Mememan:

There please

thought as much too! People tend to confuse this a lot.

javispj:

what r u Sorry for..na u crack her heart,I mean break am"since na glass"..if rice no good for u..u no go try eba. OK u 1 go on hunger strike., wait make we see who go hungry..them dey beg person nowadays.. u even doing the single n searching ladies out there a favor., men r on the scarce side in the marriage sector.. one lady out of the way 10 ladies rejoice

funny but true. Dat you were cheated by just a single man out of over 3billion men in the world is no justification to close ur heart. There are certain steps and decisions we make in life dat we get to reap the negations in the longrun. Just imagine wen she's 50 or 60 without a child, a husband and a family of her own. Still bemused!

No buddy!.....just no! Ahn han

She informed you she has been cheating on you with another and asked you if you don't mind her continuing f*ucking the guy.

"Do you love me?"
"Yes, I do"
"Ok, don't worry about me fucking someone elee"

LOL.

Dump her cheating as*s as soon as possible. In fact, make it painful for her.

Who knows how many men she's f*ucking? Definitely more than two.

Do what is called "use and dump"

foolinlove:


You seem to care judging by your reaction.

I've been 4 years without a man in my life and I'm still going strong! God bless.

4 years and you are counting. Girl sort yourself out now. Women don't have much time.

If you were abused by a respected male figure (relative). Now is the time to meet a doctor and seek redress.

Besides Nairaland over sabi doesn't help girls. It won't help you either.

harsysky:


It's now I know why you hate men. One who hates people shouldn't give advice on love issues. If you can't love, how then do u give away sincere advice. First of all, handle your emotions. U are caging yourself. It's like you are in ur minds prison cos of men. You just don't have to hate us. After all, have you dated 1/1000th of the whole men in your own country, why then the generalization from just few folks?

I feel for you foolinlove. Your hatred even makes you act very aggressive at tiMes and very normal also. I was even surprised the advice you gave in a thread I opened. I was like "Foolinlove! Writing great about love?" I couldn't believe it. I had to make sure someone isn't using another "foolinlove" monicker.

I can't tell if the guy who ditched u is worth it or not. I just know that from all your comments, whether harsh or normal, you're a nice person.

So if a farmer retires then they can no longer give advice on farming?

foolinlove:


So if a farmer retires then they can no longer give advice on farming?

LOL

Jexbabs:


No!,that won't be a maturd thing to do.

Just tell her the truth ''you're ok with it if you really are'' or ''you're not ok with it if you're not''.

Well if you care about someone you want their happiness. But it doesn't mean you put your own pride on the line.

Yes, you have to be ok with it. But you don't have to agree.

It seems he cares a lot about this girl so it will be hard to get over. Read my thread about the no contact rule.

@tete7000

Bros just say yes and be collecting your pum pum,because a woman is like elephant meat one man alone cannot finish it unless you want to die

foolinlove:


So if a farmer retires then they can no longer give advice on farming?

Not a farmer who has made known how he/she hates farming, for there is no good in it. It's gonna take insanity to believe such farmer.

tete7000:


Read some of your comment with another dude and was surprised after what you claimed to have gone through you could offer someone this advice. Don't you think people should be truthful to themselves at all times? Why say yes when you intended no? Why not advise the guy to be honest he is not interested in dating someone who has another guy, that he can't play second fiddle? If we all will be honest and truthful with ourselves I believe there will be less pain, less heartbreak and less sorrow in the world. My thoughts.

See my above reply.

harsysky:


Not a farmer who has made known how he/she hates farming, for there is no good in it. It's gonna take insanity to believe such farmer.

I never claimed to hate love. Just men. Huge difference.

foolinlove:


I never claimed to hate love. Just men. Huge difference.

If you Don't hate love as you claim and hate men, you are contradicting yourself.

foolinlove:


I never claimed to hate love. Just men. Huge difference.

haha...hate and love in the same sentence? In fact, one immediately after the other?

So much skill on here

harsysky:


If you Don't hate love as you claim and hate men, you are contradicting yourself.

