byvan03:
Do exactly what you would do if your uncle was the one you caught .

Priceless piece of advise

cococandy:
So many pained people on this thread
Flipping hypocrites.

And you are??

This is a very delicate issues. you'd be shocked you go report the woman to her husband and she would turn it around and you would become the enemy of the family.
pillow talk is powerful. except of course you have prove. but honestly it's non of your business. You'd start a war, totally break your uncle. leave the kids in a broken home. You sure you want that on your chest?
leave it be. your uncle will find out for himself. If there is one thing I can swear on my life. no one is that careful when they are doing wrong. she would slip. He would find out. Just give it time.

Some ladies like "prick" pass their lives.

victorD3:
I once saw a friend's wife at Abuja while she was suppose to be in Calabar where she stays. The friend works in uyo and visits her weekends.

The babe warned me to pretend I never saw her and that's what I did o. Well they now have a baby so I guess she wouldn't have such time anymore.

Truly depressing. The lengths they can go just to disgrace themselves and their cuckold husbands. From Abeokuta to Lagos; from Calabar to Abuja.

Always two sides to every coin, if you say it, what will happen will happen, if you don't it will still happen if the woman continue.

If you are a christian and you trust your Pastor inform him, if you are a Muslim and you trust your Imam, tell him, if you are a traditionist and you trust your baba, tell him.

They may manage the information very well, stop talking to friends especially those that knows the family. biko!

EnlightenedSoul:



What's most intriguing is the conviction with which they use that same line. It's as if they truly believe it.

It's more of a tactic. one of the ways they use to shame women into accepting that we don't have sexuality so to speak. if you say you can have sex without the emotions, they label you a slut. So in order not to be called a slut, you accept their definition of your own feeling.
Very clever. Misogyny at its finest.


Duh. Only a retardd will believe a mature woman can't have no-strings-attached sex.

Jadonjack:
Things are really happning in this world of ours....

I'm not really close to this my uncles(my dad's younger brother) family but we do meet and chat occasionally.

I was about driving out of the guest house few hrs ago(was dere to see the manager) when I noticed a woman who look familiar walking hand in hand with a strange man into the guest house, I stylishly followed them and I saw clearly that the woman was the same woman I thought her to be( my uncles wife).

I approached the receptionist to asked about what I saw and I was told they were couple and that they come like that 2-3times a month.

I was amazed cos my uncle whom I attended his wedding isn't the one I saw in the guest house, also, he stays in Abeokuta not Lagos whr I saw the "couple".

To affirm what I saw, I called my mum to know the state of their marriage and she said they still lives in abeokuta that it seems the husband(my uncle) is on a business trip.

I left the guest house few minutes ago but I just can't stop thinking...

What the heck is wrong with ladies of nowadays?
What should I do with this information??
What will happen if this information is divulged?? What will happen if its not??

My friend,I will advise you to keep ur mouth shut since you cannot confront the woman in the guest house. Learn how to be a man.

May God help the married women of today oooo, I no know wetin those Bros dem carry way dey bust (women) their head oooo... God abeg increase the strength of my man to perform e duty ni.



Sometime ago someone said to me at the gas station that I was too cute to be married.

tomquest:


You are a good woman.
You would make a good wife (if you ain't already married)
You would make a good home.

God bless your kind and help great men find you. amen

Amen.... Not yet married. Still praying for the 'One'.

smileysmiley:
you seriously don't believe what you typed, right your thinking is quite shallow o... beat and boo her for what? did she kill anybody? and then you had to end it with snapping and videoing for the internet... Nigerians are truly barbarians, what happened to minding your own business.... that is how a man was killed for stealing a generator early yesterday morning and he was tied to it and his dead body was being ridiculed with different camera snapping for the Internet... see people hailing his murderers like they were some kind of heroes.... why should such barbaric step be taken? sweetheart have you never cheated on your lover before? should such be done to you if you were caught? stop the barbaric thought before it eats too deep into you.... say no to jungle justice

R u d one? Free m abeg,if u r nt satisfied wif ur partner divorce is d best.

