I must be honest with myself, life has been so good to me no doubt about that. I have always enjoying the kind of person I am becoming... But I have been single for years now, which I am not happy about.. though so many factors contributed to that.

I had a very lovely past relationship. No cheating, no lies, no demanding everything was just perfect but we couldn't worked our differences cos I traveled a lot. I always pray for her wherever she is now for God to just provide her with a good husband. She is just too good I must confess.

Some months ago, I decided to go into a relationship but I was hurt. She is a Liar, cheater and manipulator..

Having experienced sweet/perfect relationship, I called it a quit and pretended as if nothing ever happened between us. Though she still troubles me on a daily basis but I told her bluntly that I can never go into a relationship with her again.. Why would she cheats on me when I am 100% faithful ( yes I mean that). Cheating is not my way, lying is not my stuff, though I may not be perfect but I still tried my possible best to make her happy. Still she never appreciated that. I guess she is just appreciating me now and it is too late.

I always get so many admirers whenever I am out. Some are my choices of ladies, some are not but for the fact that I am outside my country, i do not want to commit myself into a relationship that has no future.

My wish is to marry my country woman.. Tribe or religion is not my problem but the problem is where am I going to meet the lady.

I realised majority of Nigerian girls are after materials things. My last visit to Nigeria, I tried my possible best to find myself attached with some ladies. For the fact that I live in abroad, things they are demanding are just outrageous.. Though there are so many good ladies out there but how am I going to meet them? For now, Nigeria is not a country for me to stay unless if we want to pretend to ourselves. If you are not averagely rich, Nigerian is an hell.

How old are you? I've also been single for a long time and keep meeting men after my money. I need a sincere person. Send me a private message maybe we could hit it off cheers.

Na this kind topics dey confuse me,
Oga Op, you dey ask question abi you dey find answer?,
Or na your life story you just wan tell us?

bobeefc:
How old are you? I've also been single for a long time and keep meeting men after my money. I need a sincere person. Send me a private message maybe we could hit it off cheers.

Aunty na your type I dey find,
I go send you pm now,
I'm not a gold digger oh, but if you give me money, I go collect

Ladies will garnish fraud and package it to you as 'love'. The honest truth is, Nigerian girls (majority) are after money/material things.

bobeefc:
How old are you? I've also been single for a long time and keep meeting men after my money. I need a sincere person. Send me a private message maybe we could hit it off cheers.

I am in my early 30's and you?

bukitt:
I suppose we're on d same page bro, and now that I'm planing my trip to 9ja soon I'm wondering how it might turn out in terms of findin that special one. It really baffles me why I'm still single.

Oh lawwd help from all these 9ja karashikas this time.

My broda, no be small thing oo.. Money is not everything.. But i have come to realised that in life, you can't have it all at the same time.

hungryboy:
Na this kind topics dey confuse me,
Oga Op, you dey ask question abi you dey find answer?,
Or na your life story you just wan tell us?

All of the above..lol

beesammy:
Ladies will garnish fraud and package it to you as 'love'. The honest truth is, Nigerian girls (majority) are after money/material things.

Gbam.. no two ways about that.. And the majority of the guys are after sex

Berlyn:
eaya Torri

dem don dey show face...Like dem dem

argon500:



dem don dey show face...Like dem dem

what i do baba??

Berlyn:
what i do baba??

I just dey hail you ni ooo...

argon500:


My broda, no be small thing oo.. Money is not everything.. But i have come to realised that in life, you can't have it all at the same time.

argon500:



I just dey hail you ni ooo...

bukitt:
u're just speakin my mind bro, even here wey I dey sef loneliness wan kill person cos say I no gree to put just any woman for house. Can u imagine stayin all by urself in a 3bedroom flat in a condominium with one one to talk to, it's either from watchin tv to ur lappy or play with ur phone, same shit arrday lol n also bein that I don't like to be with just any woman, I don see many foreigners but I dun want la cos all they're after is a hard black cock n I don't have any sperm or time to waste at all. But when person come reach 9ja to find that special one them go just dey use a whole guy man like atm machine. This time na just to park car for one corner dey trek or use keke napep o. I know d God who found Mary for Joseph would not let me down this time.

