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Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by lavera(f): 11:41am On Jul 02, 2016
In order for the penis to penetrate the vagina, the pelvic floor muscles have to be relaxed. The main two ways in which these muscles are relaxed are by arousal, and via the hormones released during childbirth. So what's relevant here is arousal. Evolution has created this nifty link, whereby arousal releases hormones that relax the pelvic floor muscles, allowing the vagina to accommodate a penis. If the woman's vagina is too tight, it is either because: CONTINUE READING HERE
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by Hazardd(m): 11:44am On Jul 02, 2016
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Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by taiwokyle(m): 11:47am On Jul 02, 2016
How would you feel If u peel a wound? #NoOffense
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jul 02, 2016
But you already know the answer, why ask again
Why is it so difficult, time consuming and energy sapping to brake a wall to create a door opening,and then after wards all u do is pass through d door without having to break d wall again

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Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by foolinlove(f): 2:07pm On Jul 02, 2016
There are medical reasons that cause sex to be painful at all times for women, even after they are "deflowered".
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by Taiyescott(m): 2:09pm On Jul 02, 2016
foolinlove:
There are medical reasons that cause sex to be painful at all times for women, even after they are "deflowered".
which are?
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by foolinlove(f): 2:11pm On Jul 02, 2016
Taiyescott:
which are?

Vaginismus is the one I can remember - when you clench up. It can be psychosomatic, but not always. But a lot of women have endometriosis which can cause sex to be painful.
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by Taiyescott(m): 6:36pm On Jul 02, 2016
foolinlove:


Vaginismus is the one I can remember - when you clench up. It can be psychosomatic, but not always. But a lot of women have endometriosis which can cause sex to be painful.
uhhhmn, sori bt wat did u study?
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by barackodam: 6:37pm On Jul 02, 2016
foolinlove:

Vaginismus is the one I can remember - when you clench up. It can be psychosomatic, but not always. But a lot of women have endometriosis which can cause sex to be painful.



In English please grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by henrydadon(m): 6:58pm On Jul 02, 2016
once a girl tell me she a virgin i just walk away..

because I can't deal with all those crying shiit..and being emotionally attached to u forever..girl never forget whoever disvirgin them..and once the relationship is over u become the most hated person in their life

am talking from experience..
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by sinaj(f): 7:09pm On Jul 02, 2016
Hazardd:
that link get virus..open at your risk undecided
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Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by foolinlove(f): 6:39am On Jul 03, 2016
barackodam:




In English please grin grin grin grin grin

Psychosomaticism: physical symptom/s caused by the mind.

Endometriosis: ectopic growth of uterine lining, which causes bleeding and pain.
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by foolinlove(f): 6:40am On Jul 03, 2016
Taiyescott:
uhhhmn, sori bt wat did u study?

A lot of different things. Why do you ask? You can Google it if you doubt me smiley
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by Nobody: 7:16am On Jul 03, 2016
foolinlove:


Psychosomaticism: physical symptom/s caused by the mind.

Endometriosis: ectopic growth of uterine lining, which causes bleeding and pain.

Madam, Endometroisis will cause very severe pain, during or around the menstrual periods, not during sex, plus it will most times cause very scanty or no menstrual bleed, one of its complications, infertility...

Abeg, no dey move those kind of your unguided unverified stuffs you dey move...
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by foolinlove(f): 7:37am On Jul 03, 2016
PaulKillerman:


Madam, Endometroisis will cause very severe pain, during or around the menstrual periods, not during sex, plus it will most times cause very scanty or no menstrual bleed, one of its complications, infertility...

Abeg, no dey move those kind of your unguided unverified stuffs you dey move...

If you look further you will discover that endometriosis can cause extended bleeding, in some cases up to 30 days or longer. And it can cause excruciating pain, with or without sexual contact.

"The main symptoms are pelvic pain and infertility. Nearly half of those affected have chronic pelvic pain, while in 70% pain occurs during menstruation. Pain during sex is also common."

Bulletti C, Coccia ME, Battistoni S, Borini A (August 2010). "Endometriosis and infertility". J. Assist. Reprod. Genet. 27 ( 8 ): 441–7. doi:10.1007/s10815-010-9436-1. PMC 2941592. PMID 20574791.
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by GoldenJAT(m): 7:50am On Jul 03, 2016
the girls I disvirgined.... did I read ur write up.. before I knew we what 2do? comot Jare.. u just de yarn big big talk.

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Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by Nobody: 8:27am On Jul 03, 2016
foolinlove:


If you look further you will discover that endometriosis can cause extended bleeding, in some cases up to 30 days or longer. And it can cause excruciating pain, with or without sexual contact.

"The main symptoms are pelvic pain and infertility. Nearly half of those affected have chronic pelvic pain, while in 70% pain occurs during menstruation. Pain during sex is also common."

Bulletti C, Coccia ME, Battistoni S, Borini A (August 2010). "Endometriosis and infertility". J. Assist. Reprod. Genet. 27 ( 8 ): 441–7. doi:10.1007/s10815-010-9436-1. PMC 2941592. PMID 20574791.

My dear, there is nothing to look further, anybody can come online and write anything...

A woman comes to your desk and tells you she is having d dyspareunia (painful Intercourse) the last thing you will wanna think is Endometroisis, more so Endometroisis, has its own peculiar kind of pain, not the intercousal type... There are more likelycauses u should think of, Endometroisis should be way way way below the bottom...

Like they say, experiences u withness is the far better teacher...
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by foolinlove(f): 8:34am On Jul 03, 2016
PaulKillerman:


My dear, there is nothing to look further, anybody can come online and write anything...

A woman comes to your desk and tells you she is having d dyspareunia (painful Intercourse) the last thing you will wanna think is Endometroisis, more so Endometroisis, has its own peculiar kind of pain, not the intercousal type... There are more likelycauses u should think of, Endometroisis should be way way way below the bottom...

Like they say, experiences u withness is the far better teacher...

That excerpt is from a peer reviewed medical journal. Not some idiot "posting anything" online.

In addition, a differential diagnosis would be performed.

I simply stated two reasons for painful sex. I was not providing a differential.
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by barackodam: 8:53am On Jul 03, 2016
foolinlove:


Psychosomaticism: physical symptom/s caused by the mind.

Endometriosis: ectopic growth of uterine lining, which causes bleeding and pain.


Much better thanks smiley
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by foolinlove(f): 9:05am On Jul 03, 2016
barackodam:



Much better thanks smiley

Uwc smiley
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by Taiyescott(m): 11:54am On Jul 03, 2016
foolinlove:


A lot of different things. Why do you ask? You can Google it if you doubt me smiley
not doubting u, jst dat u seem to av a vast knowledge of tinx as seen frm ur comments in oda threads.. hp u went to church today?
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by foolinlove(f): 12:16pm On Jul 03, 2016
Taiyescott:
not doubting u, jst dat u seem to av a vast knowledge of tinx as seen frm ur comments in oda threads.. hp u went to church today?

Of course! smiley
Re: Why Is First-time Sex Sometimes Painful For A Girl? by lavera(f): 3:05pm On Aug 10, 2016
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