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Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by kuchikau: 11:02pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
If you stay in/around portharcourt, come to the teaching hospital,ask of DR. ThankGod. If you wish. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
God bless you Dr. kuchikau: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by yinkslinks(m): 11:05pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
What do you want now? humbledbyfaith: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Dymaco(m): 11:05pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
taryour: but what of his brother catering for thé wife sister |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
nawa o. daniska3yaro: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:11pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
WHta the brother and wife did is very bad,are you saying once a man married he should not bother about his siblings,you must be wicked yourself,siblings that are orphaned.,working or not,he is still suppose to cater for her,that is his role after their parents demise,until she gets married. Joavid: 7 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by STENON(f): 11:12pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
ToyotaTufiakwa:okay, I have read it from your profile that you just registered on nairaland. Welcome to nairaland. "No comment" |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by christisreal: 11:12pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Dont mind those people that are just adding more salt to injury.The truth is that there is no guarantee that they would have done better if they had the same problem.Ignore the advice of those that are telling you to get married to solve your problems.Never make a parmanent decision over a temporary issue.I have an aunt that had a similar issue and got married to escape it.Now is she regretting the decision.I am not saying that you should not get married o but at least for the right reasons. Now about your case; I really undetstand and i know its not easy but keep praying and holding unto God.He will surely do it.Remember that when a man's way is pleasing to God even the man's enemy will be at peace with him.Everyone has a trying stage to go through in life and yours seems too challenging but when God gets ready to bless you, you will forget all these troubles and you will narrate them with laughter.The scripture says that eyes has not seen,ears has not heard nor has it entered into the heart of any man what the lord has in stock for them that love him.Just hold on and keep praying.You may be surprised at how their countenace will change and even if it dosen't then help will come from somewhere else.If u attend a good fellowship then you can narrate your ordeal to them.while i was in school such issues were taken care of. Above surrender your heart to Jesus If you are yet to do so.Its not a promise that once you do so things will change like magic but their are God given potentials which you posses that you may not know about until you become born again.Honestly if I had money I would have loved to help you and I know that there is someone out there like me who will also love to help and who has the resources to do so.May God lead you to such a person. GOD BLESS YOU. 8 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by princy80(m): 11:13pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
try to resolve things with him...if he refuses, CURSE HIM!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:14pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Abio,even if he dnt give her money for upkeep,school fees should be provided by him. Askmewhy: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Taryur3(m): 11:14pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Sorry for everything...thats how 70% of this newly married lady behave.you too I don't think you will be an exception if you marry(so sorry if it hurts you) but we have to be factual...here.it's just painful that all the efforts of your late parent on your brother is being reaped and controlled now by a stranger called wife that doesn't know what you guys passed through before your brother could succeed.it's painful for your friends to be in service and u still battling with project cos of lack of funds... pls good Nairalanders here should help a sister out. You can pm me...I can help with something....just to support you so that you can have your way out of the university.God bless. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by mafiaso9: 11:15pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
How much money do you need to compete your studies and what's your full name so I can try and forward some funds for you via western union? 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:18pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Wallahi the worst thing a man can do is to neglect his siblings,am a wife of seven years too,and i alwways let my husband play his role as a provider for his siblings,the brother and the wife are not looking at the big picture,what if in the future God forbid both of them die and his kids are left to suffer the consequences of their action,what goes around comes around. princy80: 8 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by banmee(m): 11:18pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Ahmed0336: Bros you have only heard one side. You'll be surprised when you hear the side of the brother. Don't judge yet. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:19pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Me feel ur pains. sorry. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:21pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
And some wicked women are badmouthing the OP here,dnt let God curse you oo,they are Orphanes,their curses do really manifest,and God and angels curses whoever do evil of this kind to them.so becareful on whatever you say or wish them of evil. 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by erudean: 11:22pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
taryour: Some of you on this forum can be very heartless in your comments! Na waoo. 10 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:23pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
God bless you greatly,but why not ask for her email and facebook page,so you can be sure you are sending it to the real person. mafiaso9: 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by GoldenJAT(m): 11:24pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
