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Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by KingRex1(m): 8:03am On Jul 10, 2016
vizkiz:
Yeah, we have all been there...Bro you definitely saw some signs she is not loyal but you rather choose to ignore. I think you should just let her go, who knows maybe she's has been furcking 10 guys undecided

Just let her go without with it? Naah man. I prefer he talks to her bout it n clear his mind. It may not be what it seem. . Just clear ur doubts OP. If u wana end things, look past it or revenge, fine. At least you got to know what really went down

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Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by jonaifame22(m): 8:03am On Jul 10, 2016
U don't need to ask her any thing, wheneva she comes.jus welcome her,entertain her, pull her pants and f vck her brains out,............ Let love lead!

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Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by Nobody: 8:06am On Jul 10, 2016
ligopedro:

Then Op is infected too bcoz him go Don chop her pomo b4, and Op isn't dumb not to protect himsef.
Op call the Babe over and Open up to her. Tell her u saw all the chat. Chai the babe sef cheap na ordinary pant and bra dem take enter her.

e fit be customised nau. U sabi how mush dem dey sell customised br.a? Taaatin taaasand!
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by dryyansh1(m): 8:07am On Jul 10, 2016
ligopedro:

Then Op is infected too bcoz him go Don chop her pomo b4, and Op isn't dumb not to protect himsef.
Op call the Babe over and Open up to her. Tell her u saw all the chat. Chai the babe sef cheap na ordinary pant and bra dem take enter her.
Like I said, the guy is not staying in the same city. Don't think they've had sex yet but I may be wrong. Obviously the guy has been sending her money.
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by vizkiz: 8:07am On Jul 10, 2016
KingRex1:
Just let her go without with it? Naah man. I prefer he talks to her bout it n clear his mind. It may not be what it seem. . Just clear ur doubts OP. If u wana end things, look past it or revenge, fine. At least you got to know what really went down

He definitely needs to let her know. There is no doubt again to clear...He has gotten the facts he needed from her phone
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by Nobody: 8:09am On Jul 10, 2016
jonaifame22:
U don't need to ask her any thing, wheneva she comes.jus welcome her,entertain her, pull her pants and f vck her brains out,............ Let love lead!

abi let fvck lead? Be true with your intentions nor!
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by dryyansh1(m): 8:09am On Jul 10, 2016
Omotayor123:
Chai... See as guys dey Advice shocked shocked
What would a lady advise?
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by ligopedro: 8:11am On Jul 10, 2016
discoprophet:


e fit be customised nau. U sabi how mush dem dey sell customised br.a? Taaatin taaasand!

Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by Omotayor123(f): 8:12am On Jul 10, 2016
dryyansh1:
What would a lady advise?
Check earlier post. I already did. cheesy
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by jonaifame22(m): 8:12am On Jul 10, 2016
discoprophet:


abi let fvck lead? Be true with your intentions nor!
love is fvck and fvck his love,u either fvck a gal cos u love her body or cos u love her, and a girl fvcks a guy either cos she loves his money,or him!

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Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by ligopedro: 8:14am On Jul 10, 2016
KingRex1:
Just let her go without with it? Naah man. I prefer he talks to her bout it n clear his mind. It may not be what it seem. . Just clear ur doubts OP. If u wana end things, look past it or revenge, fine. At least you got to know what really went down
Thank U for this. U deserve 1 cold bottle of Origin abeg wait make Berlyn come back from church, Na she go go buy ham come. grin
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by dryyansh1(m): 8:17am On Jul 10, 2016
Omotayor123:

Check earlier post. I already did. cheesy
make I left the matter to God? OK ma. Thanks

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Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by dryyansh1(m): 8:20am On Jul 10, 2016
KingRex1:
Just let her go without with it? Naah man. I prefer he talks to her bout it n clear his mind. It may not be what it seem. . Just clear ur doubts OP. If u wana end things, look past it or revenge, fine. At least you got to know what really went down
You are the man. Thanks
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by Nobody: 8:26am On Jul 10, 2016
jonaifame22:
love is fvck and fvck his love,u either fvck a gal cos u love her body or cos u love her, and a girl fvcks a guy either cos she loves his money,or him!

wrong! I don't fvck for either and bae dosen't love
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by jonaifame22(m): 8:39am On Jul 10, 2016
discoprophet:

wrong! I don't fvck for either and bae dosen't love
aiit,bye!
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by blithe2nice(m): 8:48am On Jul 10, 2016
firstking01:
Inorder for you to enjoy your youthful years which GOD has benevolently and freely giving to you undeservingly and live long, do everything possible to stay away from your spouses phone...because if you snoop your bf or gf's phone you must always see something that will set your heart on devastation...truth is, your gf/bf has an admirer somewhere you might not know, and from time to time guys would be making advances at her and no matter how faithful she is to you, you must be seeing some heartbreaking texes on her phone....the bottomline is, stay away from her phone.
Plz am nt here to quote u wrongly. But just to air my view. Then where is the love and trust? When you can't access ur spouse's phone. For me ,if she can't access my phone and me likewise,I see no reason for the relationship. That's prison and not relationship.Bros just reason am too

