Their is this girl I am dating and we have been at it for weeks now she text me today and asked if I love her and I told her I do and she told me that their is this guy she was dating before she met me and she doesn't trust him that's why she decided to give me a chance and also that she love me and doesn't want me to get hurt if I eventually find out,and she also asked if I am okay with it...Pls guys advice me

Say yes you're ok with her dating him. Then never speak to her again.

foolinlove:
Say yes you're ok with her dating him. Then never speak to her again.

gbam, that's just it

foolinlove:
Say yes you're ok with her dating him. Then never speak to her again.

Epic!

You are like a scapegoat the question you should ask yourself is if you want to remain the scapegoat.... You are a man allowing a girl to set the specs of the relationship... .

Do you want to remain the scapegoat?

foolinlove:
Say yes you're ok with her dating him. Then never speak to her again.

Why did you decide to put your gender as female when we all know that you are male....

Are you gay??

Common Sense

Phasesone:


Why did you decide to put your gender as female when we all know that you are male....

Are you gay??

Because I am a woman... why do you think I am a man? I hate men...

You are a man allowing a girl to set the specs of the relationship... .

foolinlove:


Because I am a woman... why do you think I am a man? I hate men...

but you date and screw a man to make you feel like a woman

say yes. the scattet her puna like sey tomorrow no dey.
bro, she just gave you the perfect reason to dump her ASAP.

TrueHeart365:
say yes. the scattet her puna like sey tomorrow no dey.

bro, she just gave you the perfect reason to dump her ASAP.

bro we reason alike...i can neva take a girl dat tells me point blank dat she has sum seriously. If she wnts me to b serious wit her she has to end it.i dnt bliv sumone cn love two people at a time.

Certifiedbillio:
but you date and screw a man to make you feel like a woman

I am a woman. But if u want to stoop to making childish insults that says more about you than it says about me. It shows everyone ur not smart enough to have intellectual arguments.

Seems you were just a rebound.

foolinlove:


I am a woman. But if u want to stoop to making childish insults that says more about you than it says about me. It shows everyone ur not smart enough to have intellectual arguments.

maybe I don't argue, meanwhile incase you felt insulted, so sorry okay!

Pelon:
Their is this girl I am dating and we have been at it for weeks now she text me today and asked if I love her and I told her I do and she told me that their is this guy she was dating before she met me and she doesn't trust him that's why she decided to give me a chance and also that she love me and doesn't want me to get hurt if I eventually find out,and she also asked if I am okay with it...Pls guys advice me

REBOUND GUY, THAT'S WHO YOU ARE..IF YOU ASK ME, I WOULD SAY YOU SHOULD MAKE HER YOUR SIDE CHICK WITH NO EMOTIONS WHAT SO EVER ATTACHED..THAT WAY IT WILL BE A WIN WIN FOR YOU AND HER WHICH US BETTER THAN A FRIEND ZONE SHIT

foolinlove:


Because I am a woman... why do you think I am a man? I hate men...

WHO CARES IF YOU HATE MEN!!! NEWS FLASH, I HATE WOMEN WHO SAY THEY HATE MEN BUT DEEP INSIDE THEM, THEY KNOW THEY CAN'T DO WITHOUT A MAN AND YOU HAPPEN TO FALL UNDER THIS CATEGORY.

schumastic:


WHO CARES IF YOU HATE MEN!!! NEWS FLASH, I HATE WOMEN WHO SAY THEY HATE MEN BUT DEEP INSIDE THEM, THEY KNOW THEY CAN'T DO WITHOUT A MAN AND YOU HAPPEN TO FALL UNDER THIS CATEGORY.

You seem to care judging by your reaction.

I've been 4 years without a man in my life and I'm still going strong! God bless.

foolinlove:


You seem to care judging by your reaction.

I've been 4 years without a man in my life and I'm still going strong! God bless.

tell yourself the truth, you know am not lying..the fact that you loved him so much and almost went suicidal cus of what he did, doesn't mean you should keep yourself in the dark for that long, even though I find it hard to believe that you have not been with any man over the past 4yrs.

schumastic:


tell yourself the truth, you know am not lying..the fact that you loved him so much and almost went suicidal cus of what he did, doesn't mean you should keep yourself in the dark for that long, even though I find it hard to believe that you have not been with any man over the past 4yrs.

Believe whatever you want, it doesn't affect me. I still love him and I havent and I'm not going to give my heart or pvssy to anyone else. I can't endure any more heartbreak. And I'm hardly going to change myself to make you happy... we are strangers.

foolinlove:


Believe whatever you want, it doesn't affect me. I still love him and I havent and I'm not going to give my heart or pvssy to anyone else. I can't endure any more heartbreak. And I'm hardly going to change myself to make you happy... we are strangers.

