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Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by 2sexycom(m): 7:34am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Jfactor:bros, she might be caught. Spy pen does the magic. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Tay16(f): 7:36am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Seeeeeeee:so all the children that are harrassed or raped by grown men is because they didn't act responsibly abi? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by nintal(m): 7:38am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Prove? Slap the idiot and make him bleed u can't be waiting for one useless prove, what if he finally enter the U KNOW one day by fire? My sister ur good name is better than one job oh... By the way, u have God and He knows the way that leads to another better job. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Seeeeeeee: 7:39am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Tay16:Was she raped? |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Tay16(f): 7:40am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Estherfaith:thing is a voice can be computerized and not as reliable, a video is far much better proof. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by ednut1(m): 7:41am On Jul 02, 2016 |
captain247:always read before you comment. He owns d coy. @op u hv to leave d job asap. I have noticed most business owners sleep/want to sleep with their female staff. All those sexy secretary nd admin workers. I don witness am live smh. Some ladies too dress seductively. U cannot turn left or right in a office and not see exposed yellow laps or bust. Mtcheeew 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Tay16(f): 7:43am On Jul 02, 2016 |
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Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Tay16(f): 7:43am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Seeeeeeee:she was sexually harrassed, and it still is a serious offence in a work place that can justify termination. What you are simply saying is that women that get harrassed, do so because its their fault right? So the offender doesn't have a brain to tell what constitutes misconduct and what doesn't? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Tay16(f): 7:46am On Jul 02, 2016 |
ednut1:So i walk into a room full of rich married man, I should have an affair with one of them because I can't resist shiny things? |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Seeeeeeee: 7:46am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Tay16:He started by holding her hand did you read that part... She kept quite, she must be a dumb girl if she doesnt know what the man was looking 4. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by daewoorazer(m): 7:48am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Mememan: kikiki...i dnt knw abt dat o |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Tay16(f): 7:50am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Seeeeeeee:i read the part she said she warned him against his conduct but he still continued, did you shut your eyes when you got to that part? so what are you saying this man is not aware that he is doing is prohibited at a workplace? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by ednut1(m): 7:51am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Tay16: |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Nobody: 7:51am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Estherfaith: Please dear, don't wait until you are raped.it is hard to prove you were raped after the deed. Get out now. If you wait until you get another job then you are waiting for him to rape you be dat. You will get another job. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by nintal(m): 7:52am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Come oh, u tell people say u hold money ne? Why everyone the tell u buy spy pen, v that, and v this? Forget all these and act fast B4 this man do u oh... U sef, u no go run? See, if u need anything regarding this, then it shoud be speedingshoe. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Seeeeeeee: 7:54am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Tay16:He thinks she is playing hard to get which a normal girl does, there is no harm in displaying affection... The damange was she would have given him a stern warning the first time and i doubt if he would have continued. So think with your brain... |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by lonelydora: 7:57am On Jul 02, 2016 |
daewoorazer: Best advice so far. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by ascendo(m): 7:58am On Jul 02, 2016 |
You made the first mistake when you allowed him to hold your hand thinking that it's maturity. Now it's not as simple as it should be but keep your stand next time and let him know that you'll never succumb no matter the cost. Tell him that you know you made the mistake of allowing him hold your hand but this one is NEVER. But as for the slapping; don't! Getting an evidence: voice recording, video, is cool as well but your character/attitude must change to reflect your stand. I heard about "cup size", fitting dresses: and you don't know what's bringing all diz? Guys will always move with the assumption that your dressing is beckoning on them: so moderate your dressing. No fitting, cover up, let everytin about you speak decency and reserved! Remember: your giving in to him will make matters bad as other employees will see you as a slut and start handling you that way. You'll be frustrated to the point of resignation. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Tay16(f): 7:58am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Seeeeeeee:im using mine perfectly well, yours must be on vacation since you are trying to imply that a person with a superior position such as manager doesn't know which conduct constitutes harrassment? 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Ezionye(f): 8:03am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Starlet50: Yea ur right. In fact the sound of stupidity in this question almost deafened me |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Seeeeeeee: 8:03am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Tay16:You don't know what you are saying the girl danced to his tune the first... So your shallow mind does'nt see that. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Luckymay(f): 8:04am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Esterfaith I understand how you feel. Sometimes bosses mistake our dedication and "trying hard to please" attitude for being cheap. I wasn't there but I can make out that when you started this job you maybe trying hard to please him and prove to him that you care about the job and would stay dedicated. You may be wearing smiles always even when angry just so he doesn't Find fault with you. "enough of my analogies" so Back to the matter.... Some bosses mistake these things for green lights expecially those that can't control their third leg when they see an attractive lady (which you portrayed yourself to be) . Now what am I driving at? ; ... This is the time to change. Enough of the smiles and being friendly shit. Start giving him an attitude at the same time try not to be rude. I'm sure he can't approach you if you wear a very serious look. Walk in in the morning say good morning sir and walk out on him maintaining a straight face. All I'm driving at its just change from the person you used to be. Believe me he will understand that the music has changed tunes. If these doesn't work which I'm sure would., Find a good time and place to talk sense into him. You can remind him of office ethics and also try on his conscience by reminding him of the punishment for what he's doing according to his faith. If all these doesn't work then Bae just knw your village people are at work |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Nuhusky: 8:05am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Its better to be sacked without having an affair with him than to have an affair then sack letter cause in the next interview it will be very interesting when it come to the question “why do you leave your previous job” But why are women boss not harassing male worker |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Tay16(f): 8:07am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Seeeeeeee:He is continuing to harrass because he know that if she reports him without sufficient evidence he can actually fire her without sound reason. With all that money Nigerian parents waste on sending their children to school, people like you are the end product? Its people like you that make your country the shithole that it is right now. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Nobody: 8:07am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Seeeeeeee:why not stop saying 'we men' and speak for yourself. Better not to drag all men along when you're implying that you have no self control and your whole world revolves around sex. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Nobody: 8:08am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Unfortuately, the op said he is the owner of the company, what an irony captain247: |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by edbor(m): 8:10am On Jul 02, 2016 |
picture of the cloth you put on that day at work or. . |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Seeeeeeee: 8:12am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Jobia:what are you talking about make use of brain before you type... She wasn't raped the man displayed affection which is not a crime... A lady must know how to behave with the opposite sex to avert this type of epitlse but she danced to the tune by allowing him hold her hands. |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Seeeeeeee: 8:15am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Tay16:You don't know the rules of engagement you're sounding like a kid.. 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by oodua1stson: 8:16am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Estherfaith:how big is the company? If he owns the place there's nothing you can do But if he has people ahead of him then u dint have a problem |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by fornnygee(m): 8:23am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Estherfaith: I am giving you an amature alternative sexual harassment resolution approach. Firstly, officially request a 30 minutes personal discussion with him, suggest a convenient time and date by mail for future reference. Secondly if he responds and accept your proposed time and date, constructively engage him on the sexual harassment incident, state your reservations, point out to him the implications of going further with his actions and your subsequent steps going forward. Finally thank him for acting professionally and respecting your stand point. Note: Don't create room for further discussions |
Re: How Do I Handle Work Place Sexual Harassment. HELP! by Nobody: 8:24am On Jul 02, 2016 |
Seeeeeeee:oh but you seem to not have a brain at all. I doubt its the same post you read. Please go back and read the post..this time slowly. Besides the man is not supposed to initiate anything sexual in the first place at all. That is a workplace for goodness sake! I expect you to condemn the act not come up with a bull story of how 'we men' chase everything in short skirts. |
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