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Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Funkybabee(f): 9:06am On Jul 11, 2016 |
andyanders: OK e oooo, if u think like that all human are not the same |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by goingape1: 9:09am On Jul 11, 2016 |
favoured234:Russia, Greece. that's all. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Klare(f): 9:28am On Jul 11, 2016 |
ijeshaboy: 1.Correct her in love always. 2. Always double check if ur mum is not exaggerating the situation. Older women can bs funny at times. 3. She might be going through alots academically,coupled with d fact that she has to take care of a baby 4.according to ur story she is still young and maybe the environment she grew up in is all those village settings where everywhere is always litered and maybe jer mum did nt teach her some basic things. 5. Its her first child she dont know anything yet. 6. Check very well she has some cliche of friends giving her bad advice thats she shld infuriate you to maks u collect ur baby frm her and set her free to come to the world proper. If you do love u will go extra mile. Dont forget the power of prayer. And always appreciate every little changes affirm her, sit her down talk to her. Take her out make her happy. Dont treat her like trash. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by UmmKhalifah(f): 10:11am On Jul 11, 2016 |
[quote author=ijeshaboy post=47388786]thanks boss, have talked to her beg her, infact she was doing her IT, she was sleeping at home and the superior came to her place of IT and didn't meet her. The case is still on now that my mum is trying to settle.[/quot ahah dat s too much na, she's is lazy ooo, I av 1 as ma sis inlaw too, dat thing can b frustrating..... she can never change |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by UmmKhalifah(f): 10:16am On Jul 11, 2016 |
ijeshaboy:thanks jawe... can't even sit on dirty toilet, d poo sef won't com out |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Izen: 10:44am On Jul 11, 2016 |
nnamdiokere45: You see double standard? E be like say the op is neat, so he should help her out then. What if she's like you and needs someone like him? |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by mzzhavilah(f): 11:35am On Jul 11, 2016 |
Hire househelp |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Nobody: 12:21pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
[quote author=goingape1 post=47422022] Russia, Greece. that's all.[/quote 2/195 and you are making noise. Go back under that your rock you've been hiding 1 Like |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by goingape1: 12:45pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
[quote author=favoured234 post=47427932][/quote] I rather go back to that rock I'm hiding than to stay with ya people. ![]() |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Mememan: 3:20pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
dollyjoy:Epic response ![]() Ijeshaboy won't like this ![]() |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by esthadewunmi(f): 11:44pm On Jul 11, 2016 |
Destined2win:it sound funny ;Ddirty girl ![]() |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Nyceguy92: 12:56am On Jul 12, 2016 |
Let me react to some responses here, hoping the OP will see it: To those blaming the man for getting a dirty lady pregnant, I will say that pregnancy has nothing to do with the issue at hand. She could have gotten pregnant before they stayed/lived together. "Put it in prayer" is hardly a solution to a real problem such as this. One response advised as above plus cooking her meals and washing her clothes and buying her new ones... I am like...seriously...for an adult female and mother. I will definitely flow with those who said the man was not under compulsion to marry her. What good is a woman who sends her child to school dirty, allows her toilet to go brown from white, can't keep the house clean? I frown at such habits when I go to other people's houses, much more marrying the person.. It is a red flag for me. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Schwartz: 9:08am On Jul 12, 2016 |
Nyceguy92:But I believe that if the lady has some other good qualities the trait of being dirty can be corrected. I am still teaching my man how to hang his clothes and not fling them all over the place. He is getting better at it. So also is he teaching me some things I am deficit in. You don't throw away the baby with the bath water. No one is perfect. You can tune your partner the way you want them to be. 2 Likes |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Nyceguy92: 3:32pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Schwartz: Noted.. Sounds like my measure is a bit harsh. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
Personally, dirty people irritate me seriously. Esp dirty females. I mean why would anybody be dirty much more a lady? If she wont change her ways, OP, do not marry her o. Cos it will only get worse. Well except u fancy house helps who can maintain ur house for you. Or if u hv time, u can take it up urself. If not, you are on your own o. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by ADUNOKIKI(f): 4:31pm On Jul 12, 2016 |
OP, I have few questions for you before you totally condemn her, neither am I supporting her!!! You said she is in her final year? Don't you think it's not easy for her to take care of the baby, because of academic stress? She will have to bath the baby early, what if she have class very early and read over night? Eventually, she is getting late and quickly take the baby to day care before bathing th child? Is there any body assisting her? Are you sure your mum is assisting her? Mind you, you are not there!!! She has her project too? I think you should give her time, the stress might be too much for her!!!! Let her graduate and observe her, when she is not having to meet up with early morning lectures!!!!! Mind you for a person that is not with a baby in school it's not easy... talk less of a nursing mother? Do you think when you were in school and have a baby to take care of, an infant for that matter, do you think you can cope then? If you answer all these questions within you, you will know if you are fair with her. The only thing constant in life is change. With love and patience, she can change... |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Agbalayaibrahee: 6:59pm On Apr 05, 2018 |
My brother carry your cross ooo, at least u av been dating her for long and u knew she dirty,she gave to son for u,u at sponsor ing her in school and u av to wait until now before u came to realize she is dirty, my guy u know ? U av two options either marry her like that or u leave her marry someone else. Toor u do saara b DAT oooo. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by loshybab(m): 6:33pm On Apr 07, 2018 |
I've had dirty female neighbours while in school and I know how frustrating it could be,esp when the person in question is as close as your babymama. Just give her more time,more close monitoring if you got the time and more corrections with a mild tone. She might change in the long run but put a hold on all marriage plans for now |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Printerscanner: 10:40am On Apr 08, 2018 |
dollyjoy: No, he didn't know that the baby mama is a dirty pig before she trapped him with pregnancy. The guy was not looking for a wife, he was just looking for for a fucck mate unfortunately, he wasn't smart enough. Now, go and tell your dirty friend to go learn some hygiene before she infest everyone with diseases. |
Re: I Plan To Marry My Baby Mama But She Is Unhygienic by Preciouzword: 11:13am On Apr 08, 2018 |
Then you have to teach her to be hygienic. But pardon me. How does she take care of your baby because this has to be considered https://momsall.com/baby-health-infant-health-baby-care/ |
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