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Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by laikas: 11:04pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
bros divorce her, buh before then from nw on the fone is nw urs as evidence, she doesnt love u so take off ur mind and act like a man or one day u wil wake up dead. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
OK. We have read your own version of the story. Remains 2 other versions we have to read before we can make up our minds on what to tell you, your wife's version and the truth. Oh, btw you mentioned that you were both Yoruba, whats's the relevance in helping us understand your story? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by laikas: 11:05pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Tritri: |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by ify84(m): 11:06pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Let not Divorce be ur first option. Call d family meeting and play d records.... Then, let her tell u people what changed her, if it's ur behaviour... Then come back here and tell us her reasons against u that made her to change.... Before we can begin to talk of divorce! |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Almajiri1: 11:06pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
80% of men are dying silently in their marriages.I pity men that still thinks it's the men's world. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Beey(f): 11:06pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
AccidentalGenius:jeez, 1st thing to do would have been to transfer the data of the recordings to your phone as evidence incase she later denies.Did you do that?You are in a very dangerous situation and you need to watch your back even before a final decision is made |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by emyreal1010(m): 11:08pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
i would advice u to call an emagency meeting between both families let them listen to d same conversation u found on her phone expecially ur parent be4 any action be taking but i would advice u to divorce her they advice her to finally kill u |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by laikas: 11:08pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Tritri:u neva see wife, this one is evn small compared to the i witness in my estate. |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by greatwhite(m): 11:09pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Before you make your decision: 1. Seek spiritual help, your wife is a total stranger. Find out who she is and what her mission is. 2. Do a DNA test for your daughter. Just to be sure she is yours. 3. Inform your parent and your lawyer about the issue. 4. Write your will. It might sound funny but you really should. 5. Find a way to copy the files on her phone. Duplicate it. 6. Call her parent and your parent for a family meeting. Play the files for them. 7. Tell them your decision. I pray your final decision would be the one that would preserve your life. 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Beey(f): 11:09pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
GoldenJAT:Jeez I totally agree with you.She is an evil woman from an equally evil family.He better leave while he still had breath.Sounds like a scene of a horror movie 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Nobody: 11:12pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
her sisters may be here amongst us on this thread... if you the sisters op is talking about please identify your presence by raising up your hands. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by laikas: 11:12pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
krak101:u've spoken well |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by freecocoa(f): 11:15pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Timbuktou:Hey stranger. Dude, I find it hard to believe that anyone would suggest something other than divorce, like wtf? Talking about how she's naive, vulnerable and doesn't have a mind of her own, say what? ![]() That woman knows exactly what she's doing, Satan has nothing on her. 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Irishrena1(f): 11:15pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
OP OP OP OP OP OP OP OP OP How many times did I call you? Are you just realising like me that in this life we are surrounded by strangers whom we thought to be our closest friends? I recently got my own shocker. I saw someone I thought I knew, turn into a stranger and a beast before my very eyes. I'm still getting over I and God just gave me my biggest breakthrough from that incident a few hours ago. So I tell you from experience, never expect much from people. Hope for the best but expect the worst. A fellow nairalander gave me those words. He said that way I cannot be surprised by anything. He said do not let your happiness to depend on anybody but yourself. But do things for people, make them happy, that way you too will be happy. My dear it has happened it has happened. Pull yourself together and move on. I know God hates divorce but I wouldn't want to hear a story that touches the heart as a follow up to this one, where one person killed the other. If I were the one, I'd transfer those files to my own storage without her knowing. Act the part of the unaware husband so she doesn't suspect that you know what you know. You need her to be uunsuspicious for you to be able to act cordinatedly and calculatedly. Look for an excuse to call members of both families together. Make duplicate copies of those recordings. Then when everybody is together, use a good device that is very audible to play those recordings. When that is done, take the matter from there as the spirit leads you. You can come back and open another thread. I hope I'll see it. Send me an email via my siggy if you need to. I'll respond 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Totfulguy: 11:17pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