taryour:i pray u don't encounter some situations in life... Just pray fervently u ain't face with situations like this... ur comment really annoyed me, though it changes nothing.... it is only d person that wears a shoe that knows where it is pinching him or her... u ended up saying nothing!!! 5 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:24pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Maybe she is a kind of woman and have done it to her inlaws too, i tell you some people are damm wicked. erudean: 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Nobody: 11:26pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Shes making a fool of herself,shes veruy arrogant and an idiot,wicked joined together GoldenJAT: |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by STILESGANG: 11:26pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
I just don't understand how a man can allow a woman who just came into your life to take you away from people you've known all your life and without these people you wouldn't be where you are today.It's mind boggling!. 2 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by bitingcool: 11:27pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
keepingmum: Very good points. From the ops past post, sorry to say, you sound like someone who will also do worse when you're the in-law. You seem never to have accepted your brother's wife and unfortunately, I guess she's also not so nice. How come you're the one asking for your younger bro's fees all this while? Can't he ask. Employ humility, help around the house and stop snooping ( people that snoop are very malicious) Learn a trade, make-up, ushering weekends at weddings and drop your blame and entitlement attitude. Cut your coat according to your material. I see no reason why your brother shouldn't help you.. and discuss your needs privately with your brother or after doing an obviously good deed. 1 Like |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by GoldenJAT(m): 11:27pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
erudean:for her mind she de advice person!!! some people are so insensitive and fail 2 face reality.. maybe her parents are rich and they c 2 her well-being, so she thinks everyone is like her... she would be a very heartless woman eventually!! it's glaring 2d eyes. 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by Optimist1(m): 11:27pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
humbledbyfaith: My sister, the only advice I can render to you is that, come to God in prayers and humble yourself before Him and He will see you through. But one think I'd like you to know is that, this word is coming to an end and everything you see in this world is vanity upon vanity in the book of ecclesiastic 1:1-18 Build your faith in God so that when you die today, you will have the knowledge of where you will be going. And by the time you stand righteously before God, pray and see if God will not answer you. So my sister, take hard and be of good courage and the Lord will see you through. You can also be part of our Kingdom Program called, ''JESUS DISCIPLES FELLOWSHIP'' is a kingdom Program that is going on here in the planet earth where God is building men and women that will worship Him in spirit and in truth. We run it in form of school system and our foundations are; Prayer, The Word of God and Revelation. By the time you partake in it, the Lord will begin to use you. We hold it from mondays 5:00pm - 7:00pm, wednesdays 5:00pm - 7:00pm and saturdays 8:30am - 11:30am. We have it here in Lagos, Abuja and other states, so you can make yourself available. |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by ToyotaTufiakwa: 11:30pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
STENON: *Smiles* They don't know........ |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by bitingcool: 11:31pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
uplawal: There are always 3 sides to a story _He said _She said _And what really happened There are in-laws from hell. And they come from both sides. We shouldn't take sides with any when you're hearing only one part. 6 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by GoldenJAT(m): 11:32pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
uplawal:its really annoying.... I read her comment, and I wonder, if some people were created with brains at all.. I know my God is 2 perfect for such.... it would have been better, she kept mute |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by cooluc(f): 11:34pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
So sorry about what you are going through, went through your previous threads as well. I think is time you moved on, I mean stop and think of a possible way out, am sure there is and keep your brother out of it for now, trust me a lot comes with marriage, avoid resentment bitterness and anger cos that might limit you as well, seek the lord in prayers meet your church group and show love and support to your brother, be optimistic about your future and stop thinking of suicide and other worse case scenarios. There's light at the end of any dark tunnel..good luck 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by GoldenJAT(m): 11:34pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
christisreal:remain blessed... spot on 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by marvelous000: 11:36pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
[size=13pt] Now I unequivocally understand the saying that women are their own enemy. look at how they're crassly and Ignominiously casting aspersions on the Op without taking time to deduce her assertion properly. Damn! the worst mistake one can make is solicit advice from women on matter devoid of emotion. Too myopic,sentimental, vapid, and warp to string up cogent solution. Ain't stereotyping, just stating overt fact. [/size] 3 Likes |
Re: My Brother Will Make Me Cry To My Dead Parents Against Him by pharmagba: 11:38pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
crackhaus:In addition, be very good and humble to your brothers wife. The key word is service. Do every house chore you think you can do and don't brag or make your brother knows you did it. If your brother gives her credit for it let it be. I don't think she is altogether a bad person, try and share your challenges with her and hear what she will say or even pretend to need her advice and anything she says thank her for it.(this doesn't mean you will do what she says) and take that advice never to ask for money from your brother when she is around. You've got to be her friend then she will be the one telling your brother to give you and she herself will give you. Brother work on yourself and things will improve 2 Likes |
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