10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Psoul(m): 8:55pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Lots of marriages fail these days as a result of the unrealistic goals and expectations that couples set before marriage. Many people venture into marriage for the wrong reasons; some cannot even say why they are in it.
Ladies most times are to be blamed here; they always seem to have certain standards the men are expected to meet before they agree to marry them. They keep chasing vague things and pay little or no attention to important matters. Many women get married because of the pressure placed on them by their family members or the society.
Some of them feel the need to get married because their mates are doing it and they want the man they would end up with to fit some fictional characters in their heads. These wrong choices or criteria often make them fall into the wrong hands and ruin their chances of being happy.
Find below some of the weird things ladies check in men before marrying them:
1. Height
This is the first thing a woman is likely to say when you ask her about the things she desires in a man. Every woman wants men that are tall. No one wants a short man.
Some women would even say they cannot date men that are taller than they. Thus, when they meet men who are tall and have one or two traits that fit their vague qualities, they tune in and fall in love with them.
2. Well-furnished Apartment
Ladies do not want to settle for less now when they are planning for marriage. Every woman wants a man who is successful and has different properties to show with it. Men who have their own houses are presumed to be better than men who don’t.
These houses have to be furnished to taste and classy for the women to fit into them. If a man does not have this or something close enough, some women would not agree to marry them.
3. Wealth
Every woman wants a man that can see to her financial needs. Money is important to a lot of women out there and they would not settle down with men who are struggling financially.
Men who cannot meet their needs may not even make the list of suitors they would be considering. It does not matter whether the man has some hidden demons as long as he has enough money in his account.
4. Cars
Now, it would amaze you to discover that some ladies would not date men who do not have a car. As soon as you approach them on with your ‘leggedbenz’ and they do not see you holding a car key, it is a no-no.
Some ladies love comfort and would not trade anything for it. Before you stand a chance to talk to them at all, your appearance has to speak a ton about you.
5. Romance
Some ladies simply love it when they meet guys who are romantic; they love men who would read lines of poems to them and make them feel like princesses. They enjoy the attention they get from men like these and would immediately fall for their gentle and romantic gestures.
As far as some of these women are concerned, the men’s ability to show love and care while being romantic is more than enough.
6. Citizenship
As soon as some ladies get to know the guys asking them out are not Nigerians or they have dual citizenship, love happens. Ladies love the concept of marrying foreigners or men who would give them the fair chance of stepping outside the shores of this country.
You would be shocked to discover that some ladies would be willing to marry some men as soon as they know they have passports to other countries.
7. Presence of six packs
Women certainly love men who are physically fit; they believe guys that are well-built are manly and would be able to perform better than men who are not. The presence of six packs would make some of the ladies melt and get wet on the spot. They would always choose a man with a firm body over a man with a pot belly.
8. $exual Performance
Women no doubt love men whose strength in bed can be likened to that of a stallion; they love men who can drive them to different peaks of desire when it comes to $exual activities.
Knowing fully well that many women end up cheat*ng in marriage as a result of $ex, they would rather go for men who would make them go wild with desire and leave their bodies limp after being satisfied.
9. Occupation
Many ladies want to get married to men who have good jobs. They will always ask about the men’s place of work within the first few minutes they meet and would use the details to map out their plans about them. Men who work in oil and gas companies are seen as better suitors as compared to those who teach.
In the same light, bankers are preferred to mechanics. Women love the idea of being known with men who have good jobs in the society.
10. Talent and Fame
Some ladies want to marry men who are talented and famous. It is highly ridiculous finding women who are ready to spend the rest of their lives with certain men because of the talents the men have and how famous they have become.
Therefore, it is not strange when you see some women who have dreams of getting married to some artistes and public figures they do not know personally. As long as they have talents they like, then getting married to them is no big deal.
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Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by ikbnice(m): 8:58pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
and that's more of the reason why many ends up being single at 40 or lands in a marriage full of disapointments because their expectation is too high.
The funny part is that most of these ladies are the type their father had no shoes when their mother married him. 264 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
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Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Theoritical(m): 9:03pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Yea' as men settles for ladies with good character so does ladies have their choices. If I was a lady, I swear' I won't settle for less. Abeg, who wan suffer ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 43 Likes |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by taiwokyle(m): 9:35pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
They should all chill as Jesus is coming soon. #NoOffence 17 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Emeka71(m): 10:35pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
And some of these Men who are hardworking and successful but because they don't have money at present won't mind marrying SSCE babe who can accept than waitinto for a graduate babe who is measuring his financial stand. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Nasri100(m): 10:51pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
Is it weird? No. Boils down to taste and desire. I used to have a strict policy of dating only busty girls but my ex wasnt busty. It is okay for a woman to have her fantasy. 23 Likes |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by JustHere2Observ(f): 11:29pm On Jul 01, 2016 |
ikbnice: and that's more of the reason why many ends up being single at 40 or lands in a marriage full of disapointments because their expectation is too high.
