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Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Cordis92(f): 4:54pm On Jul 01, 2016
[quote author=BiafraBushBoy post=47107632]

Seeing you reminds me of Monalisa..Very cute. The guy that broke up with you must be blind...

Just relax and watch The right man come your way.. It might be me sef grin.. Just keep adding value to yourself and working on your negatives and watch the magic. smiley

My name is Bush... And i Own this Thread cheesy

Thanks
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by guente02(m): 4:59pm On Jul 01, 2016
brandnew54:
I jus had a break up today and I dont intend having any form of relationship ever with her again .Though i dont have anything against her as a christian
In as much i would have love the breakup gist in detail can u summarize in one word why u left or was jilted.

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Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Kakamorufu(m): 5:00pm On Jul 01, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:
While we were discussing recently at a meeting, I made a statement "I don't have an Ex, once we breakup' I delete your chapter".

I didn't even finish the statement, people especially ladies came for my head.. Making me want to ask, "Is keeping in Touch with Ex's necessary?

Or is Break and Quench cheesy the Right way?" grin
its not cool, buh i do call em once a while, thats the ones i let go, cos we might not knw where we will meet again
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Maxi112: 5:01pm On Jul 01, 2016
Sahaboi:
Game over
na football Match ni grin
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by ogeben: 5:06pm On Jul 01, 2016
depends how the keeping in touch is done. and how often. it all lies on personal decisions sha, if u want to keep in touch, fine. if not, ahead ahead
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Nobody: 5:10pm On Jul 01, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


I want you to be part of the team babe... beautiful and Cute girls makes it work like Magic...

Are we good to go?

I have sent you a pm, trying to be clear on something.
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jul 01, 2016
DMeanMan:


Or not grin


Game on.
Expect my revenge. smiley
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 5:12pm On Jul 01, 2016
evegran:


I have sent you a pm, trying to be clear on something.

REplied.. Lets communicate there smiley
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jul 01, 2016
yattybanana:
you rock baby

I know. smiley

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Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by ibsals(m): 5:13pm On Jul 01, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


RESPECT!!!! cool grin grin
nothing wrong in keeping in touch with your ex once in a while. You aint enemies. You can be useful to one another in some circumstances. Often aint right sha

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Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by toprealman: 5:14pm On Jul 01, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:
While we were discussing recently at a meeting, I made a statement "I don't have an Ex, once we breakup' I delete your chapter".

I didn't even finish the statement, people especially ladies came for my head.. Making me want to ask, "Is keeping in Touch with Ex's necessary?

Or is Break and Quench cheesy the Right way?" grin
....till they hammer abi?[img]
BiafraBushBoy:
While we were discussing recently at a meeting, I made a statement "I don't have an Ex, once we breakup' I delete your chapter".

I didn't even finish the statement, people especially ladies came for my head.. Making me want to ask, "Is keeping in Touch with Ex's necessary?

Or is Break and Quench cheesy the Right way?" grin
....till they hammer abi?[/img]
BiafraBushBoy:
While we were discussing recently at a meeting, I made a statement "I don't have an Ex, once we breakup' I delete your chapter".

I didn't even finish the statement, people especially ladies came for my head.. Making me want to ask, "Is keeping in Touch with Ex's necessary?

Or is Break and Quench cheesy the Right way?" grin
....till they hammer abi?
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by sunnywinter(f): 5:17pm On Jul 01, 2016
Adasun:
if two breakup lovers are stil in touch,either as friends or whatever,




is either they are stil in love or they where never in love.
Thank you joor
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by macho44(m): 5:18pm On Jul 01, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:
While we were discussing recently at a meeting, I made a statement "I don't have an Ex, once we breakup' I delete your chapter".

I didn't even finish the statement, people especially ladies came for my head.. Making me want to ask, "Is keeping in Touch with Ex's necessary?

Or is Break and Quench cheesy the Right way?" grin
if u enjoyed her Bukata-Bukata so much, sure just keep am as "CONJI Releasing Device"
http://www.gossipmirrors.com/2016/06/mcdonalds-employee-admits-to.html?m=1
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Famsey: 5:18pm On Jul 01, 2016
For me, getting in touch is necessary. On a casual level.
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by HCF(m): 5:19pm On Jul 01, 2016
Cordis92:
I love this thread. My boyfriend broke up with me in May, coz I nagged him embarassed. He said we can just be friends, and be positive, hopefully something will come out of it in future. I'm recovering but he is not letting me do so. I don't call or chat, but he does. Once I stay like a week without writing, he will write and that will remind me of our relationship. It hurts. Sometimes I feel like blocking him on whatsapp and facebook. When I deleted his number and set my whatsapp such that as a non contact you can't see anything about me, he was surprised and asked if I blocked him. The truth is that I have realised my mistakes and working on myself, BUT I WANT HIM BACK. I don't know how that will happen, but looking up on God. Unlike my exes, once they break up with me, I delete them and walk away and they always come back when it's late (when i'm completely over them).
There is no crime in wanting him back, especially now that you have realized your mistakes and you are working real hard to avoid such pitfalls in d future.

From your write up, he is still interested. He still likes you. But, I think he fears you might still be your OLD self in the aspect of nagging. So, try to be more expressive. Be bold enough to ask him what he is up to:If he wants you again for a serious relationship, let him tell you. If he doesn't,but wants you to remain friends, which,to you, is tantamount to emotional torture, tell him politely that you need a break from the 'friendship'

If he tells you he wants you back, then reciprocate his gestures at reviving your relationship by chatting with him without holding anything back, and in the process,subtly, let him know you have realized your mistakes and u are working to overcome your weaknesses...and make sure this shows in your actions. Cheers.

