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Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by obailala(m): 4:46pm On Jul 14, 2016
PRXPERT:
show me how many bridges fulanis have built, how many are they planning to build.. mr third world man!
PRXPERT:
Mr Solomon, look, show me the wisdom style fulani used! Please I'm so keen in learning it!!
So you want to copy the Fulani conquering style of rampaging around sacking villages and communities?... Is that the 'wise' path you have decided to follow and is that what you think Igbos should be doing?... You see the reason why I've been harping on the use of wisdom?

With the sheer number of Igbos living and doing their businesses peacefully across Nigeria, are you by any means advocating that Igbos follow the path of the Fulani rampagers? and you think that would portend well for Igbos across the land?... Such a wonderful way to reason and this is exactly what I've been hammering on since.
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by PRXPERT: 4:50pm On Jul 14, 2016
obailala:
When you do very well in all your endeavours, people tend to envy you. That envy naturally turns to jealousy with time and the jealousy then turns to pure hate. The hate is further compounded when you go ahead to flaunt your success in the faces of people who already jealous you.

So my friend, you asked me why people hate Igbos and why this has been the case for a long time and the answer to that question is above.
I'm happy people reading our opinions with that they will determine who theythink that will protect their interest. Have you asked why Donald Trump is soaring very high despite his so called seditious, andsubversive approach ? Do you know why Mandela is celebrated by black folks in SA? Do you know why Margaret Thatcher is being celebrated by white folks? Do you know why Nazi is now a strong ideology? These people were forceful, they were determined, they fought very hard and won, now their children are inheriting the hard work, how about samaria, asyrians? Where are they today? They were defeated killed and vanished from the geographical location! that is what you are preaching to us to do! We should become cold so that we will be ambushed by fulanis! It won't work! We must have our country, where every soul must be protected from the blood tasty lanky baboons from sahara! I'm not going wait till it gets to my family member before I stand out!
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by 33xtr06r: 4:51pm On Jul 14, 2016
obailala:
"we have millions of millions of Igbos residing with us in our homes, in our towns, in our states, very peacefully, very industrious, helping our communities and our economy to grow"

Of course there are millions of peaceful Igbos living in different parts of the world and doing well and that is exactly what I've been trying to say all along. I have no campaign of calumny against anyone (that would be a meaningless conclusion on your part), I only call on you to apply wisdom in your campaigns so as not to endanger the lives of these peaceful Igbos who have chosen to live across the land.

Endangering which lives - the millions massacred in 1966-70, the ones randomly marked out in airports and railway stations, hounded and killed by Yorubas and their partners in crime, the ones butchered and packed in luxury bus down to Igboland, the ones bombed out of existence by Boko-Haram, the ones beheaded in the name of Islam, the ones massacred in Nimbo community by Fulani herdsmen, the ones gunned down in a praying ground in Aba or the ones murdered in a Catholic Church in Anambra by Nigerian security forces?

What kind of wisdom can be greater than that employed by peaceful IPOB members who gave a prior notice to police commissioner of a heroes day celebration, only to be gunned down while peacefully marking the day in a church?

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Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by PRXPERT: 5:02pm On Jul 14, 2016
obailala:
So you want to copy the Fulani conquering style of rampaging around sacking villages and communities?... Is that the 'wise' path you have decided to follow and is that what you think Igbos should be doing?... You see the reason why I've been harping on the use of wisdom?

With the sheer number of Igbos living and doing their businesses peacefully across Nigeria, are you by any means advocating that Igbos follow the path of the Fulani rampagers? and you think that would portend well for Igbos across the land?... Such a wonderful way to reason and this is exactly what I've been hammering on since.
see, you're a product of nigerian education system! What is the practical means! What exactly do you call wisdom? Sidon they look? See tell out the wisdom! It's not only talking wisdom, as if you have any! If you have wisdom, why haven't you done something extraordinary to better the people in your village? Wisdom, wisdom yet you. Are sounding like a typical apc supporter, living in phantasmagorism! I wish you the best, but we the real igbos must get what we want!! If the present leaders failed, I will not fail, we will not fail!!
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by Ojiofor: 5:03pm On Jul 14, 2016
Abeg wetin Joe Igbokwe talk this time around?Mitcheew
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by obailala(m): 5:23pm On Jul 14, 2016
PRXPERT:
I'm happy people reading our opinions with that they will determine who theythink that will protect their interest. Have you asked why Donald Trump is soaring very high despite his so called seditious, andsubversive approach ? Do you know why Mandela is celebrated by black folks in SA? Do you know why Margaret Thatcher is being celebrated by white folks? Do you know why Nazi is now a strong ideology? These people were forceful, they were determined, they fought very hard and won, now their children are inheriting the hard work, how about samaria, asyrians? Where are they today? They were defeated killed and vanished from the geographical location! that is what you are preaching to us to do! We should become cold so that we will be ambushed by fulanis! It won't work! We must have our country, where every soul must be protected from the blood tasty lanky baboons from sahara! I'm not going wait till it gets to my family member before I stand out!
Okay goodluck then. But as you continue in the gra-gra campaigns, kindly tone down on the abuses, hate, xenophobia, intolerance and tribalism and try to infuse some mature diplomacy because you know when others reciprocate against Igbos, peaceful Igbos are usually the highest victims especially as we have more Igbos living outside the SE zone than other tribes living in the SE.
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by obailala(m): 5:25pm On Jul 14, 2016
33xtr06r:


