Hello Mamas!
Yesterday I read a thread of a man who was curious as to why women blow out of proportion after marriage/childbirth. I snapped out after he wrote this: "And why do they express shock when their husbands go after trim and shapely ladies outside? Is it that they didn't know that men are typically motivated by sensual sights? Are this category of ladies aware that the game is becoming dangerously tighter because "oga" is constantly inundated with young, trim, energetic and sexy girls on a daily basis; while his own wife keeps growing fat and out of shape and looking like his mother?" This motivated my own thread!
Take a look at these true life stories:
1. A former colleague of mine who is married with a daughter lives very close to me. She's still in her twenties, tall, elegant and endowed with this hourglass shape men die for. Her husband is quite young too, with a comfortable source of income. You will think they are dating when they stroll outside - babe is still hot because she waist-trained after her baby, talk about flattest tummy! Now I was, to say the least, shocked, when I learnt Oga was going after other ladies, still in our neighborhood I mean, these girls can't measure to the wife half.

2. A lady I know advised me after my first baby to look trim and sexy so that my husband won't go after other women. You won't believe she is a mother of four, I really looked up to her for inspiration in my keeping fit regimen. Babe did not know her perfect gentleman was busy banging anything in skirts around town. She probably thought depriving herself of certain foods, working out and staying trim would put Oga in check!

3. What about our celebrities who retain their pre-baby weights after their babies yet their divorces are most times based on infidelity? what about countless beautiful women who put in their very best to maintain their shape but are still being cheated on?

What is my point? My fellow women, if you think you are staying fit, trim and sexy so that your husband wouldn't cheat on you, please change that mindset. A CHEAT IS A CHEAT, no point going on a long thing! Stay fit because of the health benefits, you wouldn't want the health risks associated with obesity, would you?
All these Nairaland boys bashing African Women with little or no respect, tuale!
All the men (married and unmarried) who gallivant around in potbellies yet criticize childbearing women, chop knuckle! It's a man's world, isn't it?
All the cheaters continue cheating, the day of reckoning would sure come

Women please, stay fit and trim not for Oga but for your health! *drops mic*

hahahahahahaha;

I concur. Stay fit to be healthy,it's just that simple. Diabetes and high BP with all complications that come with them is real.
People cheat because they do not have the fear of God in them.

I try to stay fit both for my health and my Oga's eyes. There's nothing wrong in staying fit for your partner. I require same of him.

No pot belly tire-neck man has the right to expect a fit wife.

A cheating spouse will always cheat irrespective of how you look. If you like turn to broomstick in the name of trimming down, he will still wander. The op is right. Keep fit for the health benefits so you won't be too heartbroken when you discover he's cheating.

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Exactly just do you. There is always an excuse for cheating but the real truth is that the cheater is a dog and lacks self control. Even if you give it to him real good, turn to a slave,have all the plastic surgery with the best surgeon,he will still cheat.Just stay fit cos it is healthy and not for a pathetic cheater.

Amhappy:
I concur. Stay fit to be healthy,it's just that simple. Diabetes and high BP with all complications that come with them is real.
People cheat because they do not have the fear of God in them.

Asin ehn, too much complications these days

cococandy:
I try to stay fit both for my health and my Oga's eyes. There's nothing wrong in staying fit for your partner. I require same of him.

No pot belly tire-neck man has the right to expect a fit wife.

On point!

bellville:
A cheating spouse will always cheat irrespective of how you look. If you like turn to broomstick in the name of trimming down, he will still wander. The op is right. Keep fit for the health benefits so you won't be too heartbroken when you discover he's cheating.

My sister! Irrespective of how hawwt u look, a dog is a dog o.

Dabbyfab:
Exactly just do you. There is always an excuse for cheating but the real truth is that the cheater is a dog and lacks self control. Even if you give it to him real good, turn to a slave,have all the plastic surgery with the best surgeon,he will still cheat.Just stay fit cos it is healthy and not for a pathetic cheater.

Glad to read this, u've made a lotta sense

A cheat indeed will always be a cheat!

Theres this lady who's very pretty, portable and "shapely" still after 3kids, her fitness regimen is like that of a sports person! You name it she goes the extra mile so as to remain attractive and sezy looking for her husband.

The husband did cheat on her with an over weight woman.

He said he just wanted to have a feel of what its like to do a big woman! And he kept that relationship for years!!! Till he got caught! Lolz.

He loves his wife trim( after all she's the one people see him with) but his mistress "big" the secret one that satisfies his urges.

Likewise most men that say they like their women big! The curiosity to explore the other size will also make him cheat.

Point is don't lose weight or gain it because of a mans acceptance and approval! Do it because you like it and loves who stares back at you from the mirror.

Our 5 fingers are of different sizes and length for a purpose.

Life will be such a bore if we are all tall, all short, all fat, all slim, all pretty or all ugly.

Variety is the spice of life.

Love yourself, be healthy, be happy.

I don hear

vanity upon vanity. Ordinary dust!

Ok

Ok. Seen.

No b lie

only God can save us ooo ...... cos human being can never be satisfied with anything dey have

Fat Or Outta Shape.....

