Hallack:
wow dats disappointing to hear

LuveU2:
I think i have finally come to agree with guys that say this.
Our typical behaviour is not very appealing and encouraging. Look, deny it or not, we always try to act or think like "other girls" forgetting our unique personalities,likes.

Other girls change their accents, typical of us we must change ours. Our hearty laughters we replace with brief opening of our teeth. We snub because other girls snub. We ignore our messages cos thats what big gals do. We talk small talks like other girls.

Heavens, we can't breath freely, always looking up for "what should be done" instead of sharing who we are with others


These dont make us look sexy or more beautiful but boring and yea cold

DeeTus:
The reasons most Nigerian girls are boring is probably the environment they grew up as well as strange mentality.

Foreign girls are so open-minded and down-to-earth.

LuveU2:
I think i have finally come to agree with guys that say this.
Our typical behaviour is not very appealing and encouraging. Look, deny it or not, we always try to act or think like "other girls" forgetting our unique personalities,likes.

Other girls change their accents, typical of us we must change ours. Our hearty laughters we replace with brief opening of our teeth. We snub because other girls snub. We ignore our messages cos thats what big gals do. We talk small talks like other girls.

Heavens, we can't breath freely, always looking up for "what should be done" instead of sharing who we are with others


These dont make us look sexy or more beautiful but boring and yea cold

Pheals:
LuveU2-- hateU2 come oo nonsense ! U are confuse


If guys feel bored been with u ...it does not apply to other ladies ok

Florblu:
That's not always true I am not boring but I can frustrate you till you stop chatting with me

Puresolutions:


Quite agree with this notin 50%

DeeTus:
The reasons most Nigerian girls are boring is probably the environment they grew up as well as strange mentality.

Foreign girls are so open-minded and down-to-earth.

Florblu:
That's not always true I am not boring but I can frustrate you till you stop chatting with me

ronald4lif:


Well said, bruv. I know manumission is a far-cry and never going to happen, was just saying. I think what we're experiencing today is a towering enthrallment of our history and identity on the aisle of western civilisation. The indoctrination by the imperialists who has never wished us well that every invention, contrivance and ideology of theirs should be orthodox and accepted by all is the bane of the encumbered retrogression of the swarthy race.

Brazil, China and other members of the BRIC conglomerate never pandered to Western influence and held grip of their identity and distinction and the resultant effect of this is manifested in their expeditious burgeon in technology and economy upsurge. For the black man to carve a niche for itself and take their rightful spot in the comity of nations, we need to start being original, spontaneous and cease from pandering to every western innovation as superior. But sadly, that is just a dream.

SANDOSKI:


Make I carry dictionary, chai Airsultan and me no fit understand dis English..
*Which dictionary I go use {Longman,Oxford _______}

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Ma'am

I no speak grammar oo! Na we go mid-night school dat year.

That engrish wey I speak, na warri version. Dats y e dey somehow for eyes

Abi appleyard, i lie?
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marvelous000:
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Ma'am

I no speak grammar oo! Na we go mid-night school dat year.

That engrish wey I speak, na warri version. Dats y e dey somehow for eyes

Abi appleyard, i lie?
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DeeTus:
Yeah. Because a lot of guys do talk and worship these girls.

You need to see how many guys do call and message these girls on a daily basis you would be ashamed of yourself as a guy.

Puresolutions:



This comment worried me for 3 days o Walahi

larabae13:
I'm nt boring ooo cos I dnt try to form or fake...I'm 100% real nd crazy to be with...I aint got tym to start forming posh dats why some call me bush gal buh I knw I'm me!!

pcguru1:


I don't believe you, send me your number, let's put it to test

Bamz:
LuveU2,

I like your thread. I might be wrong but the guys have their role in this too. Most guys are always looking to execute their ulterior motives.

But here's the rule, if you add someone on a social network and you're intent on making friends and all, after like 3-5 chats (I'm being magnanimous here) initiated by the requestor and none initiated from the other person... it's best to draw away. Whether you keep the person on your friend list or not is then up to you

Friendships demand obligation on both ends. That's why most gf/bf relationships in naija is so skewed cos the friendship is always the guy trying to prove a point.

LuveU2:
Exactly they way i see things, talking of the embolden i e. This is just a simple rule of selfrespect. Ive never had to keep initiating chats because i am too pretty for that. Lol And nobody should if they start seeing their self worth too.
Really if one lacks self respect how do they expect others to value them. If i was a guy i will keep my head high cos trying to please every girl would only displease them the more.

ps; check my siggy too

LuveU2:
Exactly they way i see things, talking of the embolden i e. This is just a simple rule of selfrespect. Ive never had to keep initiating chats because i am too pretty for that. Lol And nobody should if they start seeing their self worth too.
Really if one lacks self respect how do they expect others to value them. If i was a guy i will keep my head high cos trying to please every girl would only displease them the more.

ps; check my siggy too

Puresolutions:


Lol what an eruption

Bamz:


Good thing you share my sentiment. Last thing I want to display is being 'needy'. A chick and I were travel partners some days back, and after putting a call through after the journey, she said she'd called back. Even though it was late, she still did. I didn't have to force anything.

Bamz:
LuveU2,

I like your thread. I might be wrong but the guys have their role in this too. Most guys are always looking to execute their ulterior motives.

But here's the rule, if you add someone on a social network and you're intent on making friends and all, after like 3-5 chats (I'm being magnanimous here) initiated by the requestor and none initiated from the other person... it's best to draw away. Whether you keep the person on your friend list or not is then up to you.


Friendships demand obligation on both ends. That's why most gf/bf relationships in naija is so skewed cos the friendship is always the guy trying to prove a point.

marvelous000:
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"emancipate" You say? They're getting more inebriated with it, and blackmailing those who refuse to embroil themselve in the execrable display of inanity, with words like archaic,backward, African-mentality etc.

Just imagine the stultifying sybaritic cut-throat departure from sixth sense
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marvelous000:
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Can't be said any better than you did, bro.

All in all. I think the identity quagmire we're enmeshed in, is as a result of the failure on the part of our forefathers in protecting our distinction,abilities, capabilities and ways(both socio-cultural, political and otherwise).

like you rightly pointed; china,vietnam and India were former western colonies, but they precociously rejected western hegemon, unlike blackman who sold his land as test-ground for insidious and lethiferous experiments of all tom,dick, and Harry, a safe haven for all form of hegemony; I mean, the only thing more grandiose than black man's otiosity in area of development and advancement, is his fashionized ignominious parade of anything western as apt,best and requisite. the resultant effect, is his embellished reasonless usage of anything western as yard-stick to measure his engagements, do and undo.

Quick to discard his own without looking through his nose to see the grotesque behind the facade he settles for, and hodenic in adopting and concurring with things that pass off as 'foreign.'

height of zilch self-esteem or should I say “acute inferiority complex.”


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ronald4lif:


Well said, bruv. I know manumission is a far-cry and never going to happen, was just saying. I think what we're experiencing today is a towering enthrallment of our history and identity on the aisle of western civilisation. The indoctrination by the imperialists who has never wished us well that every invention, contrivance and ideology of theirs should be orthodox and accepted by all is the bane of the encumbered retrogression of the swarthy race.

Brazil, China and other members of the BRIC conglomerate never pandered to Western influence and held grip of their identity and distinction and the resultant effect of this is manifested in their expeditious burgeon in technology and economy upsurge. For the black man to carve a niche for itself and take their rightful spot in the comity of nations, we need to start being original, spontaneous and cease from pandering to every western innovation as superior. But sadly, that is just a dream.