Endangering which lives - the millions massacred in 1966-70, the ones butchered and packed in luxury bus down to Igboland, the ones bombed out of existence by Boko-Haram, the ones beheaded in the name of Islam, the ones gunned down in a praying ground in Aba or the ones murdered in a Catholic Church in Anambra?
And you intend to do what about that?.. increase the number of killings?... Just like NK said and I quote "If 3 million Igbos died in the war of the 60's, Igbos should be ready to lose up to 7-8million in the coming war of freedom." Sorry boy, if you are willing to go sacrifice your family for a Cause which is totally not defined but which is purely driven by emotions of one flimsy election loss, then I'm sorry, no reasonable Igbo man will join you in that, but goodluck in your endeavours! I am only worried about the consequence of your indiscretions on millions of Igbos who are not given to your cause and who just want to live their lives peacefully.
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by 33xtr06r: 5:33pm On Jul 14, 2016
obailala:
And you intend to do what about that?.. increase the number of killings?... Just like NK said and I quote "If 3 million Igbos died in the war of the 60's, Igbos should be ready to lose up to 7-8million in the coming war of freedom." Sorry boy, if you are willing to go sacrifice your family for a Cause which is totally not defined but which is purely driven by emotions of one flimsy election loss, then I'm sorry, no reasonable Igbo man will join you in that, but goodluck in your endeavours! I am only worried about the consequence of your indiscretions on millions of Igbos who are not given to your cause and who just want to live their lives peacefully.

Are you with your senses at all? You cunningly left out the question I posed to you to continue your campaigns of calumny against the Igbos who are determined to have a separate existence from you lots.

I enquired to know from you: What kind of wisdom can be greater than that employed by peaceful IPOB members who gave a prior notice to police commissioner of a heroes day celebration, only to be gunned down by Nigerian security forces while peacefully marking the day in a church?

Take your hate campaigns to OduaArewanistan republic where bunch of hypocrites and confused bigots are found. Leave Igbos alone.

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Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by obailala(m): 5:36pm On Jul 14, 2016
33xtr06r:


Are you with your senses at all? You cunningly left out the question I posed to you.

I enquired to know from you: What kind of wisdom can be greater than that employed by peaceful IPOB members who gave a prior notice to police commissioner of a heroes day celebration, only to be gunned down while peacefully marking the day in a church?

Take your hate campaigns to OduaArewanistan republic where bunch of hypocrites and confused bigots are found. Leave Igbos alone.
Swerve abeg
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by 33xtr06r: 5:38pm On Jul 14, 2016
obailala:
Swerve abeg

Take your hypocrisy to OduaArewanistan republic where your kinds are found...
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by PRXPERT: 5:53pm On Jul 14, 2016
obailala:
Okay goodluck then. But as you continue in the gra-gra campaigns, kindly tone down on the abuses, hate, xenophobia, intolerance and tribalism and try to infuse some mature diplomacy because you know when others reciprocate against Igbos, peaceful Igbos are usually the highest victims especially as we have more Igbos living outside the SE zone than other tribes living in the SE.
you are making a huge mess of yourself! Who have been making the xenophobic and hate speech? What about Oba? Dr junaid? Ooh those people have immunity right? Coward!
As for those living outside southeast you mean the likes of joe igbokwe and you ofcourse? Or those that take humour in regarding south easterners "igbotic"? That will never invest in east but elsewhere? You mean people that will sing how things are cheap and life easy in the north? They are verily on their own! Fyi my dad is among them! So you know!!!
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by kayfra: 6:00pm On Jul 14, 2016
33xtr03r:


One thing is certain with the Igbo Nation: Igbos are not like the Yorubas and some other docile tribes in Nigeria who are too myopic to follow criminals and their rougish candidates sheepishly and blindly. Igbos are not political saboteurs like the Yorubas who are mendacious and notoriously known for making a living out of lies, falsehood, noise-making, propaganda, abuse and slurs.

