IF THE GIRL MARRY BCS OF SEX,FINE,BUT WHAT IF THE MAN ONLY GOOD IN BED,NO GOOD MONEY FOR THE UPKEEP OF THE FAMILY. MYBE THIER TWO WILL BE HAVING SEX AS SHOW TO MAKE MONEY. MAKE UNA THINK OOH

Those things are mostly superficial and speak nothing about the quality of love you get in return.

For me everything there is a plus but not a deal breqker the most important for me is a heart of contentment. A man content to serve and seek God always will be content with the love you give.

A faithful man

Psoul:



If you go through the posts once again, you will see the post is all about those things that most women look out for before marrying a man which eventually lead to early failures in marriage.

ok... My bad.

they can look for all they want. they have the right to choose, as men do too. I just want two things from her. beauty and brain.

It's simple : chicks dig power, men dig beauty. Anything else is commentary.

Show me a lady who loves God & and I will show a woman who will marry a man for his character instead of his appearance.

teebillz:


I don't know. Trust me. Because I have seen ladies claimed they stood by a man simply because they were fu<king him for free.

That's funny. If that's all she's got to offer, then it was her fault he left. First of all, it is God who stands by anyone. All a woman can offer is support. When you have that one girl who loves you and doesn't mind the fact you are broke. She prays for you, encourages you, doesn't put you in a position that makes you feel less confident around her because you are momentarily incapable of giving her those fine things, she jumps buses with you when you manage to go on dates, still smiles through it and appreciates your effort. She never fails to remind you that you are destined for great things when you are downcast and much more.

Any lady checking for all these qualities MUST wait till eternity.

But let me ask, what qualities must be posses before checking for these ones?

and it's just a ladies' thing?

OP you as a man, don't you also look out for certain "qualities" in a lady you'd like to spend your life with?

ayindejimmy:

ok... My bad.

Appreciated bro...keep riding

A lady should be in a better position to tell us what they check in men before marrying them.

lonelydora:


may you get a rich and hardworking hubby in Jesus Name. Exactly what should be checked

Amen. Thanks

anitank:
and it's just a ladies' thing?

OP you as a man, don't you also look out for certain "qualities" in a lady you'd like to spend your life with?

To tell you the truth, I looked out for those things that i kw will stand for a very long time and those that are temporary, i also want but they were never a do or die factor for choosing my wife.

Let me give u an example, as a bachelor, i never had anything to do with a dark skinned babe. You are a turn off. I always hope to marry a very fair complexioned lady. But the day that love hit me, it was on a dark complexioned girl that i found some of the characters....i said characters (inbuilt qualities)....follow-come not plug ins...in a dark complexioned lady. Since then i came to love dark skin so much dat fair skin mean nothing to me now. This is because the thing in dat woman has changed that outward factors.

Love wat he/she possesses inside and not just wat he/she acquired materialistically.

theEYe21:
Careful to what you wish for he might be too hardworking to give you attention

Let him be hardworking first. ..then the issue of attention would be sorted out later

Jay542:

That's what you are meant to check for and God fearing. How will somebody be checking for 6pack. Biko Iss that what they will use and raise their kids

Exactly

Emeka71:
And some of these Men who are hardworking and successful but because they don't have money at present won't mind marrying SSCE babe who can accept than waitinto for a graduate babe who is measuring his financial stand.

You are right bro.. My SSCE babe is very loyal to me and can do anything to keep and please me but i can't get along with fellow graduate babe for more than two weeks without divided interest.

ummeey:
What is 6packs? I have a crush on rickross!

I have a crush on you

you said ladies look for talented man.... tell me sud they settle dullard ni? pls wat kind if family did they want to build wen daddy is brainless......

you said ladies look for talented man.... tell me sud they settle dullard ni? pls wat kind if family did they want to build wen daddy is brainless...... ;Dyou said ladies look for talented man.... tell me sud they settle dullard ni? pls wat kind if family did they want to build wen daddy is brainless......

BrainnewsNg:




Thanks op

What a nice piece

No it's not. It's all lies. There is only one thing a woman checks for before marrying a guy. Can he provide comfort or have the potential of providing it someday. Every other thing is secondary. Height ko. Height ni. If that were the case Lara would never have married Oshiomole.

ummeey:
What is 6packs? I have a crush on rickross!

;DN

Am coming,let me go n fazt 4diz characterz

Hmm.

SnowJay92:


You think so?

I know so

sbabimbola:


It saddening though...... All most of us are after is getting married.

More disheartening that the people who are in a position to let people know about these things often fail woefully in that responsibility.

JustHere2Observ:


Our parents prayer is that we do better than they did.

So, your idea of doing better is by becoming a parasite?

jeevyww:


I know so

Seems you're one of those that celebrity and show biz hogwash turns their head. What's Rick Ross's net worth, have you bothered to check?

Real men do not marry the most beautiful girl in the world, they go for the girl that will make their world the most beautiful

Ekii:


That's funny. If that's all she's got to offer, then it was her fault he left. First of all, it is God who stands by anyone. All a woman can offer is support. When you have that one girl who loves you and doesn't mind the fact you are broke. She prays for you, encourages you, doesn't put you in a position that makes you feel less confident around her because you are momentarily incapable of giving her those fine things, she jumps buses with you when you manage to go on dates, still smiles through it and appreciates your effort. She never fails to remind you that you are destined for great things when you are downcast and much more.

Now you made a whole lot of sense. I hope you practice what you preach though.

Psoul:



To tell you the truth, I looked out for those things that i kw will stand for a very long time and those that are temporary, i also want but they were never a do or die factor for choosing my wife.

Let me give u an example, as a bachelor, i never had anything to do with a dark skinned babe. You are a turn off. I always hope to marry a very fair complexioned lady. But the day that love hit me, it was on a dark complexioned girl that i found some of the characters....i said characters (inbuilt qualities)....follow-come not plug ins...in a dark complexioned lady. Since then i came to love dark skin so much dat fair skin mean nothing to me now. This is because the thing in dat woman has changed that outward factors.

Love wat he/she possesses inside and not just wat he/she acquired materialistically.

That is precisely my point!! Just like you every single man also look for materialistic qualities in ladies(fair skin,tall,beautiful...), that's why most end up marrying the wrong ones and eventually regret it. Some men are still lonely waiting for the "perfect" woman. So stop making it look like that behavior is only exhibited by ladies

Theoritical:
Yea' as men settles for ladies with good character so does ladies have their choices. If I was a lady, I swear' I won't settle for less. Abeg, who wan suffer

Priority count bro....
Success is not gender sensitive, you can still be successive as a lady then you won't be a dependent..solving same problem you will need a man to solve...
...Ladies you can make your own cash....

Same thing with guys, guys are busy searching for the "perfect girl" that doesn't exist

Lovelynature:
Chai, see as person dey laugh here. This your capture na something else. Nobody is just perfect. But some ladies won't hear, as they are busy searching for the ''perfect guy'' that doesn't exist.