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Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Skmoda360(m): 10:30am On Jun 25, 2016 |
torqque7:you just drop the best comment ever.. 1 Like |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by ukandi1(m): 10:33am On Jun 25, 2016 |
While u are still here she is already cheating. What makes u feel she would be concern when u die or destroy ourself? Bros, we all were like u. I am married and love my wife, but nothing would devastate me even if I see another man wiping her in my matrimonial home. Not at all. U must detach ourself from nature and its trash. Pls detach ur self. She deserves a dog not a decent man like u. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Kanyekels(m): 10:35am On Jun 25, 2016 |
amaraedec: Op.. What should I call you? At best a fool and an ungrateful dullard . Why? Because you contemplated suicide because a hoe cheated on you. Assuming you died, you would have been in hell suffering for eternity and the hoe will still be enjoying life jumping from one dick to another and in the end, if God's grace is with her... she might make heaven. God now gave you another chance to live and you want to commit suicide again. You deserve to be made the gateman to hades where you will suffer or better still Stephen's kind of death since you don't enjoy life again. I won't be part of those asking you not to commit suicide but I will encourage you to do it. The world needs less of your kind. If I can survive an adulterous, bloody relationship.... Everyone else can. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by tuco1: 10:38am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Life is very sweet to be wasted despite the hardship,,, For the girl she will definitely get another guy who she will spend for and have Regular S** at last he chase her away with #Koboko then she will know your worth...... Next time don't love with your Heart but Head |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by sunnyside16(m): 10:40am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Everybody get wetin go kill am. Your own sure say na dis girl..........kontunu. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Edusouls(m): 10:46am On Jun 25, 2016 |
andysnoopy:thanks brother,u have said it all... |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by MrBen10(m): 10:49am On Jun 25, 2016 |
The poster and every other girl out there need to read this story and be consoled, the dangers of breaking a guy's heart. https://www.nairaland.com/3170603/broken-vow-acid-bath-short? |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Fastpace(f): 10:49am On Jun 25, 2016 |
That is not love bro,u are obsses wit her.love shuldn't mk u attempt sucide.i won't be suprise if u dnt take d good and reasonable ans given to by nl.Seek jesus he lvs u more dan any1 cn. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by HorLa00(m): 11:02am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Sounds hypocrisy to me, your mum died , no condolence post on Nairaland and suicide attempt but your GF started flipping switch, you wanted to kill yourself and running mad? funnily, the Drunkard Lalasticalala pushed it to homepage... Well, I would only say, don't kill yourself, just wait for the right girl coz I'm not going to comment again on an RIP post. I know how the topic will look like and I'm not going to mistakenly click.. "A NAIRALANDER KILLED HIMSELF BECAUSE OF LOVER, CHECK PHOTOS" |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Maxcollins042(m): 11:18am On Jun 25, 2016 |
ditch the bitch and move on with your life.She has given you all the indications that she is in your life to serve as a depression agent to you. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by ernecy(m): 11:24am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Op, am angry with you, in fact I feel like giving you a resetting slap, if truly u are presently in Enugu (we can met at shoprite),why will u want to kill ursef for someone who don't deserve you. She is only with you for the pay, the slot is a golddigger, is not hard to tell, or figure out. Let me tell you something, your Mum(May her beautiful soul rest in peace) would be so disappointed in you, and she will be like 'is this the child I gave birth too'. Don't fail her, even if you won't man-up for yourself, do it for her, bcuz is the only one that truly love you. Can I call u with that number? |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Holyrule(m): 11:26am On Jun 25, 2016 |
One sentence : You need deliverance. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by gformula: 11:26am On Jun 25, 2016 |
God forbids your death at this point in time your family is yet to recover from the pain of your mum's death and now you want to die because of a girl. Your destiny is far bigger and I want you to yield to the good opinion of the people on this forum. They have spoken expressly about your issue, even the ones that spoke harshly had your interest at heart. Your life counts more than any fake love... That girl never loved you and she can never loves you. Forget about her relocate if possible, change your phone number for now, discover your hobbies,enjoy them, discover new friends, new interests and get close to people who can help you overcome depression. If you want more strength psychologically, old reach me on matchlessexcellence@gmail.com. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by CandiceJay(f): 11:31am On Jun 25, 2016 |