The Lost Rib Will Still Be The Lost Rib....



Mama Segun Is Still Yhur Wife....

Above all is LOVE.

Honestly it's so easy to cheat....I don't even have babe yet and there's cheating opportunities everywhere lol
I pray Lord gimme the strength and will power to dip my ladle in her vichyssoise and hers only lol
It's a good thing to keep fit tho, not just for your enter but for yourself

Even if u ar Miss world,he will still cheat on u with the most ugliest babe.My advice,keep fit for urself,make urself happy,take care of ur kids,and be happy.Cos no matter how u try to satisfy him,he will still crawl out to meet them(side chicks).A man will always be a man

So on point. So true.

Make sense!

lol

Ok we don hear but I stay fit 4 my health and 4 Oga at home becos I don dey tell my boo sey if any babe eye u abi na you eye the babe lasan I go just lick yoruba lollipop(AFOSE) swear 4 both of una becos na you turn me 2 after one..lol

Y, na women come full ds thread. Haba, y Una com dey do Una witch and wizard meeting on top our matter.

@asmauDanjuma come and chop ooo, ur food is ready. Lets see how u'll eat ds ur delicious meal

arrant nonsense,you better get down to the real world before you die of frustration,your husband is not your mate,he is your boss but a benevolent dictator,if he decides to Bleep your best friend pregnant,u will discover u are so silly to abandon him and the marriage because very soon the man you remarry too will be worse that your last hubby.men are polygamous and if you can lay claim to any sense at all ,you would have notice that because a man bleeps ur best friend doesnt mean he hates you his wife.i didnt even bother to read your story in full ,who is cheating who.in marriage the African way it is about the wife's fidelity and the reason being that if you Bleep more than one man,we dont know who owns the pregnancy and the child and the entire society becomes confused and disorganized.


your only way out for you is to find how you get married to kumuyi of deeper life cus i cant guarantee u of fidelity with the pastors chris them,


very unnecessary article,you can as well teach women how to wear their pant.and who tells you some hubbies dont prefer their wives to be orobos.

please pardon me.,your advise is really very very unnecessary.did you talk to ur mum before writing these?

inemani:
Hello Mamas!
Yesterday I read a thread of a man who was curious as to why women blow out of proportion after marriage/childbirth. I snapped out after he wrote this: "And why do they express shock when their husbands go after trim and shapely ladies outside? Is it that they didn't know that men are typically motivated by sensual sights? Are this category of ladies aware that the game is becoming dangerously tighter because "oga" is constantly inundated with young, trim, energetic and sexy girls on a daily basis; while his own wife keeps growing fat and out of shape and looking like his mother?" This motivated my own thread!
Take a look at these true life stories:
1. A former colleague of mine who is married with a daughter lives very close to me. She's still in her twenties, tall, elegant and endowed with this hourglass shape men die for. Her husband is quite young too, with a comfortable source of income. You will think they are dating when they stroll outside - babe is still hot because she waist-trained after her baby, talk about flattest tummy! Now I was, to say the least, shocked, when I learnt Oga was going after other ladies, still in our neighborhood I mean, these girls can't measure to the wife half.

2. A lady I know advised me after my first baby to look trim and sexy so that my husband won't go after other women. You won't believe she is a mother of four, I really looked up to her for inspiration in my keeping fit regimen. Babe did not know her perfect gentleman was busy banging anything in skirts around town. She probably thought depriving herself of certain foods, working out and staying trim would put Oga in check!

3. What about our celebrities who retain their pre-baby weights after their babies yet their divorces are most times based on infidelity? what about countless beautiful women who put in their very best to maintain their shape but are still being cheated on?

What is my point? My fellow women, if you think you are staying fit, trim and sexy so that your husband wouldn't cheat on you, please change that mindset. A CHEAT IS A CHEAT, no point going on a long thing! Stay fit because of the health benefits, you wouldn't want the health risks associated with obesity, would you?
All these Nairaland boys bashing African Women with little or no respect, tuale!
All the men (married and unmarried) who gallivant around in potbellies yet criticize childbearing women, chop knuckle! It's a man's world, isn't it?
All the cheaters continue cheating, the day of reckoning would sure come

Women please, stay fit and trim not for Oga but for your health! *drops mic*

I am sorry for you. Keep looking for the bad examples to emulate. You should keep fit for you and your spouse. Life is not perfect. All you can do is do the right thing as much as you can. When you say you will keep fit for yourself alone when you are married, you are already on dangerous ground. Your relationship is already shaky. I don't know why people love using negative examples to justify their argument.

Ovialekhe:
Even if u ar Miss world,he will still cheat on u with the most ugliest babe.My advice,keep fit for urself,make urself happy,take care of ur kids,and be happy.Cos no matter how u try to satisfy him,he will still crawl out to meet them(side chicks).A man will always be a man

bless you.sensible african woman with happy marriage.

lol
I came to this conclusion after I read about Caroline Danjuma. A dog is indeed a dog.

I don't know y a Lady should called ha husband cheater as if she's d one dat pays for d bride Price, if Na me I go open door send u parking any day u nag.
if u Lady wan to cheat go n pay d man price n have ur way full stop.