Bluette:
Wow.. Life is so funny. I pray we won't fall from grace to grass. Thanks for sharing.

modelmike7:
No condition is permanent. Be nice to the people you meet on your way up, cos you might meet them on your way down...... Thanks for sharing Op.

eyinjuege:
Op, people hate the guy for not encouraging bribery. He's being hated for doing the right thing!

I don't think he's done anything bad to any worker from your write up.

I've not read anything about him not being humble.

He could have asked your husband for a bribe to get a contract with them but he didn't. His company has just lost a honest man I'd say.

We all will experience set backs at a point or the other, but that's usually for a period. The experience makes us stronger, wiser. The dude's gaining his own life experience now.

eyinjuege:
Op, people hate the guy for not encouraging bribery. He's being hated for doing the right thing!

I don't think he's done anything bad to any worker from your write up.

I've not read anything about him not being humble.

He could have asked your husband for a bribe to get a contract with them but he didn't. His company has just lost a honest man I'd say.

We all will experience set backs at a point or the other, but that's usually for a period. The experience makes us stronger, wiser. The dude's gaining his own life experience now.

eyinjuege:
Op, people hate the guy for not encouraging bribery. He's being hated for doing the right thing!

I don't think he's done anything bad to any worker from your write up.

I've not read anything about him not being humble.

He could have asked your husband for a bribe to get a contract with them but he didn't. His company has just lost a honest man I'd say.

We all will experience set backs at a point or the other, but that's usually for a period. The experience makes us stronger, wiser. The dude's gaining his own life experience now.

Kaira333:
lolxxxx, Maybe dats d case but I don't think its right to become everyone's enemy in d office. Nobody is encouraging bribery and I didn't say he is against people bribing them. Are u telling us dat appreciating ur costumers after doing good business with you is bad? Its not bribe because d person didn't ask for it, its from ur hrt just to encourage him or her. Eat alone and die alone no de favour business sometimes ooooo

Kaira333:
My dear brothers and sisters am not a good writer but I will try to pass my message.

Hubby came back one day from office and was like baby there is this big company I will like to do bussines with, dat one of their workers invited him to see their Oga on top to know if he will approve the contract. So my hubby was like nne please I want u to escort me with all pleasure I accepted. When we got there, Oh! My God, a very big company, u can't even trek to many places inside d company, They have over 10000 trucks ( sinotruck) To cut d story short after all d procedure we met the Oga on top. D man was acting over busy man and all other unnessary show off stuff for us to know dat he is d Oga on top. After everything d man gave us small contract dat is not even up to 1 million. Other workers were complaining abt d man dat he is too stingy he won't even allow their business associates to dash them anything, he will get upset and terminate d contract. Saying dat d person is trying to bribe them. Almost everybody in dat company hate him (Although e no concern me, Na them sabi) what marvelled me today was as I was busy recording our arrived goods ooo. I saw someone dat looks like dat " Oga on top" on top of jakata and d jakata stopped besides our office. I was like so dis Oga on top came to visit us, dat means we don hammer wella today. He went inside our office to meet hubby after brief discussion the man left. I rushed inside immediately asking hubby if he has approved d full contract for us. To my greatest surprise, The man has been sacked, he actually came for help. Hubby told me he came d other day when I wasn't around to ask him for advice on how to start up a new beginning now he came to ask hubbysome certain questions about bussines. Oh! My God I was speechless. I felt for d man and I learnt some lessons today and I want to share it with Nairalanders,

1. Please whatever position u are today or u will still attain tomorrow, please let dat no enter ur head, don't use dat position to suppress or oppress those dat are under you because u don't know tomorrow.

2. Please no matter how big d company u are working with is, no matter ur rank, try and have ur personal bussines no matter how small it may look like.

3. Neva ignore or treat anybody dat comes ur way badly and always remain thankful to God for whatever u think u have because he is d giver of all things.

Feel free to share any similar experience u have encountered, We all are still learning.

cococandy:
Where's this appreciation money supposed to come out from? His personal salary (seeing as he's just another employee) or the company's money? Just asking.

Kaira333:
Dear u are getting me wrong, I wasn't refering to d man. What I mean is people dat do business with them, like for instance we, Assuming we get a good contract with them, after d business we can wish to give d worker dat invited us something to show appreciation. If d man happens to know or see dat, dats a big problem. I didn't say he should show appreciation. For what kwanu?

taryour:



asides the fact that I see you as the BAD person here and not the other guy. the bigger part is that you are likely an Ungrateful person. My issue with you here is you not appreciating that contract you were given because it's not up to 1 million. Do you know how many people are out there looking for such opportunity who are even far better than your own company?

if you do not appreciate the little you get/have and treat it well, big ones wunt come your way. it's not a curse, it's just life. I rest my case.

cococandy:
Same thing I thought when I was reading her story.

