BrainnewsNg:


She is not the one for you

Let her go....

Fake lady

lol...Touche

Wouldn't u rather throw the question back to her?

My mum is too religious! Over 30 pictures of Jesus Christ hanging on our wall.I grew up thinking he was my uncle.

foolinlove:


I'm guessong I can go for the rest of my life. Been 4 years so far. I didn't date out of pity. i didnt accept marriage proposal from pity. Was him chased me.

I don't have any heart to give. My heart is broken into a thousand little pieces. No one can mend that. Only God will mend when I die and am in His arms.

No matter how much I pray, I still love that one guy. Maybe u just can't comprehend what it is to love truly and wholly.

Easy dear.. I was moved by your story.
But then, you can't just block off the happiness in your own life just because of someone else.

tk4rd:
Easy dear.. I was moved by your story.
But then, you can't just block off the happiness in your own life just because of someone else.

Maybe it has been long enough but am still coming to terms with myself and how the whole thing ended.

Maybe a lovely husband will sneak up on me when I least suspect? I pray so. Believe me, I pray so.

foolinlove

I don't care about getting guys attention, though. Because as I have said, ad nasuem, I met the guy I truly loved and he broke my heart. I still love him and cannot open up to anyone again.

Anyway, I'm not African, so maybe that would also explain my choice of name? Cultural difference plus being a fool in love with someone who don't love her.


My piece of advice. You are unhappy. Open up, free yourself, give yourself a chance again to love.
Thanks.

Pelon:
Their is this girl I am dating and we have been at it for weeks now she text me today and asked if I love her and I told her I do and she told me that their is this guy she was dating before she met me and she doesn't trust him that's why she decided to give me a chance and also that she love me and doesn't want me to get hurt if I eventually find out,and she also asked if I am okay with it...Pls guys advice me

Mike, face your studies.

My dear just seat and watch her if she is yours she will definitely do what will amaze you

foolinlove:


I don't care about getting guys attention, though. Because as I have said, ad nasuem, I met the guy I truly loved and he broke my heart. I still love him and cannot open up to anyone again.

Anyway, I'm not African, so maybe that would also explain my choice of name? Cultural difference plus being a fool in love with someone who don't love her.

if you didn't mention that you are not African, i would've asked if you are a lawyer. You string words together properly and it's impressive.
I am both a member of nairaland and an American forum called Quora. There is unfortunately a marked difference between the prowess of writers on quora and that of my darling nairaland. People in Nigeria seem to have jettisoned the idea of learning correct grammar and putting up impressive writeups. My people have embraced shorthand, fallicies, and other logical blunders that makes reading comments here very annoying. Now that you stated that you are not African, my curiosity has been doused adequately.

chigoizie7:



Like seriously?


That is a very unfair thing to say.

Why would u hate men?

Don't mind her. hating men, yet romancing romance section. or is she les** smh!

doskie:
if you didn't mention that you are not African, i would've asked if you are a lawyer. You string words together properly and it's impressive.
I am both a member of nairaland and an American forum called Quora. There is unfortunately a marked difference between the prowess of writers on quora and that of my darling nairaland. People in Nigeria seem to have jettisoned the idea of learning correct grammar and putting up impressive writeups. My people have embraced shorthand, fallicies, and other logical blunders that makes reading comments here very annoying. Now that you stated that you are not African, my curiosity has been doused adequately.

It's all linguistics. I love English, but it evolves and changes when isolated from it's source. It develops different characteristics and them turns into a different dialect of English.

Case in point is how white Americans speak vs. Black Americans. I have to say I love how black Americans speak

Are you okay @OP?

Never date a girl or let a girl date you out of pity..If she really love you like she said, she will let go of the other guy..nah mumu u b?

foolinlove:
Say yes you're ok with her dating him. Then never speak to her again.

why u say so?? To u whats d girl tryin 2 do

foolinlove:
Say yes you're ok with her dating him. Then never speak to her again.

oboi i hear say na male u b... If u b male n u put female.. Guy u an f up dude. Y do i quote ur type sef... Iritates

foolinlove:


Because I am a woman... why do you think I am a man? I hate men...

prove it plss.. I dnt like such guys. No self respect. Prove u a woman

Blossom023:
Seems you were just a rebound.

as d girl u r, base on ya thought as a girl. Wah do u tink dah girl x up2

Akjr:
prove it plss.. I dnt like such guys. No self respect. Prove u a woman

Woah. Someone doesn't like a smart woman who disagrees with them.

Phasesone:


I never asked you to prove it.........

and if my beliefs didnt affect you... then you wouldn't have replied...

Yep it's definitely a guy

foolinlove:


I am a woman, I have nothing to hide. But I don't need to prove anything to you. Believe what you want sha. It doesn't affect me.