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not saying anything to affect anyone, am not saying should give your heart or pvssy to anyone, as a matter of fact, I don't think there is any heart left for u to give to a guy cus u seem like one who will date a guy out of pity..you can go nun but for how long, u say 4yrs already (I still don't believe cus is not possible) but how long more can u go?...finally u don't change to make me happy, because I tell friends n foes around me to do things that make them happy..finally most friends you have now were once strangers to you, so drop that mentality.

schumastic:

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not saying anything to affect anyone, am not saying should give your heart or pvssy to anyone, as a matter of fact, I don't think there is any heart left for u to give to a guy cus u seem like one who will date a guy out of pity..you can go nun but for how long, u say 4yrs already (I still don't believe cus is not possible) but how long more can u go?...finally u don't change to make me happy, because I tell friends n foes around me to do things that make them happy..finally most friends you have now were once strangers to you, so drop that mentality.

I'm guessong I can go for the rest of my life. Been 4 years so far. I didn't date out of pity. i didnt accept marriage proposal from pity. Was him chased me.

I don't have any heart to give. My heart is broken into a thousand little pieces. No one can mend that. Only God will mend when I die and am in His arms.

No matter how much I pray, I still love that one guy. Maybe u just can't comprehend what it is to love truly and wholly.

foolinlove:


I'm guessong I can go for the rest of my life. Been 4 years so far. I didn't date out of pity. i didnt accept marriage proposal from pity. Was him chased me.

I don't have any heart to give. My heart is broken into a thousand little pieces. No one can mend that. Only God will mend when I die and am in His arms.

No matter how much I pray, I still love that one guy. Maybe u just can't comprehend what it is to love truly and wholly.

you know what. you might be right, maybe i dont know what it is to love truly and wholly cus I don't know what the butterflies in your tummy made u feel like while u were in lov neither do u know mine but on the other hand we all have our own definition of love. but for some of us who have built n given 7yrs for love n watch it fall like some pack of cards, which now makes me it hard to believe if that word truely exist..if at all it does then we r not showing its true meaning just the surface..the only love that truely exist is christ love for us, every other love we claim to feel for one another is not real( just cheaters in disguise).

foolinlove:


Because I am a woman... why do you think I am a man? I hate men...

Real women don't hate men.... That means you are a man that is hiding behind a female moniker

Phasesone:


Real women don't hate men.... That means you are a man that is hiding behind a female moniker

I am a woman, I have nothing to hide. But I don't need to prove anything to you. Believe what you want sha. It doesn't affect me.

foolinlove:


I am a woman, I have nothing to hide. But I don't need to prove anything to you. Believe what you want sha. It doesn't affect me.

I never asked you to prove it.........

and if my beliefs didnt affect you... then you wouldn't have replied...

Phasesone:


I never asked you to prove it.........

and if my beliefs didnt affect you... then you wouldn't have replied...

I'd be interested to know WHY there are all the accusations that I am a man, though. Is it because I am smart?

foolinlove:


I'd be interested to know WHY there are all the accusations that I am a man, though. Is it because I am smart?

A lady thats smart wise... and all that I would desire... would never name herself foolinlove... she would want to be different... and give herself a name that would make every guy check her profile...

Foolinlove doesn't sound ladylike.... it sounds like a confused guy....

Phasesone:


A lady thats smart wise... and all that I would desire... would never name herself foolinlove... she would want to be different... and give herself a name that would make every guy check her profile...

Foolinlove doesn't sound ladylike.... it sounds like a confused guy....

I don't care about getting guys attention, though. Because as I have said, ad nasuem, I met the guy I truly loved and he broke my heart. I still love him and cannot open up to anyone again.

Anyway, I'm not African, so maybe that would also explain my choice of name? Cultural difference plus being a fool in love with someone who don't love her.

Pelon:
Their is this girl I am dating and we have been at it for weeks now she text me today and asked if I love her and I told her I do and she told me that their is this guy she was dating before she met me and she doesn't trust him that's why she decided to give me a chance and also that she love me and doesn't want me to get hurt if I eventually find out,and she also asked if I am okay with it...Pls guys advice me

You're officially one of her many bfs, a "side guy".

It's become common practice with babes these days

foolinlove:


Because I am a woman... why do you think I am a man? I hate men...

Like seriously?


That is a very unfair thing to say.

Why would u hate men?