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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Kikenitoluwa(f): 8:15am On Jul 13, 2016 |
"Come to me, all who labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light" (Matthew 11: 28-30) "Again Jesus spoke to them, saying, 'I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will not walk in darkness, but will have the light of life." (John 8:12) Different things happen, but this may be a sign that the time is now. please accept the Lord Jesus. You will be fine. |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 8:18am On Jul 13, 2016 |
zeongeon:Best comment on this thread! In fact you deserve 1 million likes! God bless you! I hate sentimental and hypocritical men! ![]() 3 Likes
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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Coldsteel(m): 8:19am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Sorry bro,but if u'd been a gunner,u wouldn't have been this broken(All tnx to Prof Wenger).. ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by sexy74(m): 8:21am On Jul 13, 2016 |
@ op thank your star that she had to leave and not that you later discovered unfaithfulness from her side which would have been worse for you to bear. Brother move on there are still other women to know and to have. Don't let this make your work suffer or make you lose you self esteem or happiness. Remember this always '' the earlier you know you are alone the easier your life. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by deplay24(m): 8:22am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Women have dealt with me,i myself I feel sorry for myself,love is a pure scam 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Oyindaberry(f): 8:23am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Move on dear, some people are just a waste of time and resources. But I know there will be a loophole in her life in the future and she will come begging. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 8:24am On Jul 13, 2016 |
keypad1:This guy you always reason backwards! And I will keep on correcting your mistakes! Curse who ![]() ![]() The curse sef no go work,you wanna know why?? Because he has already Fornicated with her,which is a sin on its own! So curse no go work unless he will go diabolical which of course must backfire on him! As a christian,even an atheist knows that generosity is never a sin but fornication is! So do me a favor and keep mute!! ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by deplay24(m): 8:32am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Women have dealt with me,i myself I feel sorry for myself,love is a pure scam,my baby mama left me,my own heartbreak was on February 2016.de wound left in heart has healed |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by keypad1: 8:34am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Trina0936:tell this to all those your sisters that keeps swearing for their boyfriends after every break ups. My brother i repeat curse her! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by keypad1: 8:35am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Oyindaberry:na that day she go die if she comes back begging |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 8:36am On Jul 13, 2016 |
keypad1:Maybe they don swear for you. See your life,no wonder! ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 8:36am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Adeyeancah:Lol |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by bobojoshua(m): 8:37am On Jul 13, 2016 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by no1madman(m): 8:38am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Guys hit it b4 u. . . . . Another is hitting it now. . . u can hit it again. . . . . . . . |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by keypad1: 8:39am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Trina0936:e pain am! 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by bobojoshua(m): 8:41am On Jul 13, 2016 |
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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by valarinz: 8:41am On Jul 13, 2016 |
zeongeon: Mr OP aka broken heart2016, pls come and read this asap Go and make money, you're broke that's why she left, she sees no financial security with you, forgive that babe and make her a friend, she just helped push you to the best place ever, which is : The money making zone, You can either make money your next lover, Chase it, seduce it, woo it and date it marry it, or...... You can keep crying over a kitten you've hammered over the years which is close to its expiry date anyways, your choice 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by sultan003(m): 8:41am On Jul 13, 2016 |
BrokenHeart2016: boy, shit happens.......... focus on yourself and move on, you still have a lot to achieve in your life and trying to understand why she left you right now is not one of them. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Iphesure212(m): 8:42am On Jul 13, 2016 |
So many soft nice guys out here ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by no1madman(m): 8:46am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Juicysam:Na so toto be! I might be d next 2 hit it. . . . |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 8:47am On Jul 13, 2016 |
keypad1:What pained me ![]() ![]()
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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by tayo619: 8:53am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Hello, bruh..... I honestly think you should let her go... She is definitely nt the right person for you. Its better she goes now than you regretting that you married her. Kindly take heart and am sure God would provide a better person made for you...... My advice to you is that you should channel your anger, sadness and unhappiness into something greater... As u said.. Try enrolling for your HND or a degree program and be the freaking best in your chosen course, also try working smart and hard.... Godspeed, bruh 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by keypad1: 8:53am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Trina0936:and your brothers don receive curses tire.....eeeya. Guy naked yourself around 2 a.m. And curse that biiiitch 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Oyindaberry(f): 8:55am On Jul 13, 2016 |