How so? The love of God is better than any. Men I don't like, but I have the love of God...

foolinlove:


How so? The love of God is better than any. Men I don't like, but I have the love of God...

hahahahahaaa....beht why na? I'm not sure if this is more hilarious than illogical

foolinlove:


How so? The love of God is better than any. Men I don't like, but I have the love of God...

More contradictions but now with God in the picture. God prefers you love everyone before coming to HIM. Why the prayer, " FOrgive us as we forgive those who trespass against us".

Dnt bring God in the pix of Hate , pls.

harsysky:


More contradictions but now with God in the picture. God prefers you love everyone before coming to HIM. Why the prayer, " FOrgive us as we forgive those who trespass against us".

Dnt bring God in the pix of Hate , pls.

I still don't see any contradiction.

God IS love. And maybe I am being hasty in saying I hate men, but my choice us to avoid relationships. I am actually still in love. But I see so many men doing the wrong thing and breaking hearts. I hate it.

I don't date women, never have, and so I can't hate them because they nevet did this to me.

I will celebrate a loving union of soneone else and ve happy for thosr who have found true love.

So where am I contradicting myself?

foolinlove:


I still don't see any contradiction.

God IS love. And maybe I am being hasty in saying I hate men, but my choice us to avoid relationships. I am actually still in love. But I see so many men doing the wrong thing and breaking hearts. I hate it.

I don't date women, never have, and so I can't hate them because they nevet did this to me.

I will celebrate a loving union of soneone else and ve happy for thosr who have found true love.

So where am I contradicting myself?

I dnt knw if I should cut open your head and put it clearly. You mentioned hate, didn't you? Now, you called God who stipulates that everyone loves even his enemies. Let's assume men are your enemies, won't you for God's sake love them?

harsysky:


I dnt knw if I should cut open your head and put it clearly. You mentioned hate, didn't you? Now, you called God who stipulates that everyone loves even his enemies. Let's assume men are your enemies, won't you for God's sake love them?

Okay. I really intensely dislike thr behavior of men. Better?

foolinlove, can't you tell you're being baited by trolls into answering for yourself?

davien:
foolinlove, can't you tell you're being baited by trolls?

I like arguing sharpens my mind.

foolinlove:


Okay. I really intensely dislike thr behavior of men. Better?

If you had been writing this people like myself won't be questioning you at all. I love you though, even if you hate men. ( Love of God actually)

foolinlove:


I like arguing sharpens my mind.

By all means then.. go on.

harsysky:


If you had been writing this people like myself won't be questioning you at all. I love you though, even if you hate men. ( Love of God actually)

How sweet. I have the love of God for everyone too. Despite my anger.

@Op... this your thread is a culture clash. It is not easy for Africans in general to wrap their heads around a person being bisexual....the reason for so many believing you are a guy. At the same time... before posting such a topic you should know that such would be like taboo in our culture. Just saying... good luck with advice.

Lool

solinoo:
Lool

just curious...newbie or oldie with a new profile? lol

foolinlove:


I'm guessong I can go for the rest of my life. Been 4 years so far. I didn't date out of pity. i didnt accept marriage proposal from pity. Was him chased me.

I don't have any heart to give. My heart is broken into a thousand little pieces. No one can mend that. Only God will mend when I die and am in His arms.

No matter how much I pray, I still love that one guy. Maybe u just can't comprehend what it is to love truly and wholly.

How do you go on loving a person who clearly doesn't love you in return for such a long amount of time? Do I sense self pity and low self esteem here? My dear friend, permit me to tell you that you were NEVER created for any PARTICULAR human being, OK? Move on already.

Pelon:
Their is this girl I am dating and we have been at it for weeks now she text me today and asked if I love her and I told her I do and she told me that their is this guy she was dating before she met me and she doesn't trust him that's why she decided to give me a chance and also that she love me and doesn't want me to get hurt if I eventually find out,and she also asked if I am okay with it...Pls guys advice me

She is not the one for you

Let her go....

Fake lady

foolinlove:
Say yes you're ok with her dating him. Then never speak to her again.

Well spoken