OP, so sorry about wat ure going through. I do hope u get better. Anyways, if u need a friend to chat with, i'm here. Truly i hurts wen u do ur best to stay faithful to sumone nd get pains as a repay. Be strong |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Godwin616: 11:51am On Jun 25, 2016 |
SirAweezy:. You nailed it. Change your number and location totally. Erase her completely from your memory. Start a new life, there are thousands other girls out there ,just take your time. Give yurself a break for now. Concentrate on other things. If you keep contacting this girl she may lead you to your early grave o because a leopard cannot change its skin o, be wise o. That's my candid advise for you. Nothing is worth dying for. If you do, live goes on. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by kosire(m): 11:59am On Jun 25, 2016 |
Going thru the whole comments..... I had to advice myself.... Though I am out of it but not totally out of it..... It is hard to easily forget someone u trully care abt.... But u will be very happy if you take the hard decision..... It is very had.... But I took it, I think I am better off now... I ran like a lambo.... Deleted her contact.... Changed number....though I didn't change location.... I left social media for almost 6months.... All this to avoid a girl.... It wasn't funny for me.... But brother I think I am better off now..Going thru the whole comments..... I had to advice myself.... Though I am out of it but not totally out of it..... It is hard to easily forget someone u trully care abt.... But u will be very happy if you take the hard decision..... It is very had.... But I took it, I think I am better off now... I ran like a lambo.... Deleted her contact.... Changed number....though I didn't change location.... I left social media for almost 6months.... All this to avoid a girl.... It wasn't funny for me.... But brother I think I am better off now..Going thru the whole comments..... I had to advice myself.... Though I am out of it but not totally out of it..... It is hard to easily forget someone u trully care abt.... But u will be very happy if you take the hard decision..... It is very had.... But I took it, I think I am better off now... I ran like a lambo.... Deleted her contact.... Changed number....though I didn't change location.... I left social media for almost 6months.... All this to avoid a girl.... It wasn't funny for me.... But brother I think I am better off now..
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Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by stoicnaira: 12:00pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Guy, it takes a man who had experienced such thing to understand your pain. Its a very painful thing esp when u ve never cheated on her. It hurts like mad bro! I passed through that situation, in fact out of curiosity I caught two them in a room. We were engaged as at then. I cried! I mourned! I had issues in my office because of the situation. My brother, I never knew it was all for good. Just that I was not able to see the future then. Currently, am happily married, with awesome wife. Best woman ever! She's got all I desired. A lady who adores and worships me. Dear, your situation is because she's not your wife. U need not think twice to move. I assure you one of the sweetest thing to enjoy in earth is having a lovely wife. I was really hurt and starved for months but not to die o. Yea, it usually appears as if life has come to an end. I must tell u its difficult for u because u ve slept with her but permit me to be raw, she no carry gold in between her thighs. Guy, be a man and forge ahead. Never consider going back and be careful not to fall into wrong hands again. If you see your wife dear, u ll understand all i ve said. I blamed myself for bn stupid but all the processes made me to cherish my queen today. Dear, move ahead! No need to think about it! Move! Move! Even if she comes back crying, begging, d answer is no way. Move on and stay away from any form of drug or chemicals. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by ivyy(f): 12:11pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
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Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by brookz: 12:13pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
amaraedec:Maybe ba she disvirgin u, if nt f**k off her & move on wit ur life in 1 peice |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Iphy93(f): 12:13pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Sorry abt d sad past, bt dat doesn't give u d audacity to take ur life. I was once in ur shoes bt I told maslf dat he doesn't deserve me. Wish we can have a one on one chat. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Spenx(f): 12:15pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
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Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by talk2bash42: 12:30pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