See

cococandy:
OP sorry I've an opinion but I'll keep it to myself because it's possible that like most Nigerians you're a 'possible' shameless hypocrite.

If you saw your uncle in a guest house with a woman not his wife, would you come here to ask us what to do?
Wouldn't you be preaching to his wife (if she finds out) that no marriage is without problem. She should ensure, pray for him, try to win his heart back, be more submissive and the host of the asinine things you folks remember when a man cheats on his wife.

Not holding brief for his wife but we are tired of the hypocrisy bro.

you cannot be making such comparison, it is a man's world., women were created for men and not the reverse... You cannot upturn nature... A man can marry as much wives as he chooses, with as many concubine he chooses as far as he can take care of them, u cannot say the same for women.... This is Africa... Bigamy is not a crime...
So please be guided...

cococandy:

It's more of a tactic. one of the ways they use to shame women into accepting that we don't have sexuality so to speak. if you say you can have sex without the emotions, they label you a slut. So in order not to be called a slut, you accept their definition of your own feeling.
Very clever. Misogyny at its finest.


Duh. Only a retardd will believe a mature woman can't have no-strings-attached sex.

Good point. Here I was thinking it's women having the reputation of being generally much better at hiding their tracks, thereby making men oblivious to their motivations (whilst fellow women are far less so, naturally), that must've cultivated the idea. That, or wishful thinking. I mean, the naïveté is just through the roof.

sanyahkod:
I once saw my friend's mum whom I know to have a loyal husband with another man in a hotel.



It's 12 years now and I didn't tell a soul. I don't want to be the cause of a broken home.


It's not everything the eyes sees that the mouth says.


It's such a cruel world we live in.

Well, if the woman in question had thought about the safety of her family, she wouldn't be messing around.

If I caught my uncles wife in such situation, and I have enough evidence, I will anonymously blackmail her for a cool cash, den, send the whole details to every member of the family, her children inclusive.( the husband might forgive her, but I want every other person to know what she does, it will be more shameful)


As an adult, u should be ready to face every consequences of ur actions, so, a cheating wife should take responsibility of her actions when caught.

She would have thought of the consequences b4 opening her legs and throwing the legs up and down and making places available for someone that is not her husband.

9ja4show,bulldoza, Gbegiri101... I am with you guys.

cococandy and Hate2u deserve to be flogged.


Don't quote me

Amebo, what did you find go guest house, is it not the same way, go jor

see how their bodies are peppering them sure the man is somewhere feeling like the player not knowing his wife is 10times the player Nigerian men close their eyes to the cheating because they themselves are the dons while the silly men think its their right

njokusboy:


Where is the place of logic in this your story....
When someone is cheating in an examination, your logic says that you shouldn't report them because you don't want the exam to be a failure..... You forget that the essence of the exam was defeated the moment the person starts cheating....
My point, there is no marriage to break, it was already broken up the moment the woman decided to cheat.... The man is only living in an illusion, he doesn't have a marriage.....
Finally, learn to think like me and your days would be long...

Just wondering... Who the heck are you?

PaulKillerman:
Seeyou cannot be making such comparison, it is a man's world., women were created for men and not the reverse... You cannot upturn nature... A man can marry as much wives as he chooses, with as many concubine he chooses as far as he can take care of them, u cannot say the same for women.... This is Africa... Bigamy is not a crime...
So please be guided...

dey there be deceiving yourslef, this is Africa ko, this is Japan ni. Na African women cheat pass sef

babysophie:
R u d one? Free m abeg,if u r nt satisfied wif ur partner divorce is d best.

you want to assault someone for adultery? assault is a crime while adultery is not a a criminal offense in Nigeria. its very Barbaric to think of assaulting anyone, like you said divorce is an option so tell the husband and let him divorce if he wants but you have no right to lay a finger on her . By the way how are you sure the man doesnt know, like someone said above he knows of men that know of their wives cheating . Many Nigerian marriages are essentially open marriages where both parties do their thing and remain married in name to keep up appearances for this fake society that judges divorced people.

