Just move on bro...e go better along the way, trust me...I've been there.

Women believe no time for long relationship and u need to ask ur self how old is she, u still want to finish ur hnd n she is through d space dey can she wait for u, if u really want to marry her since u working u can combine both n also go n c her people but if u not ready let her go, before she is too old to marry, she try anyway even if is to use u to finish her Hnd

My advice to you.
1. You need to handle this very well, I know someone who lost his life because of heart broken from a relationship. Mature mind,try to avoid isolation get on and start up soonest, engage yourself in a busy habit,pray for wisdom to handle such situation base on your believe and faith.
2. If you try to call and enquires about the break up and she seems defensive so much don't waste time move on quickly. Don't wait for her life goes on,its not easy but you have to stand up to your task. This is real life lesson.
3. I will advice you to use this break up time to concentrate with your studies and focus your mind to the bigger future.
God is a faithful God. Goodluck brother

Bro. I am a victim also, just that I dint spend much financially, I am now married to the best wife in the whole world, mine was a blessing in disguise, she may not even be in the plan of God for ur life and she has removed herself by herself, please rejoice.

Same old story...
Moral lesson:don't overestimate your place in people's life.

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You know she does not have parents again, 5 years of f×cking is enough for you, how many children have you guys aborted, she has to move on. Learn how not to train a girl in order to marry, put her in a family line and train her from there. Give your life 2 God.

BrokenHeart2016:

Thanks for the advise bro, I really suffer in this relationship

bro a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage

psucc:
5years is not 5days or 5 months. Having 'served' you for that long without any glimpse of hope of marriage, she has to move on.

Guy truly you no try at all.

God bless u!
Plus make I add, maybe his peepee is small too

Odunharry:

Omo as far you no do her bad. anything she do na she sabi..
Make she go junction or river nothing de happen

my brother i believe wetin u talk. But our naija ladies believe say once una fvck tire for relationship and una come separate them go say na you cheat them. Say u don useless them. As if them no useless our pree.eek.

Na so them dey also do. Some dey go babalawo side to do the guy bad thing o. I am a witness to this. Thats why i say make d guy curse d babe. Some naija girls wicked no be small

BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

This is what happens when you invest in a woman. Invest in yourself, get a good life and youll have a good woman.

SexyStrawberry:


God bless u!
Plus make I add, maybe his peepee is small too

abi the girl get water water toto. Thats why . 12 inches dee.eek will swim in a watery toto.

Mr, girls are just creatures u will never seem to understand.
But i feel your pain, i know your agony. Iv been in this position too before. But if you can pls do what im abt to tel u, den u are gonna love the kinda man u gonna become:

------NO CONTACT------
Mr, its gonna b so hard for you in dis stage but trust me its gonna help you.
Ladies are merciless, and they too dont deserve mercy in some cases.
If u keep contacting ha in way or d other, she is gonna think you cant take care of yoursefl and that you are hlpless.
And incase she calls you, do not pick d call no matter how many times she does that. I know you wanna hear frm her so badly, but pls dnt pick dat call, girls are very cunny.
And incase she sends you a msg too, dnt reply, you are letting her feel the pain you felt indirectly.
So pls block every means of contact you hv for her now.

----KEEP AWAY MEMORABLE TINZ----

Incase you have pics 2geda or tins dat can make u rmb her easily, pls its time to kip dem away.
Put dem smwhr u knw u dnt chck everytym. Broda, i min evrytin, no matter what it is keep them away.
Pics on ur fone?
Copy dem to ur PC or a friends PC, and den hide d folder smwhr u wnt normally go dere.

----NEW LIFE----

Mr broda, dis wrks well.
Change your look, change ur dressing, change almost everytin cos she knw tinz abt u alredi.
If u hv a particular hair cut b4, den pls change it.
Change ur fcbk username, ur whatsapp no, (u can leave your personal numba), you know why, when she dsnt see's any traces of you any longa, she is gonna look for you herslf, trust me.
Make sure u start a new and diff life presently n pls dnt flaunt it, she is gonna see it as show off.


-----SOCIALISE-----

Go out wit frnds, have mch fun and be happy. Do new tinz, tins u dnt normally do b4 (but not like taking alcohol).
Hangout wit ladies too, its gonna hlp u. Make sure u do all dis witout presence. Wen she see's you having fun, she is gonna miss u badly, i guess u knw wat she might do nxt.


MY BRODA, MAKE SURE YOU KEEP THIS TINZ ROLLING FOR LIKE 2 MNTHS, AND DONT BE IN A HASTE TO TAKE RASH DECISIONS

keypad1:
abi the girl get water water toto. Thats why . 12 inches dee.eek will swim in a watery toto.

Must u quote me? mstcheeewwwsss Nonsense!

SexyStrawberry:

Must u quote me? mstcheeewwwsss Nonsense!

you are the nonsense.


E pain am!

Bro try and see her to talk things over one on one. I and my babe broke up couple of times too but I usually took the bold step to go visit her and know what happened and see if we can work things out and it's really been workin for me. I realize dat most times we quarreled or she broke up with me, she actually never meant to do it buh just did out of frustration or anger as at dat time and she later regrets the action. So jst see her and talk things through, if she still insists after that, then move on. God will surely provide a better one.

BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

u will get her wedding invitation card

BrokenHeart2016:

I'm finding it so difficult to forget about her

I know it's hard, but you just have to move on. What's yours will always be yours and what's not will never be. Don't let this affect your health, or else by the time the real yours will come around you won't know. And if you die because of one lady now, thousand will cross over one's grave. Buckle up and face your life, in fact work harder to prove to her what you can do with your life without her. Always remember that the Lord knows better than us. It is well with you in Jesus name.

I really don't blame the girl because you could not marry her for five years you met her that's why she left you. Sometimes in life love is not everything and enough. Sometimes it is easy to love than to be loved. There are many beautiful and big fishes in the ocean. Be strong.

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There is a saying, chase money get money and women will chase you. Sorry for your heartbreak but move on and focus on being successful. You will see the real woman for you. Things happen for a reason and if your a positive person believe that its best for you what has happened.

BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

Eyah! Pele! Such is life! Thats beauty of life...you know why? Cause when you totally forget about this girl...thats when you know life is truly beautiful...hearts must be broken...love must fade...marriages break..people die and so on....ce la vie!!! Life teaches us,breaks us but yet we still live...sh*t happens...wish her well...pray for her...cause she breaks your heart doesn't make her a bad person...thats human! We change! We learn! That's your own diary now..write it well! Take it like she grew up...it might be you in her shoes and women have a soft heart that can be manipulated..she grew up tell yourself that! You don't even know the war she is fighting within that makes her break...just allow her she owns her heart..she gave you that heart and she is taking it back...allow her I know it's not easy cause I myself have been a victim...its crazy time! Allow your heart to think of her so that you smile...one day you will discover that you barely think of her again...focus on yourself and try suffer yourself from what will make you talk to her.this is the best time to do nothing.mark my word she will come around!!! ..you will always think of her but you can actually do without talking to her believe me...pele!!!!!!! Love kai! If I am aalsked one thing I regret most in life now...i think it's ever knowing women!!!! But that's the life we live...planet earth...!!! Things will always fall apart!! It's a mad world now!!!! Funny humans like us all


PLEASE DO NOT JUDGE HER..WHEN YOU LOVE someone AND DO THINGS FOR them cause you LOVE them, YOU DON'T EXPECT ANYTHING IN RETURN...YOu LOVE SOMEONE YOU DO THINGS FOR THEM NOT EXPECT ANYTHING IN RETURN....she has done for you self...giving her body to you is something!!! Lwkmd

M proudly a strong heart.....I've never been heartbroken cuz I know the rules.....anyway lemme advice u...see your challenges as training courses for you to excel, make sure you learn from it....build a value for yourself people ll always come for you on the basis of how valuable you're.....when I was in 100 level I struggle to ve a gf (I mean do a lot of talking to win a hrt) I asked one of my older friend y girls are always after him he simply said when you get to that stage they ll be after you too....i worked on that n now m a working class...most female friends I have wanna marry me...not just date me, I don't ask girls out again

Zambux:


Focus more on building urself, start up ur degree program or HND and don't forget to pray always and pls don't curse her with time it will be a story .... Time heals

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Bro, how old r u and your girlfriend. Will advice u wen I get this data.

You didn't in any way help yourself. Permit to insult you small. Bro you are a big fool. Why should you make such mistakes. You took her serious even more than yourself that she graduated with upper credit AND YOU, LOWER CREDIT. As if that is not enough, you are ND holder and she is about finishing her HND and you think she will stay. The best way to make yourself secure is to be a step ahead of her. Live her alone and learn lessons from that. You can sponsor you brother or children to be ahead of you but certainly not GIRLFRIEND

Mu guy did you engage her? Or she was just your sexmate for 5yrs? How do you expect to date for 5yrs and not even do introduction to her people, with that she'll know you have plans. No engagement, no intro, no marriage, after NYSC what do you expect?
Man up bro..

FORGET HER,FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE,FIND ANOTHER DAMSEL.......#FINISH

IRONY of LIFE!!!!!!!!! good girls r always hooked,used n dumped by d bad guys....while d bad girls wuld always meet one OTE good faithful guy

During the journey of life, everyone goes through times of failure, pain and suffering. However only those who have the guts to get up and continue with their journey, emerge victorious. All u have to do is smile and act like noting is wrong, its called putting shit aside and be strong.......move on guy

guy u spoke my mind. and ds is d absolute truth ppl doesn't want to hear Esp babes wit d substitute part. whereas dey are wired to easily get carried away. D babe dt cnt fall victim hav nt bn created. hence, as a guy, I repeat, as a guy just like u rightly said. one must av substitute wen dealin wit women OR NEVA TAK DEM TOO SERIOS N NEVA GO OUT OF UR WAY TO GET ANYTIN DONE FOR DEM

jideniceguy:
Bro try and see her to talk things over one on one. I and my babe broke up couple of times too but I usually took the bold step to go visit her and know what happened and see if we can work things out and it's really been workin for me. I realize dat most times we quarreled or she broke up with me, she actually never meant to do it buh just did out of frustration or anger as at dat time and she later regrets the action. So jst see her and talk things through, if she still insists after that, then move on. God will surely provide a better one.

Breakups and makeups in a relationship is a warning sign

Zambux:
Bro u just have to move on, even if u lament from now till forever if she isn't yours she isn't.. It's not gonna be easy buh it's the best for you.... With time ull forget she ever existed.

Am very sure that u have done the same for this nonsense u just typed, I expect u to say something reasonable,anyway, I can't blame u, I don't argue with woman because the kind of brain GOD gave them......