eeehhh sorry bro true luv is overrated u kill yourself because of a girl, thousands of them will pass through your grave and pass. best advice learn d act of moving on, girls r worth everything except dying for, I hate commenting on topics but I have to make an exception. join social clubs not alcohol clubs e.g gyms and sometimes religious groups helps if ure a Christian u have choirs to join if ure a Muslim go modrasat. most importantly find extracurricular activities aside your job to do. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by tomquest: 12:39pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Heineken: You be correct guy jare. When heartbreaker jam heartbreaker everybody go adjust belt. I just thank God say I discover some very authentic skin-feel condom brands early enough, if not maybe 2 or 3 chicalas for don carry belle for me. That thing wey badd girls think say dem sabi chop clean mouth, I don get PhD for the game. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Topestbilly(m): 12:46pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
amaraedec: She meant she was lucky to come across someone like you dat goes out of his way to provide her with the things she needed. On the matter. For ur own good block her off from every means of communications cos d more u pick her calls, chat her up and engage in things with her, the more u hurt urself. I just got over a similar heartbreak (4years courtship) and is not something one pray for his enemies. One important thing is, Don't Rush into any relationship for now give urself sometime.. Goodluck |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by TamedWolf90: 12:55pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
The thing is you said 2013....I am like what are you even saying because bro, you think you have seen worse buh no...personally I have seen dead people....just know that
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Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by junta007(f): 12:58pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Break up with her and move on with ur life. There are lots of responsible ladies out there, you wil surely find urs |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by UEDIBO: 1:11pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
ErnieSmallzz:BABY MAMA |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by badonkadonk: 1:29pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
amaraedec: It's better for a man to love a woman without his heart... Many of us men have been thru what u are going thru, some even worse than what you are going thru... And we are still breathing... Why? Cos no lady is worth giving up our right to life for... (happily married couples are exempted from this) First mistake.. You transferred the love you felt for your mother to her (No woman is worth that much priviledge) Second mistake.. You over-expressed it and expressed it with reckless abandon... (You shouldn't have done this cos Woman brain ehn... Hmmm! Sometimes e go dey do u like say make u open their cranium to look how their brain network take connect) Third mistake.. You built your world around her... At this point you were doomed... Never, ever, build your world around a woman.. I mean never, ever... Why? Cos dem just no sabe handle that much... Fourth mistake.. You let things get to u cos u lowered your defenses... Woman no dey get pity when it comes to attacking a man ruthlessly and without reason... Solution... Gather your trusted guys around you... People who understand heartbreak... Sorry! Your own done pass heartbreak.. Your own done turn heartmurdering.. Tell 'em as e dey go, trust me, many solutions go show but choose the most life guaranteeing one... Fight depressive thoughts with all you have got... Don't give up on yourself... Don't turn to liquor... Don't turn to hard drugs or cigarettes.. Turn to God... He is the only person that can truly support you during this trial of yours.. And last but not the least... DON'T YOU EVER THINK OF GOING BACK TO HER... EVEN IF SHE COMES BEGGING ON HER BELLY... DO NOT.. I REPEAT.. DO NOT ACCEPT HER BACK... Move on... Cos better babe dey wait you for front... Be reminded to learn from your previous mistake... Don't treat her bad buh be a Man and not let your emotions take the best of u.... |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by torqque7(m): 1:45pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Skmoda360: Thanks man..let's hope and pray Op uses the advice o. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
amaraedec: My dear man up. I pray you wont die but live. When a partner wants to walk away from you or cheat, its not because the next person is better than you, No, your partner may just be a habitual player, the heartless type or just wants to explore new things.. In relationships, its always good for the love to be reciprocal. If you are loving much and getting nothing back, exercise some restraint. Love is like a weighing balance with two equal weights on either scale. If the scale weighs heavier on one side, it will tilt, the framework will collapse. Have this mindset.. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Nobody: 1:59pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Nasri100: My dear ern.. Nawa o.. |
Re: GOING THROUGH A DEVASTATING BREAK UP. Please Help Me Friends!! Am Dying Silently by Profvic107(m): 2:00pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
Sir pls,There is nothing or none that can help u but Jesus and the Holy Spirit.... he is the burden lifter and the giver of peace.... secondly as a man get ur self more preoccupied with things such as new plans and projects... as the idle mind is a wondering mind which deprives peace and focus |
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