Bro it is better to be single and happy than be engaged and sad.. This is not about ladies, it is about Nigerians orientation about things.. You can never have a straight 2 hours chat or talk with majority of Nigerians without them billing/taxing you. They always have problem. Both men and female and i wonder how they reason as if na only dem get problem.. I was chatting with a brother some months ago.. He started narrating like 3 years back problem at the end of the day, na money go end am.. The most annoying part of it was he insisted to drop his account number and I should send him money the next day.. Just imagine reasoning.

bukitt:
Lol I was in 9ja last year after many years n only spent 3 months, na so so stories everywhere, I begin solve people problem like say I be buhari o lol on d third month nobody tell me na, I just dust my slippers naso I pianty o. I noticed nobody is sincerely n straightforward in 9ja, na mech worse pass, even d nearest person wan knife from u n they don't even care all cos of say u come from abroad. And let me get this straight, if u've read my thread on here n you're contactin me, I use God beg u, add ur pic in ur dp n if u also know that u're not serious or u're lookin for ur mugu, I use OGHENE ELEDUMARE CHUKWU OSANOBUA UBANGIJI beg u, just move to d next person biko nunu

Me no spend reach 2 months before I piaun.. Everybody want something from you but they are not ready to help you in anyway unless if they are going to see something from it...Same mentality with the wailers and zombies.. How can you be supporting someone who never know you exist, somebody you never benefitted from and they keep on abusing themselves online..I decided not to show face during during Xmas cos na so so billing everybody wan bill you.. The moment you stop giving them, you will definitely become a bad person

argon500:


Me no spend reach 2 months before I piaun.. Everybody want something from you but they are not ready to help you in anyway unless if they are going to see something from it...Same mentality with the wailers and zombies.. How can you be supporting someone who never know you exist, somebody you never benefitted from and they keep on abusing themselves online..I decided not to show face during during Xmas cos na so so billing everybody wan bill you.. The moment you stop giving them, you will definitely become a bad person

God help us all

I wonder y good people most tyms com across bad people. Pray for direction. There are good gals everywhere dear, and these gals are looking for gud guys too. And not every gal is after ur wealth som just need ur time and heart.

chericleo:
I wonder y good people most tyms com across bad people. Pray for direction. There are good gals everywhere dear, and these gals are looking for gud guys too. And not every gal is after ur wealth som just need ur time and heart.

Do not get me wrong, i didn't say all the ladies but majority. I have tasted real love before and i know it felt. Just that these days, it is hard to find the right partner

argon500:


Do not get me wrong, i didn't say all the ladies but majority. I have tasted real love before and i know it felt. Just that these days, it is hard to find the right partner

Gbam!!!

bobeefc:
How old are you? I've also been single for a long time and keep meeting men after my money. I need a sincere person. Send me a private message maybe we could hit it off cheers.

Washere mugun jam maga

And now food will be ready soon

bobeefc:
How old are you? I've also been single for a long time and keep meeting men after my money. I need a sincere person. Send me a private message maybe we could hit it off cheers.

really? u first mentioned men are after ur money, something is fishing here,u want to trap someone, and biliv me somkeone will pay

your expectations are high,u need to step it down a little, maybe the wife u are looking for could be under your nose, above all,u sounds like a nice guy,and u will always be a nice guy, so to be able to really understand women more, u need to forget about marriage for now, try and date as many women as possible,this will help u to understand that there is no better woman outthere, it will surelly help u in ur decision.

argon500:
I must be honest with myself, life has been so good to me no doubt about that. I have always enjoying the kind of person I am becoming... But I have been single for years now, which I am not happy about.. though so many factors contributed to that.

I had a very lovely past relationship. No cheating, no lies, no demanding everything was just perfect but we couldn't worked our differences cos I traveled a lot. I always pray for her wherever she is now for God to just provide her with a good husband. She is just too good I must confess.

Some months ago, I decided to go into a relationship but I was hurt. She is a Liar, cheater and manipulator..

Having experienced sweet/perfect relationship, I called it a quit and pretended as if nothing ever happened between us. Though she still troubles me on a daily basis but I told her bluntly that I can never go into a relationship with her again.. Why would she cheats on me when I am 100% faithful ( yes I mean that). Cheating is not my way, lying is not my stuff, though I may not be perfect but I still tried my possible best to make her happy. Still she never appreciated that. I guess she is just appreciating me now and it is too late.

I always get so many admirers whenever I am out. Some are my choices of ladies, some are not but for the fact that I am outside my country, i do not want to commit myself into a relationship that has no future.

My wish is to marry my country woman.. Tribe or religion is not my problem but the problem is where am I going to meet the lady.

I realised majority of Nigerian girls are after materials things. My last visit to Nigeria, I tried my possible best to find myself attached with some ladies. For the fact that I live in abroad, things they are demanding are just outrageous.. Though there are so many good ladies out there but how am I going to meet them? For now, Nigeria is not a country for me to stay unless if we want to pretend to ourselves. If you are not averagely rich, Nigerian is an hell.

Dear op, neva rush into marriage with any lady sha oh. Pray to God to direct d chosen one to u. There are stil good Ladies out dre, but rare to com by. Only God nos d right person 4 u, if u allow him. Neva tel d lady wat u worth to no weda she loves u for real. Allow God to take d leadership role in ur life. U wil surely meet d chosen one.