I'd rather live alone,than have an unfaithful wife under my roof. I don't pray my wife cheats but if anyone catches her doing it,nobody should help me save any marriage. Just spill the beans and let's go our separate ways.

Chaiii!!! Nigerians and hypocrisy!! If it were your Uncle cheating on his wife, you wouldn't have given a second. If a man cheats on his wife it's her fault. If a woman cheats in her husband it's her fault.

Chaiii!!! Nigerians and hypocrisy!! If it were your Uncle cheating on his wife, you wouldn't have given it a second thought. If a man cheats on his wife it's her fault. If a woman cheats on her husband it's her fault.

Ishilove:

Send an anonymous text to your uncle. Describe everything, plus the result of your investigation. Please remain anon.

After that whatever happens is their own palaver.

Thos is the only reasonable comment from all the female folks that have commented thus far. Tell your Dad about it or do as @crackhouse suggested earlier. Ignore all the female folks here telling you to mind your own business, they are only trying to p[rotect their own as that is exactly what most of them do! Cheat! He is your uncle, not her. If her sister caught her in the act, she'd still p[rotect her, but imagine if her sister caught yoir uncle, what do you think she'll do with the info? Keep mum? I think not so!

Family over a cheating biatch. If she infects your uncle and thier children with HIV, you will come to NL to post a regret thread. The only thing I'll add is ; do not break the news to your uncle directly, it needs to be done by an elderly person.

iPopAlomo:



Just imagine... how heartless cash one be...? What if the woman is passing off her lovers children for the husband... if you're a woman... I pray no man falls into your Karashika trap... infact... shame on you... whoever you are...

angry?

Because your uncle is having Erratic Power supply.

HateU2:
nd u want him to destroy the family. Smh. See them. Some men sha

bro the family is already destroyed,if she get pregnant tomorow she wil claim its her husband.even david in the bible suffer the concequence when he takes one of his mens wife.

spit, puke, piss, & shit

cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

guy leave sabi for sabinus and mata for Mathias. use it to make ursekf stronger. u saw it for u to kw wat tomorrow holds for u n make amends.

chronique:
I'd rather live alone,than have an unfaithful wife under my roof. I don't pray my wife cheats but if anyone catches her doing it,nobody should help me save any marriage. Just spill the beans and let's go our separate ways.

but men are polygamous in mature abi?

HateU2:
nd u want him to destroy the family. Smh. See them. Some men sha

And u think marriage/Family filled with infidelity is a good one?
Not saying he should say what he saw though.

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

You made a huge mistake. You would have called your aunts attention so she knows you have seen her then her reaction will determine your next line of action. If she feels scared of remorseful, you just warn her sternly to desist or you will tell her husband but if she acts callously, just go ahead and tell your dad or anyone she is close to to caution her because your uncle may not take it with kid gloves.

Op relax now, she only went to breastfeed the man and nothing more.

byvan03:
Do exactly what you would do if your uncle was the one you caught .

U said it all just my mind /opinion

Please, if it is possible, tell your mum... Tell her everything. She should know how to cut her (your aunts) tail

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

What about giving ur phone number to d receptionist to confirm his allegation... If u do, u can take then take pictures to back up ur point?

Why not mind your business. Besides, you didn't catch the woman red-handed. You can't even defend she's the one.

[quote author=Jadonjack post=47038869]Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.
i dont believe this story is true

Bros is mumulism worrying you? Why didn't you take pisure so you can use it to blackmail the sh*t out of her...I for one like my pounded yam, pounded not stirred with what she's done, I have found a permanent place for pounded yam and efo riro...without pisure or video she will deny everything and make your Uncle, nephews and nieces hate you...so just swallow what you saw and wait for another opportunity.

robosky02:
op what did you call the place ... Guest House ok

and you thought its your uncles wife abi ............ that mean you don't even

and what are you doing there? hmmmmmm

one lawyer spotted. can you see cross examination

teekay213:
to marry dey fear me.i have two neighbours,married women that fvck outside.and the most shocking thing is their husbands knows.crazy world.

are you f*ckin' serious?? I'd rather be a single person (parent) than to be with a cheating partner

Mindfulness:
The receptionist should be fired for not respecting the guest's privacy.

If I were you, I would mind my own business since you are not close to your uncle.
If it was an uncle who is close to me, I would confront the lady on the spot and tell her that she has a week to go to confession or else I will.

You won't live to see the next day.... I bet you don't wanna c how desperate ladies can go.

About 20yrs ago, my uncle, who's family lived like 4km from my family but works 400km from home. He comes for weekends at the time.

Something official brought him home unexpectedly. His wife didnt sleep at home that night leaving 4 female children on their own for the night with no explanation where she went. She drove home 5am in the morning to see her husbands official car at home. She immediately drove away to my house. She arrived our house crying on her knees begging my parents to intervene.

Even more unfortunate, she forgot her jewelry at the hotel. My bro was sent to pick it up and was given the room number. He told me he met the man still sleeping under covers, he asked for them and the man let him carry them back home.

My father summoned my uncle and their issues were resolved and i dont know how. I know my uncle is so calm and cool headed.

Fast forward 8yrs later, they moved to Abj, i lived with them for my 6mths IT. I was disgusted because this woman was all over my uncle's back with false accusations of sleeping with his secretary, colleages or any female around him. He worked with HR dept and traveled all over the country for weeks which she always complain. This woman was holier than most people i know and goes to a different church to her husband's. She started following him only when his office got him a brand new car which she will only enter on sundays. She couldnt stand me seating in front of the new car so she started coming with us to our church saying she has to start riding this car before young girls thinks he is not married!

WOMEN EH!

U Were Nt Too Close To Ur Uncle And U Re Disturbing Urself Cos Of Sontin Sontin..... Close Dah Chapter Bro Who Know's If Its A Mutual Understanding.... Or Maybe She Came With The Man To See D Manager Also

Jadonjack:




And if you read very well, you ll see the reason why I was at the guest house

lol the guy no get eyes. You enumerated clearly in brackets that (you went to see a manager) maybe for employment purpose or for an earlier booking of Olosho

[size=18pt]Pay no mind to the dimwits and feminist mafia out in full swing to shield this fellow cheat.
Do what any sane right thinking individual will do, tell your Uncle.
You might want to put somethings into consideration first: Be absolutely sure it was her you saw. If need be, in company of your Uncle take one of her photos to the receptionist and tip him/her generously to spill some more information.
Phone numbers, date of booking (might coincide with dates Uncle was on business trips).
With everything in the bag, then set the trap.
You'd only be strengthening family ties here. I see no reason why you shouldn't tell him.[/size]

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

Are u sure she isn't a twin ....
well on a serious not if she really is d one...I ll advice u just lock up ND carryon with ur normal business.... so that posterity would not have it dat...u caused their breaking up

My dear pls be mute in order not to be the reason for a failed union....if u can talk senses into her politely,cool but don't think or do otherwise. A day is gonna come when she will be exposed,if she doesn't retrace her steps.

Ladies pls don't walk down the aisle when u ain't tired of sharing ur national cake mbok...stop laying curses to urself and bringing misfortunes to ur born or unborn children.
UDO DIRI UNU OOOO!!!

Who ever believes a woman is satisfied with the same dick for the rest of her life is deceiving oneself. Most women are only faithful because they dont know how to cheat and go scotfree, some are afraid of where they will go to when caught.

Take away the insecurities, women will flirt more....and more.