enkaydewdrop:


OK mama...please help me ask her... Thank you...


Please, mummy Lami, don't do postinor2 oh...I know two people it failed oh...they took it immediately after action, but they missed their period...as in, belle enter...
One of the kids is four years old now...

Cherrymum1

iya lami don enta am

olubankemi:


@Helovesme, I don't think the celebrated imported coconut oil is the best oo, I rather would said she should get naija original coconut oil. If you can get one from the maker hersef you can be sure it's not mix. Or rather make it yourself, easy thing.

My dear. The "celebrated" imported coconut oil is the best.

It is organic, extra virgin and "cold pressed". Please read up on this method of oil extraction. The imported original coconut is clear and colourless - just like water. In cold temperature, after solidification, it's "pure white" in colour.

The Nigerian coconut oil on the other hand is home made. A process that involves "boiling the coconut"/using heat. This means that most of its nutrients is gone. In addition to this, it has a funny yellowish/brownish colour. Once it solidifies, the colour is even worse.

Except the Nigerian one is made using the cold press method, then you are not getting the maximum benefits or coconut oil in its purest form.

AlphaHandMaiden:



For question : in summary....Plaster the wound!

The idea is to keep the area from getting wet. Try and get water proof dressing and apply to the area and bath as normal..... na bucket or shower sharp baffing no seating in the tub bubble bath serenren!.

Alternatively, if you can get the medical tape.... the type that looks like cellotape to create your own dressing.. Pop some cotton pads over the unhealed part and use cling film on top and tape around the clingfilm edges to seal and make watertight. Remove after bath!

Question 2: abstain or use condom till you decide which one you think is best for you! ..... ;Dsorry... not very helpful!

Cotton pads...
Cling film...
Medical tape...
GOT IT!!!

Thanks ma'am...



Ehn...?
Mama...

Did you say abstain?
No naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...
Noooooooooooooooooooooo...

esof1:

Thanks for checking up on me sweetie, it hasn't been well at all. I had episiotomy and it broke down. I didn't know, I have been in severe pains.
I can't sit, sleep, walk, eat, carry my ds, I've lost weight. The pain is from hell mehn!
I've gone back to see d gynae, he had to remove d stitches. The wound is so wide and deep. I'm doing sitz bath with warm water and salt. Dh said d wound is healing. I'm supposed to be going for dressing every 2 days but no one to leave my baby for. Dh can't handle him and mum goes to work.

So sorry for your pains, to relieve it when sitted roll up a big towel like you do for oshuka place it on the chair and sit with your legs apart! This help ease your weight off your bum and also allows air in.
For the bolded please don't miss your dressing to avoid infection! You don't want to add that to what you are going thru already, you can go with your baby and leave him with the nurses or DH goes with you just to keep an eye on your baby while you do the dressing. Please its very important the dressing is done as stipulated to avoid a further degeneration.
I went with my son for my own dressing on days there was none to care for him at home. Eat lots of fruits, vitamin C aids in healing and will soften your stool so you dont have to strain.
Take care of you dear it will be behind you soon.

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Cotton pads...
Cling film...
Medical tape...
GOT IT!!!



Ehn...?
Mama...

Did you say abstain?
No naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa...
Noooooooooooooooooooooo...[/quot
so Jay don help open the flood gates, the thing wey you dey run for before nai you use torch light dey find now issorai an watching you on 10D continue

cherrymum1:
*dances into thread, two hands raised to the lord with tambourine on one hand and shekere on d other singing "Satan shame unto you, all powers belong to Jesus!, Satan shame unto you, all powers belong to Jesus!!!". Sisters Praaiiiiiisseeeeee Master Jesus!!! Just did PT and it is whooping Negative o. I'm dancing shoki, ethighi, komole, atilogwu! Bad belle sisters join me in d dance o......proudmum38, Zaynie, fortius, orirebaby

hallelujah!!!!!!!

zaynie:
Enkay. Do as AlphaHandMaiden said.
You can use plaster., baff then remove and clean.