The funny part is that most of these ladies are the type their father had no shoes when their mother married him. Our parents prayer is that we do better than they did. 52 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by BrainnewsNg(f): 12:33am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Psoul: Lots of marriages fail these days as a result of the unrealistic goals and expectations that couples set before marriage. Many people venture into marriage for the wrong reasons; some cannot even say why they are in it.
Ladies most times are to be blamed here; they always seem to have certain standards the men are expected to meet before they agree to marry them. They keep chasing vague things and pay little or no attention to important matters. Many women get married because of the pressure placed on them by their family members or the society.
Some of them feel the need to get married because their mates are doing it and they want the man they would end up with to fit some fictional characters in their heads. These wrong choices or criteria often make them fall into the wrong hands and ruin their chances of being happy.
Find below some of the weird things ladies check in men before marrying them:
1. Height
This is the first thing a woman is likely to say when you ask her about the things she desires in a man. Every woman wants men that are tall. No one wants a short man.
Some women would even say they cannot date men that are taller than they. Thus, when they meet men who are tall and have one or two traits that fit their vague qualities, they tune in and fall in love with them.
2. Well-furnished Apartment
Ladies do not want to settle for less now when they are planning for marriage. Every woman wants a man who is successful and has different properties to show with it. Men who have their own houses are presumed to be better than men who don’t.
These houses have to be furnished to taste and classy for the women to fit into them. If a man does not have this or something close enough, some women would not agree to marry them.
3. Wealth
Every woman wants a man that can see to her financial needs. Money is important to a lot of women out there and they would not settle down with men who are struggling financially.
Men who cannot meet their needs may not even make the list of suitors they would be considering. It does not matter whether the man has some hidden demons as long as he has enough money in his account.
4. Cars
Now, it would amaze you to discover that some ladies would not date men who do not have a car. As soon as you approach them on with your ‘leggedbenz’ and they do not see you holding a car key, it is a no-no.
Some ladies love comfort and would not trade anything for it. Before you stand a chance to talk to them at all, your appearance has to speak a ton about you.
5. Romance
Some ladies simply love it when they meet guys who are romantic; they love men who would read lines of poems to them and make them feel like princesses. They enjoy the attention they get from men like these and would immediately fall for their gentle and romantic gestures.
As far as some of these women are concerned, the men’s ability to show love and care while being romantic is more than enough.
6. Citizenship
As soon as some ladies get to know the guys asking them out are not Nigerians or they have dual citizenship, love happens. Ladies love the concept of marrying foreigners or men who would give them the fair chance of stepping outside the shores of this country.
You would be shocked to discover that some ladies would be willing to marry some men as soon as they know they have passports to other countries.
7. Presence of six packs
Women certainly love men who are physically fit; they believe guys that are well-built are manly and would be able to perform better than men who are not. The presence of six packs would make some of the ladies melt and get wet on the spot. They would always choose a man with a firm body over a man with a pot belly.
8. $exual Performance
Women no doubt love men whose strength in bed can be likened to that of a stallion; they love men who can drive them to different peaks of desire when it comes to $exual activities.
Knowing fully well that many women end up cheat*ng in marriage as a result of $ex, they would rather go for men who would make them go wild with desire and leave their bodies limp after being satisfied.
9. Occupation
Many ladies want to get married to men who have good jobs. They will always ask about the men’s place of work within the first few minutes they meet and would use the details to map out their plans about them. Men who work in oil and gas companies are seen as better suitors as compared to those who teach.
In the same light, bankers are preferred to mechanics. Women love the idea of being known with men who have good jobs in the society.
10. Talent and Fame
Some ladies want to marry men who are talented and famous. It is highly ridiculous finding women who are ready to spend the rest of their lives with certain men because of the talents the men have and how famous they have become.
Therefore, it is not strange when you see some women who have dreams of getting married to some artistes and public figures they do not know personally. As long as they have talents they like, then getting married to them is no big deal.
Thanks op What a nice piece 4 Likes |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by sade1994(f): 2:00am On Jul 02, 2016 |
What I mostly check for is if you are hardworking.. . 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Jay542(m): 2:07am On Jul 02, 2016 |
sade1994: What I mostly check for is if you are hardworking.. .
