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What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by chriskosherbal(m): 2:56pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
WHAT IS A MELANCHOLIC? The melancholic temperament is usually associated with the element of earth. People with this temperament may appear serious, introverted, cautious or even suspicious. They can become preoccupied with the tragedy and cruelty in the world and are susceptible to depression and moodiness. They may be focused and conscientious. They often prefer to do things themselves, both to meet thier own standards and because they are not inherent sociable. WHAT TO DO IF YOU ARE MARRIED TO A MELANCHOLIC HUSBAND OR WIFE. 1. Give them stability: Melancholics often have a passion for organisation and schedules. They want to see things done in a certain way at a certain time everyday. For them that creates stability. 2. Give them space: Melancholics need some space that is exclusively thiers and not for thier spouses or children. 3. Give them silence: Give them some quiet moment, like times where there is no TV on; no screaming kids, no phone calls, and no continual chatting. Do this at least once a week. 4. Be sensitive to the things that concern them, at least try. 1 Like |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by Nobody: 9:26am On Jul 06, 2016 |
chriskosherbal: I think this describes me to an extent, but can one possess two different traits?, just the way some people are ambiverted.... Btw, will love you to vote for VIZKIZ in the upcoming Mr NL contest, looking forward to your reply ![]() |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by chriskosherbal(m): 9:42am On Jul 06, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:yes of course, one can be ambiverted, but one of the trait must be dominant, I mean the percentage can never be equal between the two traits. |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by Nobody: 11:47am On Jul 06, 2016 |
chriskosherbal: Exactly, i asked because i know fully well that i have traits of both the melancholic and plegmatic type though it kind of affects my interaction with people ![]() |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by Nobody: 12:26pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Had a very short friendship with a guy like that.. It's scary.. He loves listening to sad soulful songs, so quiet with blank expression in his eyes.. Mehn the worst ever.. Can't never date such and never marry such type.. Very scary and cold.. Such guys and ladies, I wish una best of luck oo |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by Project400: 2:00pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
http://www.temperaments.fighunter.com/?page=melancholic ^ ^ I think this description is interesting. |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by chriskosherbal(m): 8:13pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:ok |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by chriskosherbal(m): 8:15pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Amelian:hahaha really! |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
You see what i'm talking about ![]() ![]() |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by chriskosherbal(m): 2:51am On Jul 07, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:I don't think everybody does, it's just some certain individuals who are not willing to understand that there are different temperament, and must learn how to embrace and accommodate different types of individual lifestyle. |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by KanwuliaExtra: 2:56am On Jul 07, 2016 |
Dia we go ah-gain! Dry marriages efrywhia! ![]() The main reason why PSYCHOS should not get married to breed more MELANCHOLICS AND ALCOHOLICS!!!! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by Nobody: 3:07am On Jul 07, 2016 |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by chriskosherbal(m): 7:28am On Jul 07, 2016 |
KanwuliaExtra:really!!!! C'mon you are kidding right. |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by Nobody: 7:32am On Jul 07, 2016 |
chriskosherbal: It definitely cant get worse ![]() |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by chriskosherbal(m): 7:58am On Jul 07, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:I won't. |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by Nobody: 8:15am On Jul 07, 2016 |
chriskosherbal:See how negative their reactions are ![]() |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by chriskosherbal(m): 8:44am On Jul 07, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:I mean I won't forget to vote him. |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by Nobody: 9:18am On Jul 07, 2016 |
chriskosherbal: Thanks ![]() |
Re: What To Do If You Are Married To A Melancholic Husband Or Wife. by chriskosherbal(m): 10:46am On Jul 07, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:of course, do not follow popular opinion, follow your own opinion, knowing fully well that you are doing the right thing. That's what matter. |
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