Why is it that if you tell a guy that you have a boyfriend he still want to talk to you but if you tell the same guy that you just want to be friends he stop talking to you? Pls guys what are your opinion about this because I've been wondering.

Looks like somebody is scared of being FRIENDZONED

mizzbouqui:
Why is it that if you tell a guy that you have a boyfriend he still want to talk to you but if you tell the same guy that you just want to be friends he stop talking to you? Pls guys what are your opinion about this because I've been wondering.

Not all guys, but it's about chances.

A lot of girls will lie about having a boyfriend. Also, it could be read as "I'd love to see you, but my stupid boyfriend is in the way of our love" or whatever. But if you say you have one, chances are you are sexually active.

The guy will hedge his bets and see if he can convince you. He thinks if you get to know him better then your boyfriend may just disappear. In this scenario, he believes he has a chance to have sex with you.

But if you say the word "friend" they go away immediately. This is a word that lets them know you won't have sex with them.

He loses interest. Friends don't have sex, so there is no chance you'll have sex with him. Men are allergic to the word "friend". They believe in the "friendzone" or whatever that stupid thing is.

It's usually immature guys that act this way.

I'm sure there are many levels of this behavior and it can be more complex.

Some men like being challenge and they wouldn't even mind being called a side niqqa. . For them as long they can get a chance to poke the same holes what this girl's bf poking too. The worse, when you get pregnant they will just disappear right before you.

Because most guys know that some women lie a lot. Guys also like it when they think they have competition... Don't friend zone any guy abruptly or just like that... You wan kill vibes? Because most guys know that some women lie a lot. Guys also like it when they think they have competition... Don't friend zone any guy abruptly or just like that... You wan kill vibes?

WE've been over tis issue like a zillion times on NL na....come up with something fresh.....

slyIsaac:
WE've been over tis issue like a zillion times on NL na....come up with something fresh.....

I dunno that

mizzbouqui:
Why is it that if you tell a guy that you have a boyfriend he still want to talk to you but if you tell the same guy that you just want to be friends he stop talking to you? Pls guys what are your opinion about this because I've been wondering.

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Don't mind them .... But something tells me that you are the current president of Friendzoners

BiafraBushBoy:


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Don't mind them .... But something tells me that you are the current president of Friendzoners

Lolsss not at all

davymike:
Because most guys know that some women lie a lot. Guys also like it when they think they have competition... Don't friend zone any guy abruptly or just like that... You wan kill vibes? Because most guys know that some women lie a lot. Guys also like it when they think they have competition... Don't friend zone any guy abruptly or just like that... You wan kill vibes?

What vibes, so you are feeling guilty abi

ForeverYoung197:
Some men like being challenge and they wouldn't even mind being called a side niqqa. . For them as long they can get a chance to poke the same holes what this girl's bf poking too. The worse, when you get pregnant they will just disappear right before you.

Abi o

adebayour26:
Looks like somebody is scared of being FRIENDZONED

Yes o

foolinlove:


Not all guys, but it's about chances.

A lot of girls will lie about having a boyfriend. Also, it could be read as "I'd love to see you, but my stupid boyfriend is in the way of our love" or whatever. But if you say you have one, chances are you are sexually active.

The guy will hedge his bets and see if he can convince you. He thinks if you get to know him better then your boyfriend may just disappear. In this scenario, he believes he has a chance to have sex with you.

But if you say the word "friend" they go away immediately. This is a word that lets them know you won't have sex with them.

He loses interest. Friends don't have sex, so there is no chance you'll have sex with him. Men are allergic to the word "friend". They believe in the "friendzone" or whatever that stupid thing is.

It's usually immature guys that act this way.

I'm sure there are many levels of this behavior and it can be more complex.

I don't think there is anything bad in friendzoning but they just don't want to here that word

mizzbouqui:
Why is it that if you tell a guy that you have a boyfriend he still want to talk to you but if you tell the same guy that you just want to be friends he stop talking to you? Pls guys what are your opinion about this because I've been wondering.

if you want something seek for it atleast there is no crime in trying but ladies matter hmmnn.

mizzbouqui:

Lolsss not at all

I sent you a package na

You did like you aint seeing nothing

we love challenge, I'd run if you give me that kinda reply

kamel4real2015:
if you want something seek for it atleast there is no crime in trying but ladies matter hmmnn.

Guys matter too hmph

mizzbouqui:

Guys matter too hmph

i can make a case for myself am not complicated but seriously some ladies dont no what they want do you believe that.

mizzbouqui:

What vibes, so you are feeling guilty abi

Lol... I can't feel guilty sisi, I just stating the obvious... Just think of when you use all the courage in you to tell a guy you have feelings for him and he tells you that he Jhs wants friendship and nothing more... Your vibes would go down like the Naira sis.

kamel4real2015:
i can make a case for myself am not complicated but seriously some ladies dont no what they want do you believe that.

Okay

davymike:

Lol... I can't feel guilty sisi, I just stating the obvious... Just think of when you use all the courage in you to tell a guy you have feelings for him and he tells you that he Jhs wants friendship and nothing more... Your vibes would go down like the Naira sis.

Lolsss, I've never done it

mizzbouqui:

Lolsss, I've never done it

Yh,its normally the other way round. Jhs pray that kinda thing doesn't happen. Have you heard of 'Heart crushing'?

Maxi112:
we love challenge, I'd run if you give me that kinda reply

Really, so you don't have a friend you have feelings for but wants you to be friends

mizzbouqui:

Okay

yeah not all ladies or guys are bad it is just the mentality that some play on like he must give me money everytime,or double dating by guys but i believe ladies are more complicated.

davymike:

Yh,its normally the other way round. Jhs pray that kinda thing doesn't happen. Have you heard of 'Heart crushing'?

No I havent

mizzbouqui:

No I havent

hopefully you dont think like them too

mizzbouqui:
No I havent

Okay... Let's just take it as something greater than heartbreak

mizzbouqui:

Really, so you don't have a friend you have feelings for but wants you to be friends

nope, I'd prefer to be distance from the person. it's way too better that way. mhn. friendzone is real, just "Hello" "Hi" is more attractive than total submission to friendship... No

davymike:

Okay... Let's just take it as something greater than heartbreak

Hmph

Maxi112:
nope, I'd prefer to be distance from the person. it's way too better that way. mhn. friendzone is real, just "Hello" "Hi" is more attractive than total submission to friendship... No

Okay

lol wat of me we can best of friend hw u doing today

mizzbouqui:
Why is it that if you tell a guy that you have a boyfriend he still want to talk to you but if you tell the same guy that you just want to be friends he stop talking to you? Pls guys what are your opinion about this because I've been wondering.

mizzbouqui:

Yes o