You are a guy.

FuckTheM0ds:
especially NAIJA WOMEN

especially NAIJA WOMEN.

infact! naija WOMEN generally

Phasesone:
You are like a scapegoat the question you should ask yourself is if you want to remain the scapegoat.... You are a man allowing a girl to set the specs of the relationship... .

Do you want to remain the scapegoat?

Yes he wants to
I'm sorry but is this OP a man or boy?

This reminds me of wen i was dation sophia...(my age mate 22-22). And one bross studyin medcine came from no whr n begin to twist ma baby head wit maturity. Ma baby begin to twist ma own head dah he's only advicing ha. Evrynight advice. I was blind 2 see d truf behind. She go dei tell ma frnd say 'she dei lov d mature dude out ov pity, bt nah me she love.. EPISTLE!!! Buh base on sharp dude, i cut ma raba b4 i sky. Nw shes lookn 4 me.. Girls wicked GAN.. OP ma advice b say no girl x single oo. Cut ur raba n 4get Love

Uchihaitaci:

You are a guy.

Is that meant to be an insult? I'm stupid, fkd up etc... because I'm a guy? Lol. Check yourself.

Op...u dens ooo. So u ar ok wit anoda man bleepin ur gf in d name of love?

foolinlove:


It's all linguistics. I love English, but it evolves and changes when isolated from it's source. It develops different characteristics and them turns into a different dialect of English.

Case in point is how white Americans speak vs. Black Americans. I have to say I love how black Americans speak

yeah the way black Americans speak varies with their place in the society and their level of education. The educated ones use correct diction but with different accent from the whites and i am still baffled by how this is possible despite the fact that they were born there. It is perfectly correct that the English language here has been isolated from its source. But with internet: a channel for major exposure, one would think it should get better at least among our graduates, but.. Oh! Here we are.

doskie:
yeah the way black Americans speak varies with their place in the society and their level of education. The educated ones use correct diction but with different accent from the whites and i am still baffled by how this is possible despite the fact that they were born there. It is perfectly correct that the English language here has been isolated from its source. But with internet: a channel for major exposure, one would think it should get better at least among our graduates here, but.. Oh! Here we are.

Yeah but ppl can't really be blamed. Education levels differ, some ppl don't know how to educate and some people... well, they're just stupid :/

foolinlove:


I am a woman. But if u want to stoop to making childish insults that says more about you than it says about me. It shows everyone ur not smart enough to have intellectual arguments.

Actually he is saying the truth

ROTFL!
Bloody misogynistic Nigerian guys are suddenly preaching about the love of God 'cause someone said she hates men.
Great joke

foolinlove:


I don't care about getting guys attention, though. Because as I have said, ad nasuem, I met the guy I truly loved and he broke my heart. I still love him and cannot open up to anyone again.

Anyway, I'm not African, so maybe that would also explain my choice of name? Cultural difference plus being a fool in love with someone who don't love her.

After reading your comments, I felt sad that you held yourself down for so long in the name of "you loved him truly and he broke your heart into a thousand pieces," that is a pathetic reason to live your life by.

If you didn't know, you are here on earth to learn overcoming by/through the experiences in your life.
And so far from your confessions you are comfortable sitting by the well enjoying the pity till Jesus comes by, instead of raising your eyes, mind and heart above the mentality of brokenness to joy that is still locked in a piece of your broken heart.

There is a broken heart that a piece of yours would fit in and complete, look up, he is out there.

menxer:


After reading your comments, I felt sad that you held yourself down for so long in the name of "you loved him truly and he broke your heart into a thousand pieces," that is a pathetic reason to live your life by.

If you didn't know, you are here on earth to learn overcoming by/through the experiences in your life.
And so far from your confessions you are comfortable sitting by the well enjoying the pity till Jesus comes by, instead of raising your eyes, mind and heart above the mentality of brokenness to joy that is still locked in a piece of your broken heart.

There is a broken heart that a piece of yours would fit in and complete, look up, he is out there.

I'm not asking for pity. I've made a decision, justified it and no one seems to want to accept ir respect that.

foolinlove:


It's all linguistics. I love English, but it evolves and changes when isolated from it's source. It develops different characteristics and them turns into a different dialect of English.

Case in point is how white Americans speak vs. Black Americans. I have to say I love how black Americans speak

I also love how black Americans speak English -- the educated ones in particular -- than white Americans. I see you love engaging in arguments. You are also good at presenting your points. Sometimes, you just risk being misunderstood due to the pain from your past relationships.

I hope you meet your prince charming in no distant time, who will shower you with love and care and correct the notion which is deep-rooted in your mind that all men are 'bad'. There are still many good men out there; I hope you will recognize their kind nature when you come across them.