BeastAmbition:
When a man force his wife for sex is it a rape?

No. It's sexual abuse.

refiner:


Seriously??

He didnt sign?... What reason did he give?

No good or bad reason rather he said he's happy with Leicester. So he agreed and sign new 4 years contact extension with Leicester.

which kind rape be dat nor be he get he tin do am any how he won don am,but d enjoyable way is plead for it.

M4gunners:
No good or bad reason rather he said he's happy with Leicester. So he agreed and sign new 4 years contact extension with Leicester.

Foolish vardy..

They will get relegated next season...

Mtcheeww...

Expecting your vote dear.... Saturday, 10am to 6pm

Thanks...

Peritus:

I beg to say that you are very wrong.
Generally, a man is not capable of raping the wife under the law, absence of consent notwithstanding.
Again, a boy/man is not capable of being raped under the law.
A woman is not capable of committing rape under the law. A child of under 7 yrs is not capable of committing rape under the law. All these are indecent assault.
Until our penal code and criminal code is repealed, the above, unfortunately, remains the law.

Laws are not set in stone, hence why we should open up this debate. If it is not law in Nigeria, then we have a duty to agitate for such. It is not the end of the story, time are changing and laws have always evolved to be applicable to the times we live in.
But that begins from questioning what is, a woman has the right to withhold her consent but she must not be violated for exercising such a right.
In the west, the husband has the right to divorce her on those grounds, she cannot eat her cake and have it...you don't want to meet your partners needs, free him to have his needs met elsewhere...without punitive measures.
Common, I would hope that we want laws that protects the interest of ALL but at the same time, in the absence of such laws as present, do we not have a moral duty to each other to look out for one another?

I love it very rough and in a very crude way

bamto:
Legally, a man cannot be charged for raping his spouse.

This is the correct position under Nigeria Criminal Law.

However, the husband will be committing another but lesser offence: Assault

Consent that has been paid for?
Abeg talk another thing....
Ashewo consent na money na.

joe4real12:
Yes it's Rape as its without her consent.

If u called it rape then park and go bk to ur father's hasu.

chiddyok:
No. It's sexual abuse.

Sexual abuse? how will you define sexual abuse? what's rape?

seekier:
it is called fun not rape. Since you paid her brideprice she has not right to be disinterested when you are interested!

Are u 4 real? So bcus u paid her bride price she is nw ur intimacy gadget?

It depends. ...

Depends on how much ur fada collected as bride price. If he over collected, mbok open ya yansh

It z

kingDarius:
Consent that has been paid for?
Abeg talk another thing....
Ashewo consent na money na.

wow! Did u really type that? A woman who just gave birth and is not emotionally and physically ready 4 sex is forced by her husband. I'm sure u'll deem dis as 'd ryt of d husband'

Elijahrona2:


No.

Yes. It is 'Rape' according to law. I personally also think it's rape. Not nice at all.

BeastAmbition:
When a man force his wife for sex is it a rape?

Yes it is rape...

Ay04z:
not married yet..so i don't know..

Nice one

can you steal your property

Cybertext:


Sick... I can agree
Tired... Maybe
Not in the mood...?? (Some husband no wan here that one o)

Submissive and Not in the mood do not correlate in my opinion....

submission is not forced on someone. It's voluntary! It's assumed the wife isn't a child so she has a right to her moods. If you can't deal, then divorce her! RAPE is Sex without CONSENT!

Cybertext:
Big time Rape...(looking at it from the circular and legal perspectives)
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but the question is this...
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Isn't the wife suppose to be submissive to the husband for whatsoever reason

can u just shut up, submissive wen she is nt in d mood

Cybertext:
Big time Rape...(looking at it from the circular and legal perspectives)
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but the question is this...
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Isn't the wife suppose to be [b]submissive[/b] to the husband for whatsoever reason

The submission u used here, just made me remembered our marriage course before the wed"g!! D woman teaching us then was damn funny, she said we shouldn"t have any reason to deny our hubby SEX, and anytime they wants it, we should give it to them anytime anywhere without an excuse! Except during our monthly period which is not too health for both couples!

We were like, haba madam, you want kill person? Is it food? D kind of smiles dat came out of our spouses faces ehn! They were like, yes is food to them, and our teacher was in support of that too!

No, it's not rape. Why - because since they are husband and wife consent is already presumed from both parties. IOWS sex is one of those essential ingredients of .a valid marriage. So when a partner forces the other, though wrong morally, it is not actionable, and in fact the complainant may be held liable for denying conjugal rights, except the forceful sex is life threatening.. But I must say, why force anyone for sex.

Cybertext:
Big time Rape...(looking at it from the circular and legal perspectives)
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but the question is this...
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Isn't the wife suppose to be submissive to the husband for whatsoever reason

Guy..WHATEVER REASON u say even when she not feeling well

XketchDesigns:

its not dumb, thats the actual fact. we dont just like to admit it, but thats just the basis of it.
also, she has not right to deny him. except for situations where she is sick.

Your grammar needs deliverance first

franceswasky:
can u just shut up, submissive wen she is nt in d mood

Hey take it easy.... I just aired my opinion it mustn't be correct, I'm not justifying rape .... Take a chill pill

izaray:
The submission u used here, just made me remembered our marriage course before the wed"g!! D woman teaching us then was damn funny, she said we shouldn"t have any reason to deny our hubby SEX, and anytime they wants it, we should give it to them anytime anywhere without an excuse! Except during our monthly period which is not too health for both couples!

We were like, haba madam, you want kill person? Is it food? D kind of smiles dat came out of our spouses faces ehn! They were like, yes is food to them, and our teacher was in support of that too!

Yes mam!! That's the point I was trying to pass, Tho I'm not in support of total submissiveness, but our cultures and religions really SPELT that part out, knowing fully well that Men's libidos are very high...
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I don't know if the gender equality bill will at least do justice to this kind of case

BeastAmbition:



I'll rather assumed you are a guy than to believe you are a female with this your comment. Do you know most men believe once you're married you have the right to your wife body anytime, anyday. I want to help in correcting the misconception, so if you have got nothing positive to say, stay mock.

this your comment shows you are not feeling fine o, I typed "see question", who doesn't know anything taken by force isn't good. You are here assuming rubbish that am a guy when you seems not to even understand my comment.

Icaretoo:


Guy..WHATEVER REASON u say even when she not feeling well

Bros I was just asking a question o base on the religious aspect... Which in return said Husbands should love their wives for whatsoever reasons...

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...and to answer your question If the husband really loves his wife he won't even force her for sex, especially when she's sick..

iamauxin:
No,

Rape as codified in our laws is an unlawful carnal knowledge of a woman by a man (other than her husband)......without her consent or with her consent when such consent is obtained by threats......


The emphasis here is on those words in bracket. At worst, a husband can b charged for sexual assault on his wife and not rape.

people have been responding out of passion,here. the question has to be understood before giving reply. your answer is the legally correct of the lot. that said,where is the fun in forcing one's wife...?

Speakdatruth:
NO, it's rough play or hard romance

A word is enough for the wise