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Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
There's no law that says you must marry her. With just one child she can't maintain cleanliness, what happens when you marry her and she gives birth multiple times. Your home will always be like a pig sty. Visitors will have to regularly go out for fresh air when they come inside your house. 6 Likes |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by ijeshaboy: 2:42pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Ioannes:hmmm thanks I apprreciate 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by olagift(f): 6:52pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Do you love her to the extent of overlooking this behaviour now and in the future? If not don't marry her yet. Watch her for sometime whether she will change or not. Also don't make the mistake of impregnating her the second time because that will give her automatic marriage ticket. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by AdexOmoby(f): 6:59pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
ijeshaboy: Just keep praying for her. There's nothing God can't do. Pray and fast. Do naked midnight prayers. Cook her the best meals. Wash her clothes. Buy her new clothes. Watch warroom. ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by ipledge10(m): 7:02pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
ijeshaboy:omo owa, omo ekun ![]() It is not a must to marry your baby mama 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Coolgent(m): 7:04pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Bros those time wey u dey Bleep her before she born, she dey hygiene ko? 2 Likes |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Saao(m): 7:05pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
dollyjoy:hear talk. Must u contribute? Op been dirty is a simple to ignore if all other qualities u needed in her are intact. Keep talking to her, she will change, don't be tire of telling but in a nice way. 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Osemond123(m): 7:05pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Lols samething that came into my mind 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Saao(m): 7:06pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
dollyjoy:hear talk. Must u contribute? Op been dirty is a simple to ignore if all other qualities u needed in her are intact. Keep talking to her, she will change, don't be tire of telling but in a nice way. 2 Likes |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by badonkadonk: 7:06pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Gbam... 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by profmallory(m): 7:07pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
you impregnating her does not equate to you marrying you. You can reach an agreement on how to take care of your child. If you marry her, you might never have peace all your life. 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by goingape1: 7:08pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
ijeshaboy:naturally NAIJA GIRLS are very very DIRTY. 2 Likes |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by martineverest(m): 7:08pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
wasnt she unhygeinic when u were having sexx with her?...u must be a piig |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by aiikman(m): 7:09pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Big excuse....no one is perfect so Mr, u should simply enlighten her on those areas whre she lacks knowledge like dat u mentioned....after all she was sensible enough to carry and nurse ur baby....well all depends on her willingness to learn |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by goingape1: 7:10pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
dollyjoy:see this mumu! if you dey go your boyfriend house, you dey come DIRTY? ![]() how he won take know were all ya WOMEN are Master of deception! 8 Likes |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by ManTiger(m): 7:11pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
ijeshaboy: Is she from Ibadan? I mean is she from Bere mapo? |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by redcliff: 7:12pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
ijeshaboy: bros marry that woman at your peril. i have an aunt who is exactly like this. they dont change.... you would suffer big time. a dirty woman is a lazy woman and a lazy woman is a procrastinator and a procrastinator does not value anything, time, money and possessions... be wise! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by AuroraB(f): 7:16pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
ijeshaboy: ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by AuroraB(f): 7:20pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
AdexOmoby:That War-room is not applicable to Africans, Nigerians especially. Knees fit peel finish and no shange ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by pedrilo: 7:23pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Make una dey evaluate who una dey sleep wit abeg o 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by love4rent80s: 7:24pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Wicked u!!!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by ROZZAYY(f): 7:27pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
hmmmn serious bu t eeeh wen u were parting the red sea didn't you perceive the smell of the dead fishes? jezz asking ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by AfroKnight: 7:27pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Don't marry her just yet. You would only despise her later on. If you can afford a maid to clean your apartment, go ahead and hire one since you love her. If you cannot afford a maid, Just don't marry someone you would grow to hate when the love wanes. Maybe you can decide to overlook her dirty habits but that is highly unlikely. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by love4rent80s: 7:27pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
goingape1: Thank God I am a boy....ur post no concern me 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by visijo(m): 7:27pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
abeg the girl na from which tribe because i de suspect say girls from the other side of the map like dorty... Na basketmouth talk am ooo. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by swituju: 7:29pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
And wat d he'll happened to a housemaid.even if it's those dat comes n goes in d evening.if u trully kia n hate polygamy for ur daughters sake like u said,den do d needful.evry woman must not have d same stamina for house chores,some r born lazy n deres nothing u can do to change it.Behind her up.take her to hair saloons,boutiques make her ova and u won't noticed d dirtiness flaw.my 2 cent |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by repogirl(f): 7:30pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
You will need a helper to help her where she is slacking. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by kennylawd: 7:31pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
ijeshaboy:Please you don't need to be confused. I think you still love her and that is driving force behind your so called confusion. But I guess she doesn't love you as much but she didn't have a choice then she would have aborted the baby. She is likely waiting for another man to hook up with and that is why I guess she is disgruntled. Am persuaded to believe she was packaging you up when the relationship started probably to hide her true colors and because I guess you had a strong feelings for her you could not think clearly then and you guessed she was okay for you then but most human beings don't reveal their trueselves until over a period of time. Now the way forward if I may suggest. First destroy any feelings you ever had for her. Secondly start to deal with her on a clean slate as if you just got to know her. Thirdly get house help for your mum to assist in taking care of the baby if you can afford it or you can seek for a good relative that you can support that can help you out with taking good care of the baby. If you would not mind I will suggest that you stop allowing her to come to your place because I guess you might still be tempted to continue to sleep with her as I guess you have been doing and such will increase your confusion. You cannot be eating your cake and still have it whole. Finally Look up to Jesus to help you start a new relationship that will culminate into you fulfilling your marital destiny in life. Marriage is more than physical you will need more supernatural and spiritual back up from heaven to succeed. I wish you all the best in Christ Jesus name 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by CACAWA(m): 7:31pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
ijeshaboy:jidoski...from all you have said..it's obvious she's using jazz on you. You won't know. How can u say she shuts your mum down when advised? How can you say she replied you with "ok" and you don't know what she meant? Are you the one paying her fees yet you cannot control her? Are you the one doing the house chores when she visits? You dare allow her turn the toilet brown without giving clear cut instructions? As a graduate ..haba....haba mallam....Jide u fall my hand o. My only advice is that you should wash your head three times this night before you sleep. When you wake up...phone her and just drop three instructions as follows: 1. Bathe my daughter three times everyday and send me pics on whatsapp. 2. Help mummy clean the kitchen and/ or bathroom every evening and take pictures. 3. If I don't see changes in your attitude...you will be out of my life forever..and I will have custody of the baby. Then you give her five minutes to apologise and vow to change. Right there on the phone..no time for excuses...and she dares not give vague answers... Do that . 2 Likes |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Generalyemi(m): 7:34pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
ijeshaboy: is she from ekiti 2 Likes |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by olagift(f): 7:38pm On Jul 10, 2016 |
Do you love her to the extent of overlooking and tolerating her dirty habit for the rest of your life? If no, please don't marry her yet, but watch for sometime to see if she will change or not. If she fails to change then leave her. Also try not to make the mistake of impregnating her the second time, because that will give her the marriage ticket automatically. 2 Likes |
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