DevGuru: Brother, If you loose your evidence, the messages, you are FINISHED. Save them in your dropbox. I REPEAT IF YOU LOOSE THOSE messages, you are FINISHED. SAVE THEM IN THE CLOUD. This is not to keep account of evil, BUT that level of treachery is dangerous and will not stop if you are not well armed. The messages are your weapons. Your handling of the situation is commendable,epic and legendary. Share the story with two trusted person and LET YOUR WIFE KNOW that someone knows. If you keep this to yourself alone, you could get killed and it would be treated as suicide! You are a great guy! 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Lescalier: 11:19pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
bezimo: These kind of ladies (I wouldn't call them wives) plenty o. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by freedomm: 11:19pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
If all you have written is true.your wife is one scary person.but it is not an excuse for divorce.marriage is for better and for worse.now this is a very serious worse. Prayer is the key.pray and ask the holy spirit for direction. You are the priest of your home and God can talk to you directly and reveal what he wants you to do. Do not confront your inlaws.Infact continue to show love. God will continue to protect u and with continous faithful prayers you will definitely see the hand of God in all.stay safe.God be withyou. |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by 0ubenji(m): 11:20pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Sir, keep it in mind that thr was a reason dat call recorder apund to be on d fone to ur advantage.. It was a loose-end on her side..but God Has a way of exposin these smartest evil ones.. U were lucky dis time...dnt push ur luck again wit pragmatics.. plz act swiftly..u might nt be lucky a Second time.. Juz follow d advise of odaz tellin u to summon a family meetin nd play d tape openly.. Then sit and watch as Woe betides the person who wud try to patronize u wit marriage sermons..#gudluck 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by tolufase: 11:21pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
The hard truth must be told. Just make sure you get those records intact as your evidence and call a family where you will review what had transpired between two of you and call it a day. End of discussion |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Kunberg: 11:21pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
That's bad |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by BusinessHub1: 11:22pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Op, to be frank with u i have nothing else to tell u. Alot has been said already..just select some points from there. This and other incidences are forming part of lessons i have to learn about women. May God help me (as i hope to get a beautiful family someday) cos day by day am growing distanced from women..can't date, don't keep mistress either. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by freecocoa(f): 11:22pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
bukatyne:Must he have done something to her? Can't people just decide to be bad on their own? Who's to say she wasn't pretending all this while? 9 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Owliver(m): 11:23pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
but why would she record it? fake story |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by chronique(m): 11:23pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
@ OP: take ur daughter for a DNA test. When you've confirmed she's your child,copy those recordings to your phone. Invite your pareents,her parents and siblings. Play those recordings in front of them. When done,ask them to take their daughter away till further notice. Don't divorce her yet. Let her spend thee next 6months - 1yr in her father's house,while her sisters who adviced her,are in their husband's houses. After a year,if she's sensible,the shame of living under her parents after being driven out of her matrimonial home while her sisters remain in their husband's houses,will give her sense. If possible,make sure the husbands of her sisters are around,when you're playing the recorded audios. 11 Likes |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by pharmagba: 11:23pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
freecocoa: Is that the only thing that matters to you in all this issue on ground? This is a classical case of the folly I'm talking about in women. Anyway,I don't know the level of your English, but I used 'folly' figuratively, it is like your kid sister did something wrong and you're angry and someone said to you 'don't be angry she is just a child' The objective is for you to overlook the offence. I hope you've gotten some wisdom |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Kunberg: 11:23pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Ok |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by LUV1: 11:23pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Just pray notting God can not do Jesus is coming soon |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by buksaylor001: 11:24pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Did you transfer those recorded files to your phone? If no,get it first and we will move further- |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by papinx(m): 11:24pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Hmm |
Re: My Wife's Siblings Are Breaking Us Apart And I'm Mad Right Now by Moheat(m): 11:25pm On Jul 05, 2016 |
Story that touches the heart. OP file for divorce ASAP. 3 Likes |
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