My birth control had always been co.ndoms, I call it toll fee. Without it you cannot enter paradise. Shikena.
We ditch it when the ultimate birth control aka pregnancy is in place.
Nothing like e no dey sweet........ make e add sugar.

OK mama...
I'm plastering away from tomorrow...
Thanks mama...


Chai!!!
But e no dey sweet Na...

#Tears...

enkaydewdrop:
Good evening mamas...
Mbok, I have a few questions... Please, help me...

1...... How do CS moms bathe after the surgery? My hospital said not to pour water on my body till the incision heals... They said to use face towel, water, soap and savlon to clean my body... And then clean the incision site with cotton wool and spirit...

I'm 3weeks pp already, but there's still a part of the incision that isn't healed completely yet (on the far right)...

I'm tayad...
I want to baff...
Ahnahn

2..... Please, what form of birth control/family planning method is advisable/best?
I want to look into it 6 weeks pp, cos my body is already doing me "sonha" and I don't want to "do" and now hear stories that touch...

Please, come to my rescue mamas...
Thank you...

Cc kaffy4bill
zaynie
Liftedhands
Fortius
Mitchyy
soonest
Proudmum38
Cherrymum1
Lovinam
AlphaHandMaiden
Limsycutey
GenyEbere
Tchiwinnie

And other Sabi mamas... Can't remember all the names...

As per CS tinz, I don't really know much o. Even though I had an ovarian cyst removed once and I have a CS-like scar from it, I can't really remember how I managed. But like other mamas have said, tape it and have your bath as desired, I can imagine how you feel not being able to pour water on your body as you like.

As for kpekusing, like zaynie said, wear 'rainkot' until you can go to the family planning clinic to get the one that suits your body.

proudmom38:
Mamas pls help me thank God ooo! My lil man has started walking n he has got 4 teeths in less dan 2wks,no fever no pains whatsover!

I'm sooo happyyyy! Dancing shakitibobo...



cc:moda.th,kaffy.4bill,baby.love01,ke.ji3,za.ynie,lo.vinam,tchiwin.nie,ozy.cy,forti.us,Liftedh.ands,enka.ydewdrop,soone.st,mitch.yy n all mamas 2 many 2 mention...

Congrats to lil proudly! May this mark the beginning of countless fruitful steps that shall never go astray in Jesus name Amen. Kisses my love and yes your mummy and daddy must throw you a baeday bash! You proved to them that you are equal to the task

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Kikikikikikikikikikikikikii...

Leave me ooooh

limsycutey:


As per CS tinz, I don't really know much o. Even though I had an ovarian cyst removed once and I have a CS-like scar from it, I can't really remember how I managed. But like other mamas have said, tape it and have your bath as desired, I can imagine how you feel not being able to pour water on your body as you like.

As for kpekusing, like zaynie said, wear 'rainkot' until you can go to the family planning clinic to get the one that suits your body.

Not being able to pour water on my body feels terrible oh...
Really terrible...
It is well...



Chai!!!

Rainkot
Rainkot
Rainkot...

#BurstsIntoTears...

Fortius:
mumi sugah no go gree o
Amhappy,God is awesome..so happy for u madam.
limsycutey,mumi smokeydrinky,princessKF..hw r u mamas doin na

I'm good dear. hope u are too?

enkaydewdrop:
Good evening mamas...
Mbok, I have a few questions... Please, help me...

1...... How do CS moms bathe after the surgery? My hospital said not to pour water on my body till the incision heals... They said to use face towel, water, soap and savlon to clean my body... And then clean the incision site with cotton wool and spirit...

I'm 3weeks pp already, but there's still a part of the incision that isn't healed completely yet (on the far right)...

I'm tayad...
I want to baff...
Ahnahn

2..... Please, what form of birth control/family planning method is advisable/best?
I want to look into it 6 weeks pp, cos my body is already doing me "sonha" and I don't want to "do" and now hear stories that touch...

Please, come to my rescue mamas...
Thank you...

..

I took my first bath after 3 months fear of what may go wrong no gree me baff! It was just cleaning of body with towel that I did till late February when my plasters came off! Since then I respect bathing and all other little things I take for granted before( though mine was two scars)

Like one mama wrote up there use a cling film with tapes to form a shield before bathing or just endure it till the wound is properly healed.