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Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by Nobody: 8:48am On Jul 10, 2016
jonaifame22:
aiit,bye!
Safe journey..
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by princeakins(m): 9:25am On Jul 10, 2016
Just passing
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by schumastic(m): 10:15am On Jul 10, 2016
dryyansh1:
Normally I don't go through her phone but yesterday she brought it to me that I should help her resolve some imei issue on it.
After I was through with the phone my curious mind said I should check her Whatsapp messages (make nobody come here come blame me o) . Her Whatsapp was outdated, I backdated the phone and it came on again.
Mehn, the last chat I saw on her phone was heartbreaking. She was telling a guy how much she loves him, how she can't wait to see him. The guy was asking of her bra and pant size. That he's going to buy for her when he comes around cos from what I learnt from the chat, the guy is not staying in the same city. She even send pic of her boobs to him (she's an hijabian sister o). I was shocked!
Now I also went through her chat with one of her female friends were she was telling that one how she just saw one Maga and she just dey play along with him. That one was even asking her about me and from their discussion about me, I think she still like me.
Guyman don vex รณ.... I was so sad yesterday that I just go take 3 bottles to calm down.
The thing is, she's coming today and I don't even know whether to confront her or play along just to have my share and take off....
My sabi guys, abeg help your man o... Advice pls.
from your story i will say this things.
1.never go through your gf or bf phone, never do such and tell them the same thing as well.
2.trust no one in this life and you are feeling this pain cus you trusted her, reason why you put the hijabian sister.is good to trust but is better and wiser not to.
3.love doesn't exist or better said, we humans can't show the true meaning of LOVE and that's why either partners this days are either selfish, self centered or only care about their own happiness.

bro my advice to you.
I will advice you not to break up, just play along and have a side chick or get another bae and make this one your side chick...it has happen just take it as it is, such is life n another wrong way of showing the word love..
this will be hard but try this it always work.
if she comes today, get her something nice n tell her you know everything she did but you won't judge her cus no one is perfect..if she ask what she did, just tell her not to worry but you know...let her conscience bite her everyday...pls get yourself a side chick is very very important, so u v something to fall back on.

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Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by schumastic(m): 10:30am On Jul 10, 2016
kaycodes:


What advice do you need?

You just dodged a bullet. There was a reason you found out what she was doing.

If you can stand the lies she will tell you then ask her, cos she will put a spin to the whole ish.

If you really love her, then let her know what you found out, give her a chance to tell you the truth, if she lies about it, just assume you're in an open relationship moving forward.

If she tells you the truth, then maybe you still have a 20% chance of saving that relationship.

Let me tell you one truth I found out the hard way, No LADY is a saint even if she lives in the convent. How she dresses doesn't change that.

with this mentality of yours, I pity you...
you are still talking of op loving his girl when she is cheating on him nd still planning to visit the guy and cheat again.
you are asking for him to hear the truth, what truth if may i ask?
the truth is clear, she cheated on him and will still do ut again...what op needs to do is let her know that he knows, any explanation will only hurt him the more and is not necessary..he should go ahead with the friendship cus is no longer a relationship while he looks for a new bae...no lady is a saint but a smart one won't leave any trace of cheating behind..

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Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by bitchcrafts: 10:36am On Jul 10, 2016
She was just flirting!

We do worse on Nland talking dirty nonsenses

So, chillax! You've not paid her dowry

She belongs to nobody and belongs to everybody tongue
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by dryyansh1(m): 11:19am On Jul 10, 2016
bitchcrafts:
She was just flirting!

We do worse on Nland talking dirty nonsenses

So, chillax! You've not paid her dowry

She belongs to nobody and belongs to everybody tongue
angry
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by bitchcrafts: 11:23am On Jul 10, 2016
dryyansh1:
angry
grin Dryyansh, how is your crawcraw?
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by dryyansh1(m): 11:30am On Jul 10, 2016
bitchcrafts:
grin Dryyansh, how is your crawcraw?
I dey here dey vex. You dey ask of craw craw? Whatever that means
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by bmcariyo(m): 11:41am On Jul 10, 2016
dryyansh1:
Your are the boss. That's what I thought of doing. Just wanna hear from sabi guys first.

Since our people said she's just flirting abeg no forget to use condom. God bless
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by bitchcrafts: 11:44am On Jul 10, 2016
dryyansh1:
I dey here dey vex. You dey ask of craw craw? Whatever that means
no be lie, you're truly dry
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by IamLEGEND1: 12:21pm On Jul 10, 2016
bitchcrafts:
She was just flirting!
We do worse on Nland talking dirty nonsenses
So, chillax! You've not paid her dowry
She belongs to nobody and belongs to everybody tongue

Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by bitchcrafts: 12:30pm On Jul 10, 2016
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Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by phabulous88(m): 1:01pm On Jul 10, 2016
angry

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Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by Nobody: 2:39pm On Jul 10, 2016
ligopedro:

Thank U for this. U deserve 1 cold bottle of Origin abeg wait make Berlyn come back from church, Na she go go buy ham come. grin
baby i dont serve orijin on Sundays lipsrsealed embarassed
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by ligopedro: 2:44pm On Jul 10, 2016
Berlyn:
baby i dont serve orijin on Sundays lipsrsealed embarassed
Ooooh i Don forget we keep it holy on Sundays, how's service?
U dashed out after some1 called u clown dis morning I dey ya back na me be ya bum bum. grin
Re: Guys Pls Help Your Man Here, I'm So Sad. by Nobody: 3:30pm On Jul 10, 2016
ligopedro:

Ooooh i Don forget we keep it holy on Sundays, how's service?
U dashed out after some1 called u clown dis morning I dey ya back na me be ya bum bum. grin
who did? undecided

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