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Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Ajgal10(f): 8:59pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Run! Brother Run! As a matter of fact the Baba is already preparing the concoction they will use to make you loyal. Carry your shoes and run. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by harsysky(m): 9:01pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
[b]Dear Op, My comment may not actually make sense to anyone, but I don't care. I'm writing directly to you Op because you've come here for a solution. I've also read a lot of people's comments, especially the " run for your life!" I would have easily said you should run, but come to think of it, "No one is perfect". You ain't, Op, no matter how sympathetic and sensitive you may think you are. That girl of yours may have undergone series of assaults or brain-wiring that most or some of us have also undergone, Only that hers might have gotten into her so , so much. It may not be her fault actually. Be rest assured she can come of it and love like never before. I like you a lot Op. Your sense of care and observation, I respect so much. You never can tell if you would have acted more than your wife-to-be if you were in her shoes. Leaving her and not picking her calls means one thing to me. You wana be those kind of people who know how to deal with a problem but leave it because they respect people's say more than theirs. Talk to your girl. Atleast, there is something you've seen in her that has attracted you to her. Assuming you didn't see her Dad, you wouldn't be here complaining, right? Don't think the next person you will meet will be that saint. You could save that family. The head of that family might have done something anyone could even kill him for ,but I believe they still feed him atleast. It means there is still 1% love for the old man. They can still love him to the fullest but need to be convinced that one does not pay evil with evil otherwise evil will be in circulation. I can never forget the advice my aunt gave me one precious day. I was having a problem with my Dad. I was thinking he never loved me. Then , the auto-correct advice came and it goes thus: " the only man who hates you is one who shuts you out all round. Does your Dad shut you out?". " No" I replied "Then he loves you more than anything" she concluded I believed her whole-heartedly. she is now my mentor. [/b] 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by JustHere2Observ(f): 9:01pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Funny enough my previous landlady and her husband are in same situation. In fact for years I thought he was the gate man. Later for to know he used to be very wealthy, was one of the first to drive a jeep in that town. He squandered the money, deserted his children and wife. But when things went sour for him, they accepted him but he lives in the BQ and they dont treat him well. The woman is wealthy now. Maybe its just karma. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by jnrbayano(m): 9:02pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Op, I don't do marriage advice often but I mustn't pass your thread without saying a thing. A lot of people have echoed "run for your life" but I will say, "can you really make that run for your life sooner and faster? That woman will soon borrow you to understudy the maltreated man. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by AngelAhnie(f): 9:05pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Subtlelad:Lad indeed ![]() |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by esonuu(m): 9:08pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
U sure say dat man wasnt bewitched cos men dat i know who stil gat their senses wil treat u lyk trash,beat u and yet u wont dare stop respecting them..take a bow nw that u stil have d chance..hope say them nevr evn giv u ur own belle-sum |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Okezie90(m): 9:09pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
This man has become a victim of his creation, this is pathetic and left me to be in a state of Sardonicism !!!!!!!!!!! I won't in any way advice u to continue with that girl let alone marrying her cuz One thing u must have at the back of your mind is that what goes around comes around!!!!! Use ur tongue to count your teeth !!!!!!!!! |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by LydayBobo(m): 9:09pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
If you stay you are finished, if you run you are completely finish 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by iPopAlomo(m): 9:09pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Where are those nairaland feminists... Make dem show face for this thread nah... |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Youngzedd(m): 9:10pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
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Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Okijajuju1(m): 9:11pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Godmother: Smartest Comment on this thread so far. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Maximus85(m): 9:11pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
sammily: OK boy.... You stupid oooo. You come still dey ask us? OK, marry the babe. Abi no be wetin you wan hear be that? |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Amadaz(m): 9:11pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
jesussaves22:there's nothing to investigate here, my guy should run quicker than usain bolt. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 9:12pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Don't look back R U N F O R Y O U R L I F E |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by olagold79: 9:12pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Just like everyone has said, just run...I am sure you already know this. But someone made a very compelling point, don't breaK UP WITH HER...MAKE SURE SHE'S D ONE DOING THE BREAKING UP..SO yu won't end up like the man even without marrying here. The juuju involved is conc. Plus , this is a lesson for veryone, I dont think most people ven realise what it means to propose, it should be you have concluded she is the one. Proposal should come after knowing this little details, how could you not have found out a about this most obvious flaw n go ahead to propse. It clearly shows a big mistake on your path...just imagine if she has not been stupid enough to show it to your face ,so na so dem for jazz you. It's funnny U never asked about the father of d girl U intend to marry in 8months of courtship...an you just assumed he's dead. that's terrible mate. you deeerve some stick. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by iPopAlomo(m): 9:13pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
harsysky: You didn't make sense... 15 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by VIO1(m): 9:13pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
bros flee. when i say flee, i mean run such dat ur heels touch the back of ur head cos u wont like to be used like ur father in law to be 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Allina: 9:13pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
if it's true what your fiancee said,then good for the man |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Okijajuju1(m): 9:16pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
freecocoa: I have a crush on you. . ![]() Calm and sensible comment. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by iPopAlomo(m): 9:16pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
duplicate post... |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 9:16pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Bad sign, run for ur life . |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 9:18pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
AngelAhnie: Seriously, Did you just joined nl that you attaching so much importance to the moniker instead of my own personal contribution and please read the part where i said have seen such cases not hearsay.. So contribute your own biko.. Its a free world |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Okijajuju1(m): 9:18pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
byvan03: That was definitely concerning to me. If it's hate for past transgressions, I will let to know how bad he really was. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by olagold79: 9:19pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
harsysky: You nearly made sense.....try again later!!!! 10 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by bigiyaro(m): 9:21pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
jesussaves22:what will he investigate again when he's seeing d hand writings on the wall and even in capital letters sef. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by skoloppy31(m): 9:21pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
pasan ta fi na iyaale, o un be lori aaja fun iyawo...shebi na fuel dem seel the man, na pepper you go dey grind for grinding stone...and beans for akara 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by stunningjudy(f): 9:22pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Fourwinds:Free me ![]() |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Okijajuju1(m): 9:23pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Kgdavid: This was my very first thought on the piece. I wouldn't go as far as to say it was "well written", but he sure did try to tell a good story. If I had to bet if the story was real or fake, my money will be on fake. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by freecocoa(f): 9:24pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Okijajuju1:Lol, if only you weren't taken. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by oshaosha2014(m): 9:24pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
You, you, you, yes you, what are u saying. I used to think girls have this soft spot for there fathers no matter what he has done to them or their mother. However, you have a gal here that treats her father like a trash and you think she'll treat her husband differently ![]() ![]() Babzilla: 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Irishrena1(f): 9:26pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Just maintain a level head first and investigate. I'm not taking anybody's side, I'm just saying that things might not always be the way they seem. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Okijajuju1(m): 9:28pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Jamean: Unless he is in chains, I don't see anyone holding him back from leaving. 1 Like 1 Share |
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