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Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by tayorh(m): 10:07pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Dis one pass walking away, na i'm running away |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Fr3nly(m): 10:08pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
My boda run 4 ur life if u don't wanna suffer the same fate like her father 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by egedege1(m): 10:10pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
tomquest:A very sensible advice, sometimes we don't need a seer to interprete things to us |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Deepfreezer(m): 10:11pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
God so love OP that he gave you a revelation like this. And ur still asking questions. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Charly68: 10:12pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Like mother like daughter so people say..the fate that awaits you is what you have seen..the lady you're contemplating to marry is a bad Market . . Run without looking back there are better girls outside there praying for you to come there ways..Many years ago,I discovered the lady I intended to marry was aiding & abetting her Ante in committing adultery . I quickly figured it out that if I continue to marry her she would do same to me tomorrow . Thank God I didn't make the mistake. Many years after she got married she was still looking out for me & saw nothing wrong in cheating her husband. That is life for you. If the mother is bad,she can hardly produce any good daughter. .Run as if Boko Haram has invaded your village 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by ijemomo(m): 10:13pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
You r on the right track bros! God opened your eyes to what you are about to do to yourself! Please continue to ignore her calls&NEVER look back. RUN RUN RUN 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by brightguru(m): 10:15pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
What if its a test? The man is actually their house boy |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Pascalin90: 10:19pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
I would suggest you have a one-on-one chat with the man,that is,if truly you love the girl and wish to marry her. The man may be guilty of the accusations because there is no smoke without fire they say. But looking at it from a critical point of view, why hasn't your fiancee told you about this all along? She too needs to be investigated to avoid stories that touch. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by obisdavinc(m): 10:19pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
marring that woman will be a great mistake.....serious. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by nathie007: 10:20pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Mumu, and you call the daughter of jezebel your fiancee, hmm, their jazz don dey hook you small, small. I swear. Abi u no chop for their house ni? Dey there dey look like mumu. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by SMARTKOSSY: 10:21pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Sammily please I beg u in the name of the Lord, DON'T MARRY HER! 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by OlujobaSamuel: 10:22pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
aside running bro, kindly beg the mod to delete this thread or make you edit the op so that the lady won't read this, it .might leads to the man's death, don't tell her the reason you are running away pls, they might poison him. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Lightening: 10:22pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Godmother: Investigation you said, when the script you want to unravel has been played out for him on a platter. The rule of the thumb is to observe your would be parents in law. If you like their way, just proceed to marry their daughter because that's how you will inadvertently end up years later. It is always safer to marry a bad girl raised by a responsible mother than a good girl raised by a bad mother. You will always need a god fearing mother in law at the early stage of the marriage to assist in stabilizing the home. Talking from experience. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by andykay(m): 10:23pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Don't have a second thought about it, just run for your dear life. I am talking from experience. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by 19naia(m): 10:26pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
I know the man may have abused them in the past, but the issue is that they still hold to punishing him and relish in it to an extent that has become them with a likely sense of power and conquering over all men of the world. This means that they are so accustomed to and embellished in treating men like that and believeing that men are abusers who must be pusnished. They will pathologically take this approach now to all men that come to be a close part of their home and way of being. As soon as there is conflict of any small measure between you and fiancee, she will fall back on her training and experience with how to handle men at home and of what merit to give men. Her mom has exposed her to that as her primary way. They will have the same in store for you at any sign of the smallest friction. They will never change until they can change with the man they have now at home and change to make deep ammends all around. Its not just deep wounds they have festering in their home, but the proverbial knife is still in the wound and they are digging it in deeper rather than pulling it out for healing. Why would you join such a circus of madness? Run now before they use you like a donkey and mentally restrain you to resignation into whatever fate they determine over you. Run now before they drive you mad to the point of waking to slaughter them in the night, like the goats they are. Leave and don't look back because those are women who have learned to hate men yet never learned to overcome their desire for men. They want to be kings without the independence and strength to be such, so they look for a man to walk all over for the image of strength and