were u impregnated?
anyways I don't think its all men that does that

its life u av carry

There are lots of reasons.

One could be that he's not ready for the responsibility of children or condom use. Yet he was ready to shoot his load into a girl.

Funny, the same type of guys often go on and on about how abortion is "morally wrong".

Seems that men can choose their destiny in life, but won't allow a girl the same choice.

It's morally reprehensible to abandon the girl who will mother your children, without providing her with any options.

Most guys just want sex not baby... A lot of them aren't ready to father a baby. Its too much of responsibility for some, So they either deny you or run away.

Vendoor:
Most men just want sex not baby... A lot of them aren't ready to father a baby. Its too much of responsibility for some, So they either deny you or run away.

why having baby for a man who is not ready to bear responsibillity does that make sense.

Vendoor:
Most men just want sex not baby... A lot of them aren't ready to father a baby. Its too much of responsibility for some, So they either deny you or run away.

Responsibility makes a man.

kamel4real2015:
why having baby for a man who is not ready to bear responsibillity does that make sense.

I guess she knowingly impregnated herself (by herself)

foolinlove:
There are lots of reasons.

One could be that he's not ready for the responsibility of children or condom use.Yet he was ready to shoot his load into a girl.[/ b]

Funny, the same type of guys often go on and on about how abortion is "morally wrong".

[b]Seems that men can choose their destiny in life, but won't allow a girl the same choice.

It's morally reprehensible to abandon the girl who will mother your children, without providing her with any options.

When girls are not ready for the responsibility of a child,they can choose not to 'accept that load'.

Women also can choose their destiny in life-they can say no sex,insist on condoms or place themselves on contraceptives.

epistleNow:


I guess she knowingly impregnated herself (by herself)

maybe or maybe not

Not all men my friend!

thorpido:
When girls are not ready for the responsibility of a child,they can choose not to 'accept that load'.

Women also can choose their destiny in life-they can say no sex,insist on condoms or place themselves on contraceptives.

And when contraceptives fail?

foolinlove:


And when contraceptives fail?

She can choose no sex.Contraceptives can fail and the man can 'fail' so the girl has to weigh the risks.

Why do girls demands for money from men then leave them later?

foolinlove:


And when contraceptives fail?

what happens to condoms?

Vendoor:

Most men just want sex not baby... A lot of them aren't ready to father a baby. Its too much of responsibility for some, So they either deny you or run away.

@the boldened, that is quite correct, that is how the male system has been wired. Not only in humans, male species generally.

But any man that denies a lady after having carnal knowledge of her and getting her pregnant in the process, is a beast and irresponsible.

I have seen that depicted in several movies and have also heard of several practical cases, I just don't know why some guys want to tarnish the image/reputation of the male folk, just because of their carelessness and irresponsible nature.

NB,
@the boldened note the use of "guys" in that context.

kamel4real2015:
maybe or maybe not

You obviously didn't get the sarcasm!

If you don't want her pregnant, use a condom, double it for more effect.
You can even abstain ( it doesn't kill) !

But don't ask her to be responsible when you lack it.

That's lame.

epistleNow:


You obviously didn't get the sarcasm!

If you don't want her pregnant, use a condom, double it for more effect.
You can even abstain ( it doesn't kill) !

But don't ask her to be responsible when you lack it.

That's lame.

ok cool got it know.

thorpido:
She can choose no sex.Contraceptives can fail and the man can 'fail' so the girl has to weigh the risks.

I'd also say that if a guy is not ready to procreate, he shouldn't have sex.

passionate88:
what happens to condoms?

They can break or be misused leading to pregnancy. It's rare but it happens.

Vendoor:

*modified, pls refresh

foolinlove:


They can break or be misused leading to pregnancy. It's rare but it happens.

for a condom to burst during sex means that is no longer sex but fight

passionate88:
for a condom to burst during sex means that is no longer sex but fight

I believe the terms to use appropriately are Lovemaking and Sex.

Yes, sex can break the condoms.

foolinlove:


I'd also say that if a guy is not ready to procreate, he shouldn't have sex.

If it's not rape,it's the responsibility of the guy and the girl-the girl more because she will carry the pregnancy.

thorpido:
If it's not rape,it's the responsibility of the guy and the girl-the girl more because she will carry the pregnancy.

It's an equal responsibility. It takes two to tango.

Conclusion being - male or female - if you're not ready to be responsible for a child: don't have sex at all.

Especially when the woman could be ostracised for exercising her right to reproductive autonomy.

passionate88:
for a condom to burst during sex means that is no longer sex but fight

I don't know what you mean. You're saying condoms only break during vigorous sex? That's not true.

foolinlove:


I don't know what you mean. You're saying condoms only break during vigorous sex? That's not true.

Let me believe that, I'm a novice when it comes to such topics.

passionate88:


Let me believe that, I'm a novice when it comes to such topics.

Believe what you want to believe, but it doesn't change the facts.

Always be careful to use condoms correctly and have a backup method of contraception just in case the condom breaks.

foolinlove:


Believe what you want to believe, but it doesn't change the facts.

Always be careful to use condoms correctly and have a backup method of contraception just in case the condom breaks.

OK ma

foolinlove:


It's an equal responsibility. It takes two to tango.

Conclusion being - male or female - if you're not ready to be responsible for a child: don't have sex at all.

Especially when the woman could be ostracised for exercising her right to reproductive autonomy.

Yed that's true but the one who could be ostracised here has greater responsibility.

thorpido:
Yed that's true but the one who could be ostracised here has greater responsibility.

Why? Why does the woman have greater responsibility?

Just because she carries the pregnancy? The man played half the part in getting her pregnant. The responsibility should be shared equally.

foolinlove:


Why? Why does the woman have greater responsibility?

Just because she carries the pregnancy? The man played half the part in getting her pregnant. The responsibility should be shared equally.

My sis,the responsibilty should be shared equally but when the girl can be in a position to get ostracised,then she ought to take more responsibility for her sexual health.
I'm not saying the man shouldn't play his role but I'm looking at the scenario as in this thread when he doesn't(or may not).