Second question no idea na commando levels I dey! But the patch seem to be a very preferred option! You can ask your doctor about it.

Beremx:
yes i know that. when i was pregnant for my son, it showed three days before my period date.
My fear now is will i have to do another c-section?

Did u do the test? What is the result? Sometimes we worry about things that will never happen. Moreover worry never changes anything.

helovesme:


My dear. The "celebrated" imported coconut oil is the best.

It is organic, extra virgin and "cold pressed". Please read up on this method of oil extraction. The imported original coconut is clear and colourless - just like water. In cold temperature, after solidification, it's "pure white" in colour.

The Nigerian coconut oil on the other hand is home made. A process that involves "boiling the coconut"/using heat. This means that most of its nutrients is gone. In addition to this, it has a funny yellowish/brownish colour. Once it solidifies, the colour is even worse.

Except the Nigerian one is made using the cold press method, then you are not getting the maximum benefits or coconut oil in its purest form.

There are sources that make cold pressed coconut oil in lagos.
I can send you details of one if you want. Can be made to order, crystal clear , delicate coconut fragrance with no heat or presevatives used.

Omojudy:

Did u do the test? What is the result? Sometimes we worry about things that will never happen. Moreover worry never changes anything.

I did a pt-strip test and it was negative. I will just have to wait after 17th of this month. The symptoms are still there.

Liftedhands:
I took my first bath after 3 months fear of what may go wrong no gree me baff! It was just cleaning of body with towel that I did till late February when my plasters came off! Since then I respect bathing and all other little things I take for granted before( though mine was two scars)

Like one mama wrote up there use a cling film with tapes to form a shield before bathing or just endure it till the wound is properly healed.

Second question no idea na commando levels I dey! But the patch seem to be a very preferred option! You can ask your doctor about it.

Why did you deactivate your Chinwendym account na?

smokeydrinky:

I'm good dear. hope u are too?

all thanks to God ma

beyedew,

You dey very correct. Even if she no dey controlling. Man should leave parents home if he ready marry. Even if Na one room he enter. So no going back to father's house. Find the right atmosphere to explain to your dh. If it doesn't work, get pastor or who he respects to advise him. On your path una too dey discuss everything with mil. She no suppose know about una building plans till she comes for house warming. Try putting gap btw in-laws and u without quarrel. That's the only way the controlling will end and hope una no dey ask them for financial things etc?
I also don't agree with you and dh settling quarrels in her presence. And next time just forgive him in advance than letting ur in laws into ur disagreement and manage whatever u can get dh to give u, stop doing coup with mil against dh. Babe Na u let all these loop holes in. Be more one with your husband my love,(not to move in with in laws), no discuss dh with mil again I beg. You no sabi how to give person loving gap? Make I teach u?

Beyedew...... don't go anywhere.
This is the time to show your husband all he will miss if he goes back there.
Don't pick fight with your MiL. Just face your husband.
Talk real talk with him.
If it will involve you supporting him to pay rent, do so. Or do like I do; promise to do so

Are you sure your MiL is not my AiL? Very caring and generous but controlling af!

esof1:

Thanks senior lovinam. Pls is there anything else I can do apart from the sitz bath. I still can't sit down and I don't want it to be re-stitched.

you can try seating on a hot water bottle wrapped in towels. It shouldnt be too hot but i found the warmth helped me.

Or you can use a doughnut cushion to sit on (it is usually used for elderly people with bad cases of pile so mot sure where you can find in naija) alternatively use the round breast feeding pillow as a seat cushion..... that way you are not putting pressure on the main area. I had the long pregnancy pillow so i just rolled it up to have a hole in the middle and sat on it. .

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@Enkay, you don't bath for two weeks after CS cos you must not allow water to touch that area. Note;

You use soap and warm water to mop your body (leave out the operated area, don't touch with soap or water).

Taking care of the operated area, all you need do is soak your cotton wool in the spirit and wipe ones to your right and drop the piece, then pick another and wipe to your left and drop, repeat same like thrice. Don't use same cotton wool to wipe to your left and right. Do this like four to six times a day. Reason for this is that it get healed fast and it's also to avoid germs.

