Mehn! been soooo busy. Glad some1 noticed my absence

iykekelvins:
Sister, where haff you been?

misspicy:

i was expecting you to type a rebuttal Mr jambito Omega mighty matured grandpa


Farano,rocktation,lalasticlala,Dominique please transfer this thread to family section/frontpage


@Op oro sunukun leleyi o,jeki a won agba ba E fo ju sunukun wo

Btw,do away with that wife o,she is a killer

AlienStar:
Mehn! been soooo busy. Glad some1 noticed my absence

iykekelvins:
Lol, why wouldn't I

Eyah, you'd be staying longer now?

AlienStar:
Thank you!
Time shall tell.

Raalsalghul:
I love reading stories like this because it reminds me of why I never want to get married

2sexycom:
people who have been married have better experience at things like this and they will give the OP the best advise.

I am not just in the mood to give any advise... my mood is just not interested but on a normal day, I could write an encyclopedia for such case...

The advice he will get from the jambites here too will go a long way.



No one cares about your mood married man, sleep well

Ruemufaith:
Tears dropping
Don't really understand some ladies mission on earth
Imagine your wife calling you a half man??
It's time to take a walk Sir.

misspicy:

The advice he will get from the jambites here too will go a long way.



No one cares about your mood married man, sleep well

pharmagba:
I feel very sorry for you, but a man got to be a man
Firstly I don't know the real sickness and precise age of your daughter but one thing you must know is it is not good for a wife to have too much free time as it is a veritable devils workshop you ought to ensure she is working; open a shop for her or impregnate her so she continue baby nursing,

Now to your findings first of all copy it somewhere else like your phone and then confront her with it, play everything to her hearing, pause at intervals to ask her what you've done wrong, please don't be aggressive or angry; control your emotions. Ask her what she has to say.

Let her know it is betrayal, threaten her you will summon a family meeting of both family and see her reaction.
If or not she apologies don't tell anybody either your family or her. NEVER.. It must not come from your mouth.
But make a stand none of her family members should have your respect. They must never come to your house. Don't give reasons, don't pick or answer their calls until you see full repentance in her. which must be after like a year. .it is her family that must bear the brunt and punishment Nothing more

Don't divorce her she is your wife, folly is in the mind of a woman. I know it will definitely leave a scar in your relationship, forgive her still and try to let go, call her from work and be a good father and husband.

2sexycom:
next time anything that has to do with marriage should be taken to family section where mature minds are, not here that is largely filled with jambites.

IRserveMyComent:
Before you do anything first take your daughter for a dna test. It is unbelievable how your best friend is turning to your worst foe. If possible transfer all the recorded evidence to your phone, then call her two sisters the very ones you listened to their conversation. Fix i meeting with them in an eatry or any other un hidden place but do not let your wife know about it. Play the records to them and demand explanations or if they are married call their husbands and play the records to them. Either way make it known to them that they cant succeed in tryin to break your home. Tell them you love your wife (even if you feel otherwise at the moment). That she is your best friend and that all their gimmicks to break your home or make it unstable will never work. (and while at it make sure your phone is on record). When you are home call your wife and ask her exactly what she wants. Play her call recorded conversations with her sisters from your phone (this will shock her). Then tell her of your meeting with her sisters or their husbands as the case may be. Then play where you where telling them they wont succeed in breaking your home or making it unstable. If she still has a living conscience she would apologise and admit her wrongs. (you are taking these measures to save your home, not because you are at fault or anything) I wish you God's grace.

byvan03:
Don't be in a hurry to tell your family, once they hear this, the marriage has ended. A family with too much interference hardly lasts.


Tell her what you know, make sure she spends 2 weeks or more with those precious sisters of hers. She needs a reality check, she might not be a bad person but she is vulnerable. It's a shame when a woman has a weak personality, people like her operate with others steam. She has no mind of her own. You can save your marriage but you need to make your mark now, a huge mark that will reset all misplaced nuts in her brain.


If you want to restore your marriage, please don't tell your parents, they won't forgive this. Any meeting should be between you, her sisters and their husbands. Your problem is salvageable, you still have a fighting chance and you will win if you stampede those roaches into their hiding places. Those yelling divorce won't be there there to console your battered heart. Marriages do have their ups and down, deal with this like a man. Warn that wife of yours that the day she reports you to anyone again is the day the marriage ends and mean it.