power. A man cannot prosper in life beside a woman who does not have the substance to encourage and support prosperity in her man partner. Be wise and don't cost yourself a browsing of hell in life before you die. No amount of prayer or hope will help you if you deliver yourself to them . Its them who need prayer and hope, so let them be and pray for them in hope -at a safe distance. Spawn of Medusa who will turn any man to stone. Spawn of Medusa, cursed by God himself and not a favor he would solve just for you just because of a little prayer. You will suffer and risk to life and limb with them... And risk to sanity with them. Run. Its better to be alone, free and safer than to be locked down to Spawn of Medusa. They crucified Jesus and Jesus came back not to punish, but to forgive and save souls. That woman is the opposite. She was never killed but she has a home-made hell she is enjoying being the master of, in her house as if she is the devil himself. They will only be happy to add you to the flames. They could just forgive and forget the man and let him go, but they have learned to enjoy making hell for him. It has entered their blood now and will be their personality until they can forgive, forget and let him go with no interest in making anybody suffer. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Anthonio15: 10:29pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Have you ever listen to Terry G music before when he says "You can only run run run oboy run leave that girl or you run mad 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Silent is golden |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Nobody: 10:31pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Silence is golden |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by JAZES(m): 10:32pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
run for ya life with ya leg touching ya head. I was dating a lady way back b4 i got married and i was planning to go all d way with her but i noticed she use to talk about how badly her mum use to treat her dad and control him. Though she was never in support of it but omo i quickly talk to my leg run 440 o cos i know thats danger waiting to happen coupled with the fact that she is d first born. Bros, no need to be looking for what is not lost o....plssss run 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Valprof: 10:32pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
baby124:jezzebel 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Izen: 10:33pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
stunningjudy: So what he did was right? Karma is at work dear. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Lotechi(m): 10:35pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
am nt trying to justify their action buh nobody knows what the man has done in the past!!!! call ur girl and tell her ur worries 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Anthonio15: 10:35pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Pascalin90: Shey if na your brother na watin you go tell am abi? Have a one on one talk |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by landlord1987(m): 10:36pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
tomquest:As a lawyer I advice you to run because today issues like yours which were taken for granted before marriage kept me in court for three hours in two separate divorce petitions. And as a single man and christian I adopt everything in the quote above adding only that today some marriages are actually not joined together by God because after warning signs like maternal manipulation cum diabolism as I can sense in this case. Your situation may not be equal to that of the father but less, less and debasingly less than you saw.## Brosbewarnedteam# 1 Like
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Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by 1dickatatime: 10:39pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Guy I see you as someone God really loves and has decided to show you the "secret things" of this world. That's people for you, trust me, to those type of women you're just another spanner in their tool box. They use, they dump and deal with you. I'll use the word 'flee'. Enough said. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Lightening: 10:41pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
freecocoa: Holding brief for the obviously evil mother and daughter. Have'nt you seen how their well justified revenge is helping the daughter's life? That seemingly useless man is carrying the daughter's blessing somewhere in his loins. If he dies maltreated and perhaps cursing the daughter, her own case is sealed. Honor thy father and thy mother includes bad ones. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by buksaylor001: 10:42pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Only one thing-if you want to see your wife in future old age,look at your mother-in-law! I have the experience now but if someone had told me what am telling you now,I wouldn't have made a mistake; As marrying her was a mistake and infecting her with me has always been my undoing- STOP SEEING HER! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by saintdennis(m): 10:45pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Guy pls marry her for that man's sake...or else they might deal with him for chasing you away |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Odunharry(m): 10:45pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
stchinedu: This is very true 1 Like |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by Valprof: 10:46pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
brightguru:so u would test someone with that kind of thing.......to knw if he can tolerate an unforgivin, vindictive woman....get sense!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by oyetpel(m): 10:48pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Op i swear you no lie. I have seen this kind of case and family, they live in my area, tho they didn't turn the head of the house to an errand boy, they just don't do anything with him, and they still live in the same house. Op i think you should run. |
Re: I Am Scared, My Fiancee And Her Mum Treats Her Father Like A Houseboy by munalight(f): 10:48pm On Jul 13, 2016 |
Please, FLEE!!! |
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