At the outset of PMB administration Igbo leaders were the first to visit Aso Rock to congratulate him and pledge their support for him. Immediately Yorubas and their cohorts were infuriated and were all over the media ranting and abusing Igbo leaders for making such visits. The bitterness was vivid and yet Igbo leaders did not insult or attack the presidency.

It's on record and verifiable that Igbos have not stood against the progress of the presidency. 

In aftermath of the 2011 victory of GEJ at the polls Yoruba National Youth Corp Members where butchered by PMB kinsmen without much noise from the Yorubas.
Yorubas did not deem it to rant carelessly and make noise everywhere.

In the build up to the 2015 general elections many Yorubas and their numerous media outfits abused GEJ and the office of the presidency with reckless abandon. Yorubas called GEJ unprintable names - clueless, shoeless, drunkard, fisherman, dumb, Boko-Haram sponsor even when it's an open secret that BH was an evil invention by Northerners to destabilise and islamise the country; coupled with treasonable threats like forming a parallel govt, make the country ungovernable,  'soaked in the blood of dog and the baboon' threat.

Yorubas and their elites spearheaded the campaigns of calumny and insults that earned GEJ the most insulted president ever in history.

Indeed, virtually every Yoruba person is blinded by hypocrisy and delusion. Just last Saturday, July 10, 2016, a Yoruba woman was dismembered by Northern islamists for preaching in Abuja and yet the deluded people are nowhere to be found on NL creating endless threads to register their anger.

To the hypocritical Yorubas, the Hausa-Fulanis are peaceful and accommodative and thus have no problem; they can kidnap, kill, maim, destroy and ravage Yorubaland and as much as they like. 
Yorubas are more concerned about the Igbo people seeking self-determination peacefully than a group of islamic fanatics butchering and slaughtering people under the guise of religion even without provocation.


Wetin concern Yoruba with Igbo on Igbo crime?
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by obailala(m): 6:10pm On Jul 14, 2016
PRXPERT:
you are making a huge mess of yourself! Who have been making the xenophobic and hate speech? What about Oba? Dr junaid? Ooh those people have immunity right? Coward!
As for those living outside southeast you mean the likes of joe igbokwe and you ofcourse? Or those that take humour in regarding south easterners "igbotic"? That will never invest in east but elsewhere? You mean people that will sing how things are cheap and life easy in the north? They are verily on their own! Fyi my dad is among them! So you know!!!
I never exonerated those you mentioned of making hate speeches against Igbos. But you and I know the basis of ipob's campaign is purely on hate and xenophobia, and it was/is on a major scale and that is totally senseless. And again like I said, knowing fully well that no tribe is as widely travelled as igbos, Igbos have always been the victims when things go sour.

By the way the bolded part of your comment, do I smell some form of inferiority complex?... What do you mean by "those that take humour in regarding south easterners igbotic"?... Are you by any means trying to paint the millions of Igbos living around the world as fools?... and I suppose of course you are the only wise one 'because you live in the SE'? undecided
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by Igboic: 6:12pm On Jul 14, 2016
AgentOfAllah:


One's tribe isn't the lowest decimal possible, one's individuality is, and that's the only thing that counts when accounting for individual achievements. It is risible, otherwise, for any group; tribe, club, country or religion to claim the achievements of individuals. The achievements of an individual are simply that individual's!

But the crime of an individual can be used to characterize all members of his ethnic group, the actions of few individuals can also be seen to reflect the will and stance of their people, that will explain why crimes with Igbo names as perpetrators are seen as an Igbo bashing fest in NL with hypocrites like you nowhere to be found in such threads, and a coup by few Igbo elements was seen as an Igbo coup and used as a justification to unleash near genocide on the Igbo people.

The funny thing is that people like you think themselves intelligent, where as their folly is bare for all to see.
Re: How Ndigbo Can Break Free From Their Victim Mentality Syndrome by AgentOfAllah: 7:58pm On Jul 14, 2016
Igboic:


But the crime of an individual can be used to characterize all members of his ethnic group, the actions of few individuals can also be seen to reflect the will and stance of their people, that will explain why crimes with Igbo names as perpetrators are seen as an Igbo bashing fest in NL
Wrong! Crimes, like achievements, know no ethnic identities. As such, just as the achievements of an individual must only be credited to that individual, so too must their misdeeds. It is not clear to me how I have suggested otherwise.

and a coup by few Igbo elements was seen as an Igbo coup and used as a justification to unleash near genocide on the Igbo people.
So, what's your point? Did I order the genocide?


with hypocrites like you nowhere to be found in such threads,

The funny thing is that people like you think themselves intelligent, where as their folly is bare for all to see.
As for the ad hominems, I would normally defend myself, but I am sure you know me and my antecedents so well that you are the indisputable authority on my biography.

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