Nigerians like to feel as is people owe them. What does the man owe them? He gave them a contact and she's complaining that it's a small one not even up to one million naira. Haba. Seriously.
We need to get rid of this entitlement mentality.

Kaira333:
What is dis one saying? U don't know how much is involved so please step aside. I only shared dis because of d lessons I personally learnt. Like I said earlier I felt for d man and we are going to help him out in anyway we can, so u dat is saying we didn't appreciate and big ones won't come our way na u sabi and may it be back to sender 10x in Jesus name. Amen.

Gaborone:



Are you minding the op. Coming here to gloat publicly about an innocent man's misfortune, to the irritation of everyone. I wouldn't know where she got that sense of entitlement from.

#Just see how bad some people can be. You give them something, they say you are stingy. You don't give them anything, you are wicked. I don't get it.

Gaborone:
You've not succeeded in convincing us as to how that man treated you wrongly. Perhaps he wasn't really corky when yourself and hubby visited his office. Maybe it was just both of you feeling intimidated and insecure while before him, as a result of his position as of then.

Then again, you seem to be painfully oblivious of the fact that in this clime, any superior who doesn't allow his employees misbehave or act as they like is termed 'wicked'. After they finished gossiping with you, did you ever stop to think that his employees may have painted a wrong picture about him because he handles them firmly.

Why am I rambling? I am, because you actually sound like the bad (very bad) person here, not the man. What's more, please, don't go to God's altar to rejoice at his misfortune, cos I'm almost sure that would be your next line of action. Thank you.

#okbye

Kaira333:
Haha haha haha haha nawaoh oooo so u didn't see where I wrote abt his actions towards us(acting over busy man) Nnem I just learnt a very big lesson yesterday, if u wish u can learn if u don't wish please carry ur wella de go. God knows I Neva mocked d man and I won't do dat. It seems frustration de worry u. Lolxxxxxxxx.

taryour:



asides the fact that I see you as the BAD person here and not the other guy. the bigger part is that you are likely an Ungrateful person. My issue with you here is you not appreciating that contract you were given because it's not up to 1 million. Do you know how many people are out there looking for such opportunity who are even far better than your own company?

if you do not appreciate the little you get/have and treat it well, big ones wunt come your way. it's not a curse, it's just life. I rest my case.

taryour:


of course, very typical. guilty conscience right. It's obvious you dint appreciate it from your write up na. if you did you wunt come here telling us how the man was in your words

"" To cut d story short after all d
procedure we met the Oga on top. D man was
acting over busy man and all other unnessary
show off stuff for us to know dat he is d Oga on
top. After everything d man gave us small
contract dat is not even up to 1 million ""

Gaborone:


Please, take several seats!

Kaira333:
Yes oooo as I queen. I need several seats, golden and special ones and it must be in front okay? Haha haha haha haha. Stop being a saddist it won't help u. Learn ur lessons or move

taryour:


your EGO and high shoulders wunt help you lady, get down from that high end deceiving you, find your faults and work on it. no one is saint in this life but finding our faults, correcting them and taking to corrections makes us a better person and also makes this life better. "" now pls don't get me wrong, I am in no place to correct you, I have only pointed out what you did which is bad"

and no I am not exchanging words with you, I don't do e-fights. afterall you came out all defensive knowing fully well of your actions.
best of luck to you

Kaira333:
Dear please I don't need to exchange any word with you, I have shared my lessons if u wish to learn from dat good, if u don't want, fine. Okay?

Kaira333:
Nne, like I said earlier Iearn ur lessons or move on, u gave me a seat I accepted it whole hrtedly and u are still there winning. Bw both of us tell urself d truth, who need to find her fault? Definitely d ansa is u. So woman, go find ur faults remember to shade off ur Ego and high shoulder in case u see urself in any high rank tomorrow. That has being my major topic okay?

Gaborone:


Can you just stop saying you've shared your lessons? The only thing you've shared here is some gibberish that proves that indeed, the heart of man is desperately wicked. Nothing else, I'm sorry.

taryour:



enjoy yourself while it last madam. The whole floor is all yours....... PEACE.