keypad1:Lol, guys dey para o. Abeg no kill person o. |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Funkybabee(f): 8:57am On Jul 13, 2016 |
sorry bros,but u too do abnormal things nah. why don't u quickly finished ur HND before her, she might not want to wait for u to finish yours maybe that is why, although she also do bad thing!!!!!but u know woman don't have much time like u guys in aspect of marriage!!! Pele a oni ri iru re mon 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by badderdandem(m): 8:57am On Jul 13, 2016 |
BrokenHeart2016:what course is that ,and please take heart bro you will definitely find a better person I know is hard to forget try to build up and be a better person God loves you more |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by keypad1: 9:00am On Jul 13, 2016 |
Oyindaberry:its true na. I like being truthful. If you go dont ever come back. Dont even greet me if you see me on the road side. Na so i be. |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 9:02am On Jul 13, 2016 |
keypad1:Not every guy is useless and stupid like you! Receive sense! ![]() |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by ojuolu(m): 9:02am On Jul 13, 2016 |
BrokenHeart2016:Hi op, you may not get to read this but others will. I will start by telling you that relationship is a two way thing. "It takes two to tango", and the two that tango must have expectations and the expectations also have timeline. Gone is the era of love is blind...not in the present economic realities anyway, If your love have eyes defection, her can see! A woman ideally have following expectations 'ceteris paribus'; Finish secondary education (without getting pregnant), gain admission on time into higher institution, develop a fulfilling , marriage-bound relationship with a guy THAT HAS PROSPECT(prospect...not rich), graduate and get a job as not to become a burden (if possible), settle down and have a family with a man of her dream who can provide security on all fronts(socially, financially, morally, spiritually and emotionally). You might have been in her life when her expectation was at a stage where she need to develop a relationship, but you will agree with me that the expectation, like in Maslow hierarchy of needs theory, would have moved up in the past five years while you are still where you were when she met you. What she did was natural and noble. I wont blame her. She is sensible, practical, forward looking, honest and realistic. You should evaluate yourself and your life. Questions such as these should be answer by you: In the last five years, how have i improved myself? Can i sustain a family now? If yes, at what standard of living? Again when will i be ready to get married and raise kids? Where do i see myself in the next five years? All these questions are self focused. They are called critical self evaluation. Now ask again: this lady i am dating, does she fit into the 'me' now and the 'me' i see in the nearest future? This is called the evaluation of the impacts of your current and future factors on your partner(please this is equally important). She must have done an honest evaluation of herself and her future to arrive at this "painful decision". Please note, she is equally pained. At least, she has given herself emotionally, socially, psychologically and what have you. She had been trying to 'fit into you' in the past years. Please allow her to move on. Your plains are obviously no longer same. Now i will offer you this advice. Critically evaluate yourself, identifying those areas you need to work on to be fit for a woman of your dream if you really want to be taken serious. The part i made bold in your write up were mere efforts for which you were adequately rewarded when she was with you in whatever manner you may want to look at it. Again, make a visible, concerted and realistic efforts at achieving your dream of being an ideal husband. Remember, to get an ideal partner, you have to first be an ideal partner yourself. Efforts counts for little, results matters a lot. Get results! 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 9:03am On Jul 13, 2016 |
AngelAhnie: What's funny about being heartbroken? 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by samsam2019: 9:03am On Jul 13, 2016 |
ADUNOKIKI:so he should risk his life to go meet her? What if he has an accident on the way? So he will die because of someone who gives no crap about him? Avegi |
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by samsam2019: 9:10am On Jul 13, 2016 |
As for you op, you no get sense. What happened to you is exactly what happened to teebilliz. You can't pause your own life so another person's life can progress especially for a woman. Once she's fsr ahead of you she will move on. She's done eating you now and she will spit your waste out now. And you said you do spend on her and sponsor her education; I mean, how are you guys oriented? Do you have any sense at all? So because you're in a relationship now you have to spend on the lady? Why? Are you a boyfriend or her father? This is the problem with guys nowadays, you believe you have to spend on your girlfriend which is 500000% wrong. Once she finds someone who can spend more she will bin you like a dirt. You should only be with a girl who will stay with you for you. Not because of financial benefits. I trust mysel, I smashed so many poocee and I won't spend my money cos I'm not your father. If you don't want to be with me just vamoose 1 Like |
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