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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by MrObontami(m): 12:36pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
The guy dey blow lie pass the way NDA dey blow pipeline johnson232: |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by MrObontami(m): 12:40pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Opistorincos:lol at double decker slap |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 12:54pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
MrObontami: Honestly, i was suprised to see that shaa... cant accuse him of lieing though.. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by MrObontami(m): 1:00pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Meeeehn this thread makes me remember my child hood when i use to get beat left, right and center by my uncles( both from my mum and dad relatives), dad, mummy and even grand mother i feeling lazy to type i woulda go into the details, but me sef stuborn Oooooöooooooo 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
MrObontami: Mehn, u chop beating wella oo... Chai sorry oo |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Opistorincos(m): 1:19pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
MrObontami: Na so o |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Trottle: 3:13pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
GloryIsaac: You've tried your best, its left to him to MAN up. However, I think his parents' aggression towards him could be tied to him not securing an admission ealier, as you mentioned that they are strict. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 5:13pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Trottle: Yeah, the admission issue could be a strong factor amongst other factors that led to his current situation at 22 yrs ... Well, God help him.... Happy Sunday bro 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Feanah(f): 6:44pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
22?It's ok ONLY if you want your child to suffer from low self esteem.There are ways to discipline an adult child,and beating shouldn't be one of them |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jul 03, 2016 |
Feanah: You're so right, but the guys parents wont listen to that story ... I'm just fed up of his issue.. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Feanah(f): 4:54pm On Jul 04, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:Eyya that's sad.Hopefully,things change for him asap,I wish him luck! |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:39am On Jul 06, 2016 |
Feanah: Me too...btw, will love you to vote for VIZKIZ in the upcoming Mr NL contest, looking forward to your reply |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by omofabulous(f): 7:30am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Is not a sin for parents to scold their children but doing it right is what matters, beating doesn't change a child but turns him/her into an animal 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by holluphemydavid(m): 7:32am On Jul 09, 2016 |
I cud still remember when I was 30 and had disagreement with my mum, only wot she cud do is tryin to slap me, and I used to block her hands not to laid her hands on me, no matter wot, he's still a child to his parent, but not datt kind of beating oooo, beating get levels. I can't remember when I was beating last if not d stubbornness dat made my mum to do dat back den #funnybackden |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 7:32am On Jul 09, 2016 |
okro no dey tall pass the planter |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by LabiaDestroyer(m): 7:33am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Rukkydelta:keep decieving yourself |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by gistmeloveblog: 7:37am On Jul 09, 2016 |
so far you still dey under your parent roof at that age.. my guy u go still dey chop beating ooooo |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by ihedioramma: 7:38am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Yes as long as your mother is alive you are a small child to her and she want the best for you thats why . if you dont want that to happen to keep doing good things . |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by 99foxxy(f): 7:39am On Jul 09, 2016 |
I have never been beaten by my parent so i have no idea. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 7:40am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Agreed. Same applies to my mum. She's told us that as long as she's still our mother, and if we ever mess up,regardless of our age, she won't hesitate to use the whip on us jmichlins: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by iomoge2(f): 7:46am On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac: Imagine a son you sent to school with a fees of 1.5million a year, comes back after his mates graduated and tell u he was told to leave because he didn't pass. This happened in year two n he continued collecting your money without saying. This is someone whose accommodation is 400k yearly, feeding and all that over 300k yearly and he is studying Aeronautical Engineering.... This course is not in Nigeria so u had to source foreign currency to send him to school. He finally comes back and at 22 bringing all sort of girls to your house when u go out claiming he is a pastor. Not knowing that without schooling he can't be a respected pastor. When all he is interested in is carrying women n breaking up with them. The girls are even wiser n have all gone to date serious guys. Someone who refused to follow you to your place of work where you make money to send him to school - Pure water factory - instead sleeps at home all day. Someone who before you open mouth to talk to, he says it's his life. Someone who has no respect for anyone..... Please o, is it not to arrange better beating for him? Or what else can u do? Now he claims he has seen another school in UK. Whereas he wasted your money schooling in Ghana (KNUST) with nothing to show for it. Ghana that was easier to pop into. Now it's UK that u may not see him for another 50years he is gunning for. Well, I have told him, he can go n sell his kidney to go to UK I am done assisting my parents to send him to school. Smh. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by sandalina(f): 7:46am On Jul 09, 2016 |
jmichlins:We understand that 'children upbringing' is a lifetime thing but there's a stage children get to when you don't need to use things on them before you correct them...when scolding or speaking to them will do it. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by ewizard1: 7:47am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Tunechi1:Not with beating! |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by iomoge2(f): 7:49am On Jul 09, 2016 |
omofabulous: The one u don't beat that's an animal nko My SIL has been a medical doctor for over 10years n her mum still slaps her when she misbehaves or is about to. My mum inclusive. She still does what is needed. U r never too grown for your parents. Read my earlier post n see if u were d parent of the boy, what will u do? |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by ewizard1: 7:50am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Even if he still feed from their pockets, the most is beat him with words and not physical. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by menxer: 7:51am On Jul 09, 2016 |
I don't have to read your story to answer your question, which is an emphatic YES. If you are still been beaten by your mother at 22 years, it means you are still a child that needs to grow up (a lot to learn). The beating stops when you start thinking, talking and doing like an adult. BTW, you are never too old for mommy's flogging. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by LydayBobo(m): 7:53am On Jul 09, 2016 |
dollyjuke:and also in 21 streams |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by natedalo: 7:55am On Jul 09, 2016 |
People don't seem to get that this young man is being abused. Discipline doesn't mean beatings, there are more effective way s to discipline a child without beatings not to talk of a 21 year old young man If the guy was assesed psychologically i would not be surprised to find psychological issues. He is an adult and he is at the stage of life where he should be learning how to stand up for himself and what he believes. This beatings could lead him in long run to accept emotional abusive relationships with people because thats what he is used to and he doesn't know better. It would also wreck havoc on his self esteem. 4 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 7:56am On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:am telling u...na so pple go dey lie |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by aimuan(m): 7:59am On Jul 09, 2016 |
jmichlins:that your landlord deserve mental evaluation. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by pendusky(m): 8:00am On Jul 09, 2016 |
SANDOSKI: SANDOSKI hehehehehe |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Rainmaker69(m): 8:01am On Jul 09, 2016 |
jmichlins: What sort of comment is this? |
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