BUT "codedly". Not by coming here and asking us if he got some ugly poisonous viper down his sleeves... Have u done anything to earn a heart brake from him Just do Wat u have to do and every other thing will sort itself out... SHIKENAH!

AniemaEniye:

Hello Nairalanders,

I hope this script find you all well. I'll try as much as I can to be brief.

I met this guy around April 2015 and we attend the same Church here in PH. First we became friends and along the line, it became emotional. The guy is 8 years older than me. At first I thought he's one of those bandwagon of "eat and run" guys, but what keep me wandering till date is that this guy have not for once ask of sex from me (despite the fact that we are always together alone). He's just too nice to me as well, he always try to meet my needs (even when I don't ask). He seem to be concern most about the future and how we both can make a family together. I've asked severally why he's this nice to me, he said he can't really explain how I won his heart. I'm kind of worried and disturbed about this, don't you think he might be up to something fishy? I need your advise pls.

Mod please help me move to FP

AniemaEniye:
Hmmmmm. Like wat level o provocation?

metrosexual:
How funny!

This is reason why I tell guys never to overdo the Mr Nice guy thing, be coarse but grossly sensual.

When I say don't be too nice I don't mean you should hit her or hurl insults at her though. When you overdo your Mr Nice guy moves things get too "tasteless" for her, you start to become more of a friendly companion rather than a passionate lover, over time you start to annoy her as women love a man who has some degree of a challenge in himself for them to conquer. When a women gets annoyed either physically or emotionally towards the tastelessness of your persona she looses respect and passion for you and that the start of a break-up.

Ladies hate saints, but love repentant sinners. That should give you a picture of how to roll with a woman. Always keep a woman's heart at edge for you, treat her right but don't make things too nice and boring, its just like driving on a completely straight smooth road which spans over 20 km, such situation makes the driver fall asleep and crash, the brain is wired not to keep seeing just one steady image, you'd become dizzy, same thing for a relationship.

Lastly, be a man in control, I repeat, be a man in control! Don't turn out to be a control buddy or a bully though. Being in control is making her see the manly, confident, intelligent and fatherly figure you are, I used the word "fatherly" because its rare to see a girl who doesn't love and respect her dad. Here is an example: Your lady is fuming with anger because you kept her waiting for a dinner outing and instead of whining and whining to her like a 3 year old for keeping her waiting and saying the usual "I'm sorry", tell her "Thank you for your patience", you just apologised to her but you did it in a more intriguing, interesting and confident way which reeks of intelligence and bravado. That doesn't still stop you from using "I'm sorry" in other dire situations though.

Men should get a skill in understanding women please, its the only education you learn and enjoy the benefits without end all through life.

I drop my pen now, work calls, before my boss catches me on this thread, then I'd have to explain if I was employed to give dating classes online

AniemaEniye:

Hello Nairalanders,

I hope this script find you all well. I'll try as much as I can to be brief.

I met this guy around April 2015 and we attend the same Church here in PH. First we became friends and along the line, it became emotional. The guy is 8 years older than me. At first I thought he's one of those bandwagon of "eat and run" guys, but what keep me wandering till date is that this guy have not for once ask of sex from me (despite the fact that we are always together alone). He's just too nice to me as well, he always try to meet my needs (even when I don't ask). He seem to be concern most about the future and how we both can make a family together. I've asked severally why he's this nice to me, he said he can't really explain how I won his heart. I'm kind of worried and disturbed about this, don't you think he might be up to something fishy? I need your advise pls.

Mod please help me move to FP

AniemaEniye:

Hello Nairalanders,

I hope this script find you all well. I'll try as much as I can to be brief.

I met this guy around April 2015 and we attend the same Church here in PH. First we became friends and along the line, it became emotional. The guy is 8 years older than me. At first I thought he's one of those bandwagon of "eat and run" guys, but what keep me wandering till date is that this guy have not for once ask of sex from me (despite the fact that we are always together alone). He's just too nice to me as well, he always try to meet my needs (even when I don't ask). He seem to be concern most about the future and how we both can make a family together. I've asked severally why he's this nice to me, he said he can't really explain how I won his heart. I'm kind of worried and disturbed about this, don't you think he might be up to something fishy? I need your advise pls.

Mod please help me move to FP

BlueEyeBalls:
I guess u are reading my comment expecting a very good advice.... Read along Pls...













You are a fool for letting the devil make u doubt such a guy, it's a girl like you that changed me into what I am today!


No provoke me oooooo