Hedonistically:


Don't mind these funny people who make it seem like the normal or excusable reaction to a cheating husband is to wh.ore yourself around as a woman. It is ridiculous. If a woman is not fundamentally a slu.t who enjoys the experience of random dicks penetrating her, there is no way she would feel that the perfect way to pay back her husband is to be a shameless slu.t. I hate it when people refuse to take responsibility for their own actions... Saying that someone pushed you into something like this is stupidity and deceit of the highest order.

Yeah. Not Rocket science.

Fanirandele:


you want to assault someone for adultery? assault is a crime while adultery is not a a criminal offense in Nigeria. its very Barbaric to think of assaulting anyone, like you said divorce is an option so tell the husband and let him divorce if he wants but you have no right to lay a finger on her . By the way how are you sure the man doesnt know, like someone said above he knows of men that know of their wives cheating . Many Nigerian marriages are essentially open marriages where both parties do their thing and remain married in name to keep up appearances for this fake society that judges divorced people.

Direct ur post to d Op,i only aired my opinion.

Orikinla:
[size=18pt]Durex survey found out that Nigerian wives are the most promiscuous and unfaithful of married women in the world.[/size]

They learnt the act from their husbands.Nigerian men wet like Vj pass anything

Einl:
Chaiii!!! Nigerians and hypocrisy!! If it were your Uncle cheating on his wife, you wouldn't have given a second. If a man cheats on his wife it's her fault. If a woman cheats in her husband it's her fault.

NNE the thing tire me o.I don't support adultery at all but y are MOST men pained when they hear stories like this, MOST men can will zillions of award for extra marital affairs.
A married man passed on in my area on top two girls, and from the news making rounds is that he's been into the act, and turned deaf to all his wife warning to stop( Very rich man for that matter) the girls were arrested but the man's wife came and paid bail for them that it wasnt their fault! and freed the two ladies.

For all you care, the man maybe yanshing some bitches where he traveled to, I mean her husband. you should not interfere in husband and wife matter oh. mind your business and wait till you marry your saint wife before you will talk.

Well said, plus he should send the anonymous text asap before its too late to get the facts. hopefully the uncle will be tactical enough to handle the issue.

Also, cheating doesn't mean a marriage must end. it all depends on how people can come out of it coz the other party myt nor be a saint as well. Becos truly a man cheating vs a woman cheating. cheating is cheating.

I believe u r matured and an adult...u could tell ur dad ..but if u don't trust his judgement..y not call d woman and talk to her as in giving her an advice....it will really help

samonom:
Just inform ur dad, his mature enough to handle d case, dat is women 4 u. The young man is out looking for how to feed his family ok, while she is committing adultery. So sad!

She's also out looking for how to feed the family too! Hahahaha!

samonom:
Just inform ur dad, his mature enough to handle d case, dat is women 4 u. The young man is out looking for how to feed his family ok, while she is committing adultery. So sad!

Why are you so sure that the husband is out there looking for what the family will eat? Are you there with him? That he travelled out of town does not necessarily means he went for business.

cococandy:
Whatever

I pity ur husband,never seen u speak against evil from d ladies,tufiakwa

Jadonjack:


Perhaps she's dumb. All I know is, I saw what I saw and what I saw is real

If I were you, I would have called her attention and greeted her but I will not discuss the matter with anyone.

samonom:
Just inform ur dad, his mature enough to handle d case, dat is women 4 u. The young man is out looking for how to feed his family ok, while she is committing adultery. So sad!

Yeah, that's women because men NEVER Ever, have cheated. They spend 200% of their time feeding their women. I have seen many men that travel for business and while at it, sleep with a random babe every night for the duration of their stay.
Abeg just drop your advice and leave the lumping of women into dirty pot for another day.