Why are you guys advising the op not to go on with his decision. Op its a wonderful decision pls carry on with it but don't forget to prepare for your own destruction bcz this things come in both ways.

Be careful how you swing your axe of vengeance, it may end up hitting your own head. Kajiko.

So you people now open meaningless threads to tell us about boring decisions you've made that have zero relevance to the rest of humanity? I know Nairaland has gone to the dogs, but surely they didn't have to be bingos

Bro just forgive her and move on with your life.

Ps.Life is too short.

I would have said "forgive and forget" but that would be Bullshiit in this case. I don't think I can forgive embarrassment.

Finish her. You are the hand of karma. We are solidly behind you.

efosasere:
I dated this girl back in the university and we were really in love. Trouble began when she started telling some of her so called friends about us. Those ones started telling all sort of stories about me that weren't true. It led to us having a lot of problems. It got to a point she disgraced me publicly in front of the entire school. That was the worse day of my life. It got to a point that virtually every guy she dated only used her to satisfy their sexual urge. Fast forward to this very day I'm better off now. I've got a very high paying job, an official apartment and an official car too and even bought another along with it.

I honestly don't know how she got my number but somehow she did. She now wants me back in her life. She said it was immaturity that led to her doing all those things she did to me back in school. She said she hasn't found anyone better than me. We've had sex more than once ever since she came back. She thinks I've forgiven her but she doesn't know I haven't. I'm going to use her as my sex mate and lead her on for as long as possible. I'm going to make sure I take my pound of flesh and make her very worthless. I'll even propose to her and abandon her after that. I'll make sure she pays for everything she has done to me in a million folds.

P.S Nobody she try talking me out of it cos I've already made up my mind. It's payback time.

okay but remember there is law of karma

SWITANN:









okay but remember there is law of karma

I am my own Karma and my own type of judgment. My own heave and my own hell.

samuelUMOH:
What did she do to you that has not been done before ? Seems your bitterness is on another level

bitterness? Revenge is best served cold. I'm certainly gonna take this opportunity and let her know it felt to go through pains, trauma and heartbreak. She must receive a full dose of what I went through. I'm going to ruin her to a point of no return.

[quote author=samuelUMOH post=47115471][/quote] let her go? You must be kidding. She must be given a taste of her own bitter medicine. Karma? I am my own Karma and my own type of judgment.

efosasere:
I am my own Karma and my own type of judgment. My own heave and my own hell.

OK but stop the payback u doing efosa,it's not right. you won't gain anything from it.

treat oda ladies as u would have ur sister/mom treated

DJHANDSOME:
No girl deserves this sort of treatment


please forgive and forget

does any guy deserve waht she did to him?

she brought herself back afterall the guys she's bleeped after you, now you're made and she wants to make a fool of you again, she will brag to her friends about getting u back, that no matter what u will still kill yourself over her. she deserves whatever she gets, most ladies believe they deserve a good life just for being female, they whitewash you and expect you to forgive and forget just like that...whatever man, it's your call and it's already made.

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DJHANDSOME:

now u get what I mean...

efosasere:
let what go? You must be drunk. This girl ruined my reputation and practically turned me into a leper in school.

If not agreeing with ur opinion means I'm drunk, well u may be right but I don't drink neither do I take weed ...maybe high on smth else. Like I said, not trying to change ur mind. Btw, u sound bitter. Vengeance won't change that. Whatever u end up doing, God help u bro.

Live and let live. Have you asked yourself why she can't seem to hold onto a relationship?

Maybe she has a generational curse she inherited from her family and she is destined to pass it on to you and your offspring through sex.

Carry on.

Please when you post part 2 abeg mention my moniker.

Something tells me it will be epic.

Just shaking my head. . . She disgraced you because you deserved it. All this long story will not change the fact that you are a weakling to hold a grudge so long against a woman.
If u know what some of us have passed through in the hands of women, urs is a childs play yet i have never prayed for the downfall of any of them. I even render assistance where need be.

thats very wicked of you man....you dont have to be like her other boyfriends you know? i thought you are now a responsible person? why not be like one...than letting the devil in you to consume you...DONT HURT THAT GIRL!!!

You can treat her well while still being intimate with her. Show her some care.
Leave her soon though if you can not love her.It is obvious you do not love her and can not marry her.
Love can not be forced.
Always treat any women you meet right,not because you will gain but because there is more happiness in love and care than in hate.

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I am still wondering why you told us

Rubbish.. Cut her and bury her remains

Olodo... Grow up joor

DJHANDSOME:
No girl deserves this sort of treatment


please forgive and forget

Woman wrapper spotted...

@OP... anyway, anyhow you want to deal with your ex that bleeped you up initially is allowed...

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PhantomD:

does any guy deserve waht she did to him?

I tire Ooo...

PhantomD:
she brought herself back afterall the guys she's bleeped after you, now you're made and she wants to make a fool of you again, she will brag to her friends about getting u back, that no matter what u will still kill yourself over her. she deserves whatever she gets, most ladies believe they deserve a good life just for being female, they whitewash you and expect you to forgive and forget just like that...whatever man, it's your call and it's already made.

Na so...

LasoulMacuby:
Just shaking my head. . . She disgraced you because you deserved it. All this long story will not change the fact that you are a weakling to hold a grudge so long against a woman.
If u know what some of us have passed through in the hands of women, urs is a childs play yet i have never prayed for the downfall of any of them. I even render assistance where need be.

Yeah... definitely a woman wrapper syndrome...

SmartThief:
thats very wicked of you man....you dont have to be like her other boyfriends you know? i thought you are now a responsible person? why not be like one...than letting the devil in you to consume you...DONT HURT THAT GIRL!!!

Another woman wrapper spotted...

svydo:
You can treat her well while still being intimate with her. Show her some care.
Leave her soon though if you can not love her.It is obvious you do not love her and can not marry her.
Love can not be forced.
Always treat any women you meet right,not because you will gain but because there is more happiness in love and care than in hate.

Plenty women wrappers on nairaland... what happen...?

DJHANDSOME:
you no dey sleep!

Woke up for sahr...

Leave the OP to drown in his folly, how about the people you hv hurt one way or the other in life. Hope they forgive you too? We all make silly mistakes while growing up, let go my man and free yourself from stress.

SWITANN:










OK but stop the payback u doing efosa,it's not right. you won't gain anything from it.

but this girl hurt me so bad. She made me feel less of a man. She reduced me to the lowest form of a human being. She even called me a liar and a dog publicly.