That's what you are meant to check for and God fearing. How will somebody be checking for 6pack. Biko Iss that what they will use and raise their kids 32 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by sirusX(m): 3:49am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Everyone has needs, wants and desires. It all depends on what's on your mind at the moment and your intent for that relationship.
While some might be in a flexing mood and just want to party and have fun...others might be just about the superficial thing and just seeking a guy with the cash or wielding the rod of Zeus.
Most ladies seek security in marriage, as they want to live a life of comfort. It takes a woman with grace to hold on to a hardworking man with a promise...cz it seems a made man fits the book most of the time.
I know of ladies that promised to stand by their guys thru the hustle...saying they want to build their home from the ground up, only to later on develop another mindset of leaving to settle down with sum1 else who seemed ready. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by MrObontami(m): 3:53am On Jul 02, 2016 |
u try 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by ummeey: 4:42am On Jul 02, 2016 |
What is 6packs? I have a crush on rickross! 14 Likes |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Thobiy(m): 4:49am On Jul 02, 2016 |
ikbnice: and that's more of the reason why many ends up being single at 40 or lands in a marriage full of disapointments because their expectation is too high.
The funny part is that most of these ladies are the type their father had no shoes when their mother married him. Exactly 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by illuminada: 4:52am On Jul 02, 2016 |
ummeey: What is 6packs? I have a crush on rickross! Hahahahahahaaa.....dis comment almost killed me 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by ummeey: 4:56am On Jul 02, 2016 |
illuminada:
Hahahahahahaaa.....dis comment almost killed me
You don't understand, am for real. 2 Likes |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by illuminada: 5:00am On Jul 02, 2016 |
ummeey: You don't understand, am for real. Ummeey...Beht why na, hahahaha. This is even more hilarious than the first post. Question for you...what are the qualities/features in a guy that'll make him ideal for you? |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by ummeey: 5:02am On Jul 02, 2016 |
illuminada:
Ummeey...Beht why na, hahahaha. This is even more hilarious than the first post. Question for you...what are the qualities/features in a guy that'll make him ideal for you? Lol do I even know? 4 Likes |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by illuminada: 5:11am On Jul 02, 2016 |
ummeey: Lol do I even know? Lemme epp you (lets start with physical features): 10 inch beards; Curly moustache like Herbert Macauley's; Man boobs; Big flabby tummy with skin that sags past the waist area; Dreadlocks Pitch Black lips Yam legs Hairy nostrils and ears Sounds legit? Lol..*runs away* 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Jay542(m): 5:51am On Jul 02, 2016 |
ummeey: What is 6packs? I have a crush on rickross! Lol. Or better still you should have a crush on dangote. That 6pack iss really not it mehn! |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Aremu01(m): 6:16am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Yimu 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by archdon: 6:45am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mmmm 35 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Nobody: 7:27am On Jul 02, 2016 |
ummeey: You don't understand, am for real.
I knew she is a Muslim.... |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by BrainnewsNg(f): 7:41am On Jul 02, 2016 |
The front page needs this
cc: Lalasticlala 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by LuveU2(f): 7:50am On Jul 02, 2016 |
ikbnice: and that's more of the reason why many ends up being single at 40 or lands in a marriage full of disapointments because their expectation is too high.
The funny part is that most of these ladies are the type their father had no shoes when their mother married him. How come you want a pretty, curvy, intelligent and homely woman for wife. Aint these not high expectations? 5 Likes |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by Nobody: 7:51am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Reasons why it's difficult to find true love these days. |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by illuminada: 7:52am On Jul 02, 2016 |
LuveU2: How come you want a pretty, curvy, intelligent and homely woman for wife. Aint these not high expectations?
Lol.....what are your expectations though |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by LuveU2(f): 7:55am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Nasri100: Is it weird? No. Boils down to taste and desire. I used to have a strict policy of dating only busty girls but my ex wasnt busty. It is okay for a woman to have her fantasy. Thanks baby...take a look at my siggy too ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by BoboFashion(m): 7:55am On Jul 02, 2016 |
LuveU2: How come you want a pretty, curvy, intelligent and homely woman for wife. Aint these not high expectations?
Dont tell me u didnt have all these o, cos am coming to pay ur dowry sooner o. |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by LuveU2(f): 7:57am On Jul 02, 2016 |
illuminada:
Lol.....what are your expectations though Hardworking and very intelligent man for now ![smiley](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/smiley.png) Check my signature too! 1 Like |
Re: 10 Things Ladies Check In Men Before Marrying Them by LuveU2(f): 7:58am On Jul 02, 2016 |
BoboFashion:
Dont tell me u didnt have all these o, cos am coming to pay ur dowry sooner o. ![tongue](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/tongue.png) |