This is how my consultant thought me/us.

Good luck.

Beremx:
Why did you deactivate your Chinwendym account na?

I wanted to run away from nairaland but mamas here wouldn't let me long story sha, but it's still me just a new name.

BritneyStacy:
My August mama's oooooo......where una dey o ooo Very few mamas responded to the last roll call ooo. More than half of the class did not respond ooo
Hope all is well with you all....
Would love to hear from you all ooo.
How are your Braxton hicks ? Hope they are intensifying. ....
With love from your class captain

Me I am here o .... 35wks4days today ... Baby hardly kicks but can turn around ehn ... Any little turn that side will just swell up . Sometimes it's like he scratches me sef...then the hiccups too . Back pain once in a while . Then I pee like every second . But I can't wait to see my lovely baby . we are 2.3kg now . I no wan make he pass 3kg o

@beyedew
haaahahaaaaaaaa, i no fit laugh e wan use torch make sure say the thing enter, she try,
abeg no go stay for her house ooooo,you know the consequences already. keep your sanity for your Boo,hahaaaaaaaaa you and your mil na character, abeg make una no confuse your dh oo i pity d poor guy e go just be like say e marry 2 wives

helovesme:


My dear. The "celebrated" imported coconut oil is the best.

It is organic, extra virgin and "cold pressed". Please read up on this method of oil extraction. The imported original coconut is clear and colourless - just like water. In cold temperature, after solidification, it's "pure white" in colour.

The Nigerian coconut oil on the other hand is home made. A process that involves "boiling the coconut"/using heat. This means that most of its nutrients is gone. In addition to this, it has a funny yellowish/brownish colour. Once it solidifies, the colour is even worse.

Except the Nigerian one is made using the cold press method, then you are not getting the maximum benefits or coconut oil in its purest form.

Ok ma

@ esof1, am really sorry about the pains, pls like other mama's suggested, take care of that place to avoid infection, go back to the doctor and find a better solution to it.

@beyedew, I can imagine how you feel sometimes, Controlling MIL hmm, just talk to ur DH and try to convince him, because if you decide to go to ur parents house while DH goes ahead and stays in their family house... Hmm Babe na big wahala ooo... So just talk to him sensibly. Wish u all the best.

I also have an open eye MIL but my DH knows his mum so much and he is the stubborn type, so she don't come to our house to do her open eye, but she does that to her 1st son. The wife is always complaining whenever I visit her.

zaynie:
Beyedew...... don't go anywhere.
This is the time to show your husband all he will miss if he goes back there.
Don't pick fight with your MiL. Just face your husband.
Talk real talk with him.
If it will involve you supporting him to pay rent, do so. Or do like I do; promise to do so

Are you sure your MiL is not my AiL? Very caring and generous but controlling af!

aahaaaaaaaahaaahaaa
abeg Diamond leave me make i read all this post hahaaaaahaaha i like as you dooooo

beyedew:


Sorry dearie,I meant do u lyk d way u eat now?? R u ok wit it?? If yes den nutin do u,if u dnt lyk it,den I cast n bind(just my way of saying look 4 a way to stop or u top up wit mostly fruits n snack on dem too).

@bolded,d vigilante was wicked mehn,n I dey anoda 1 now. It's well.

Ok, I now get it.

Vigilante no be small oo. Even wen my babies are sleeping I don't sleep pass 1am. I wake up waiting for dem to wake up. Chai.

Pele, God will see you through. Happy bumping.

BritneyStacy:
My August mama's oooooo......where una dey o ooo Very few mamas responded to the last roll call ooo. More than half of the class did not respond ooo
Hope all is well with you all....
Would love to hear from you all ooo.
How are your Braxton hicks ? Hope they are intensifying. ....
With love from your class captain

Guity as charged,been having bh,and baby is head down already now for awhile. Will be seeing my doctor also so as to know how many kg baby is and also the back pain that am having.love love love u.
August mama's how are we all doing?xoxo