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Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by macho44(m): 5:19pm On Jul 01, 2016
TrapQueen77:
Keeping in touch with Ur ex it's like walking back n' forth on the same block. I don't do that. I was born to be a traveler. I don't stay in one place once I'm done wink
what if you no fit to forget his "King-Kong"?

http://www.gossipmirrors.com/2016/06/mcdonalds-employee-admits-to.html?m=1
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by klinpami(f): 5:19pm On Jul 01, 2016
BiafraBushBoy:


Hope you are good... Can we discuss outside Nairaland?

I gat a proposal for you.. Not marrriage oo cheesy grin

If it won't bring instant money, i am not interested angry
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jul 01, 2016
Cordis92:
I love this thread. My boyfriend broke up with me in May, coz I nagged him embarassed. He said we can just be friends, and be positive, hopefully something will come out of it in future. I'm recovering but he is not letting me do so. I don't call or chat, but he does. Once I stay like a week without writing, he will write and that will remind me of our relationship. It hurts. Sometimes I feel like blocking him on whatsapp and facebook. When I deleted his number and set my whatsapp such that as a non contact you can't see anything about me, he was surprised and asked if I blocked him. The truth is that I have realised my mistakes and working on myself, but I want him back. I don't know how that will happen, but looking up on God. Unlike my exes, once they break up with me, I delete them and walk away and they always come back when it's late (when i'm completely over them). But this one wants us to be in touch. He is giving me hope and i'm confused. They say true love waits and there is part of me willing to wait. I have seen other guys but I don't want to date anymore. Dating hurts. Can someone advise me without insulting me.


Keeping in touch with an Ex will only resurrect lost feelings..... although it depends on d grounds u both had to break up.
Dating dsnt hurt, Love dsnt hurt.... its cheating, lying, obsession and people who hurt us. Dont wait on false love. Get urself together. It hurts but with time it'll pass and u'd be surprised.
Time heals everything.
U deserve better than a man who wants to toy with your feelings.
#AllTheBest
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Nobody: 5:23pm On Jul 01, 2016
macho44:
what if you no fit to forget his "King-Kong"?

http://www.gossipmirrors.com/2016/06/mcdonalds-employee-admits-to.html?m=1

His king Kong u say? Too many king kongs everywhere. He's not the only one cool

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Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by macho44(m): 5:27pm On Jul 01, 2016
TrapQueen77:


His king Kong u say? Too many king kongs everywhere. He's not the only one cool
King Kong pass King Kong oooo!
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by ominiriches2016(m): 5:28pm On Jul 01, 2016
Ye, my people perish for lack of knowledge and selfcenteredness. Now, let me ask you, "If ur ex is an employer of labour, will you'll refuse the job in this current situation of unemployment nonsense....."?.
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by BiafraBushBoy(m): 5:29pm On Jul 01, 2016
klinpami:

If it won't bring instant money, i am not interested angry
Chai... Jesus ooo
pls na

Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by brandnew54: 5:31pm On Jul 01, 2016
guente02:

In as much i would have love the breakup gist in detail can u summarize in one word why u left or was jilted.



She left on instruction of her pastor
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Orion21: 5:35pm On Jul 01, 2016
I get way too attached wen i av sex wiv a gal .. as for the galz i stop screwin i keep an open channel.. I dont cal or text bt if dey holla .. Y nt i reply dem d oda day ..

One called 4 airtym .. N i was feeling lucky so i helped ..
Anoda one called some oda day to give me a very viable information.. N dat was it..

Dey represent my past n i dont jst throw away my history
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by guente02(m): 5:48pm On Jul 01, 2016
brandnew54:




She left on instruction of her pastor

Shiiiiii...That is "Divine"
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by antieverything(m): 5:55pm On Jul 01, 2016
Surfboard:
I don't think it's necessary, in my opinion. Once there's a break-up, that's it. I don't even want to remain friends. We can go back to being strangers.
Genius
Orion21:
I get way too attached wen i av sex wiv a gal .. as for the galz i stop screwin i keep an open channel.. I dont cal or text bt if dey holla .. Y nt i reply dem d oda day ..
One called 4 airtym .. N i was feeling lucky so i helped ..
Anoda one called some oda day to give me a very viable information.. N dat was it..
Dey represent my past n i dont jst throw away my history
Dummy ni..
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jul 01, 2016
brandnew54:




She left on instruction of her pastor

For real?? cry
Lame excuse
that's wierd
like who still does that?? cry
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by antieverything(m): 5:56pm On Jul 01, 2016
TrapQueen77:


His king Kong u say? Too many king kongs everywhere. He's not the only one cool
W#ore Alert
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by DMerciful(m): 5:57pm On Jul 01, 2016
Everybody claiming they don't have anything to do with the ex. But we know people still bang with their ex even after being married. Nigerians and lies undecided lie lie citizens, lie lie govt!

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Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by MiMiakpet(m): 6:05pm On Jul 01, 2016
TrapQueen77:
Keeping in touch with Ur ex it's like walking back n' forth on the same block. I don't do that. I was born to be a traveler. I don't stay in one place once I'm done wink

Yeah but as a traveller you could always comeback to that place some day maybe on your way back from your journey.
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by habsydiamond(m): 6:07pm On Jul 01, 2016
Contacting an Ex after breaking up is like a dog going back to its vomit. All u do is delete and forget about dem.
Re: Is It Necessary To Keep In Touch With Your Ex's After Breakup?? by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jul 01, 2016
TrapQueen77:
Keeping in touch with Ur ex it's like walking back n' forth on the same block. I don't do that. I was born to be a traveler. I don't stay in one place once I'm done wink

Nne, where you travel de go ni.

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