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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:54am On Jul 09, 2016 |
gistmeloveblog: So unfortunate ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:57am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 8:59am On Jul 09, 2016 |
iomoge2: God dey oo, carry him to MFM, looks more like a spiritual something... serious ooo 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:02am On Jul 09, 2016 |
menxer: Dont you think that whatever you could not teach your child through beating before he/she reaches age 15 can never be taught by continous beating again ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Omoluabi16(m): 9:03am On Jul 09, 2016 |
LoL. I think the parents have not done a good job in parenting.When you beat such mature person over such trivial thing, he'll surely go overboard the monent 'daddy and mummy' isn't there. The world has changed.. spanking a child after 14 is useless. The psychological and thoughts are much more important to reach than some miserable scars. An educationist like me knows that first hand. Make your children your best friends, make yourself approachable.The fact you sired them does not make you some demi-god. They're ruining the boy's life big time. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by NemzySeries(m): 9:05am On Jul 09, 2016 |
iomoge2:so u guys av signed a deal of a lifetime To b been @ will all in d name of trying to put u upright......back to d orda issue, beating definitely wunt solve d problem, N 2ndly u guys knew d guy had characte/conduct issues & u kip sending him far frm home (uk & ghana) + I bliv hiz allowance n pocket money is on d high side.......u guys shw pray ova d mata & equally engage him & reduce money dat cums hiz way aswell as restrict hiz previledges....God wud see u guys tru 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:08am On Jul 09, 2016 |
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Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by NemzySeries(m): 9:10am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Fabulocity:wao......so in orda words u guys signed a deal of a lifetime (contract) wit mumcy on beating affairs!!! no wonder bible calls it "Long suffering" but fear not, d lord is ur strength & shock absorber 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by adaxxy: 9:18am On Jul 09, 2016 |
There's nothing wrong when you misbehaveyou receive a dirty slap even in presence of your girlfriend/wife. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Omoluabi16(m): 9:19am On Jul 09, 2016 |
iomoge2:awww.. I feel your pain. But do not give up on him, absolutely no one is beyond redemption.you went on about some luxury stuff there. Was your brother ever starved of money? or the 'I get what I want ' while growing up?Last child/only son? who am I to even judge your parents, after all you came out fine. he'll change. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by ADAMUdaCOWBOY: 9:21am On Jul 09, 2016 |
jmichlins:This one is not a child. Any parent that does that is definitely breeding rebellion |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:24am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Jadonjack: Calm down bro ![]() |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by banio: 9:27am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Beating a 22yr old is propagation of domestic violence. I bet you that dude will do the same to his wife and children. Too bad STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by fromnigeria(m): 9:32am On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:The child can be carefully or moderately corrected if he does something wrong. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by phaulzoe(m): 9:32am On Jul 09, 2016 |
it's totally rubbish how a young guy like that still get beaten atlest he could b ask to sit and caution not beaten him recklessly |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:33am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Yes oh ![]() As far as she's concerned, her children are never too old to be disciplined ![]() NemzySeries: |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:35am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Krismart: So easy to say, right ![]() |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 9:38am On Jul 09, 2016 |
nnamdiokere45: Thats my only fear bro, i just hope his retaliation doesn't lead to a new level of madness from both him and his parents |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by chinchum(m): 9:43am On Jul 09, 2016 |
iomoge2:Beating can achieve nothing in this case. Absolutely nothing ! Well maybe it makes you feel good as u vent your emotions, it makes the bad situation get worse on the other hand. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Tomaxzyn1(m): 9:43am On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:This is one great disadvantage of havin religious fanatics(who call demsefs xtians) as parents.. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by menxer: 9:45am On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac: How does that detract from what I said? Beating a child is never the first but last option in correcting a child. And correction doesn't come at the beginning of a lesson. Disciplining a child by beating has a point of no return beyond which it's of little use, so everything must be done to assist the child attain that level of discipline before that point of no return. 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Tomaxzyn1(m): 9:47am On Jul 09, 2016 |
GloryIsaac:Nothin shockin here Isaac.. It's nt necessary he was raised by his biological moda..cud be some distant relative or so. But if he was indeed raised by his mother...he probably meant has neva been beaten by his mother sinx he became capable of remembering things as a child |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Tomaxzyn1(m): 9:53am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Fabulocity:Nd who says discipline must involve embarrassing nd 'self-esteem destroying' beatings? ..#AfricanMentality |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Tomaxzyn1(m): 9:56am On Jul 09, 2016 |
ADAMUdaCOWBOY:Exactly what dese kinda parents dunno... The child only grows to FEAR and probably spite u..not to RESPECT nd love u(as shud be) |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by MCeeShort(m): 10:00am On Jul 09, 2016 |
She's right...he's still her son.
But is 7pm late? I don't think so. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Tomaxzyn1(m): 10:00am On Jul 09, 2016 |
nnamdiokere45:Lolz..I hope ur mumci fears u for virtuous reasons oo.. It's betta for ur mum to respect rather than fear u mehn.. Dat sends some strange msg to ppl |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 10:03am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Exactly, it's an African thing and this is one of the few places we are getting it right Why do you think there's a great difference between kids brought up here and kids brought up abroad? The beatings we get here reform us, shape our characters so that we will end up as responsible adults While over there where beating a child is considered as child abuse, don't you see how useless and disrespectful their children are? Insulting and exchanging words with their parents and even threatening to call the police on them? So sir, I don't consider beating as esteem destroying. Pls, not everything African is evil or backwards. Tomaxzyn1: |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by YOLO1(m): 10:05am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Sincerely, I can't remember if my mum has ever beaten me b4. But as for my dad, it's a combination of royal rumble, smackdown, WWE. And this is responsible for the partial hatred I have for him. Am more free with mum and relate with her well. Dad has been trying to make ammends but the childhood experience sucks 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by nonjebose(m): 10:06am On Jul 09, 2016 |
I had one of the strictest fathers, who used every opportunity not to spare the rod while we were children. My mum supported him to an extent in this ministry. But none of them continued in this ministry when we turned 17. He always said at that age we have to decide who we want to become. That helped us a great deal to right, from a position of self determination and responsibility |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Tomaxzyn1(m): 10:07am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Rukkydelta:Haha..no wonda.. Lastborn children are kinda lucky..dey hardly get quality beatings from parents unlike d firstborn kids.. By d time lastborn don dey mature..most parents don dey retire from disciplinary studies..most times na the oda elder children dey take ova wit d disciplinary ish |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Akjr(m): 10:14am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Mehnnnnnn, if a guy behaves mature, @ even 18 his mum wont even wll wanna touch him or shout on him anyhw.... Ur behaviour matters. Bt guys anger @ agee 22 upward x very dangerous... Bt no bigdeal. Mumc x always mumc. |
Re: Is It Right For A Mother To Keep Beating Her Adult Son At Age 22 ? by Nobody: 10:16am On Jul 09, 2016 |
Kosy79: Exactly 1 Like |
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