Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.

Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.

Maximus85:


Set her up. Buy her a personal effect that will always be on her with a micro recorder. Necklace or wristwatch or something. I recommend you monitor her movement patten the more. Bug her phone. Bros, do something or better still, ask the ladies in the house to teach you how to ascertain if the uncle is digging your Bae. Dem Sabi demselves well well.

Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call each other and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name

Randyhot:
I have this issue that i have been pondering on for sometime now, and the more i think about it, the more i get confused.

Its about this man my fiancee always call's her uncle, she said that this man is a relation to her grandma and honestly, this particular man is the one sponsoring her education since both parents are divorced.

My problem is this, everytime this man is in town, she goes over to his house to clean up, and will spend the night over there as well, and this man has never for once visited with his wife. Secondly whenever this man calls her on phone, and she happens to be anywhere expect her house or in school, he will start accusing her of sleeping around, something i am suspecting might be a 'lover's jelousy' than a mere concern for her well being. I might be wrong in my suspecions but i cant just bring my mind to rest when he stoped paying her school fees for a while when it was reported to him that she was caught coming from a guys house by a friend. I knew that day in particular , cause i was escorting her when she bumped into someone she remarked as her uncle's bossom friend, it took the intervention of her mother and sister to placate him.
I was shoked one day when she remarked that if you dont know well, you might think that they where dating, and futher said that his wife might be suspecting them atimes. I was thinking, what must be running through her mind for saying all these? I have seen her selfies in this uncles apartment and most of the pictures are not so "funny" as what she wears around the house.

Now today, the man is around and as usual she will be up there cleaning and stuff, but what is worrying me this night is the " swtheart,my husband good nite" sms i got from her after all the missed call i gave her earlier tonight. Its unlike her, cause we never fail to call eachother and say our goodnights every night.
I replied her asking if shes spending the night in her uncle's house which she did not reply.
I dont know how to confront her on this, about my fears and suspicions.
Your advice is kindly needed, as the imaginations alone is giving me sleeples night.

princetom1:


Has she ever pick his call in ur presence? What does he call him, uncle or what?

I know i can count on you when it comes to jakujaku advice ..... Crazy witchcraft Bitchcrafts

bitchcrafts:
He be like say your story true , so i go try talk sense this tym ... Now, Sheybi u are fukcing her too?... That aside, Guy man, if you know u can't handle the bills this her uncle is bearing better dey your lane and dey enjoy life as it comes. Don't complicate a complicated issue for yourself. From all indications yo still an hustling Nigga. If u know how to play your games right this 'uncle' can be helpful... Don't goan love up oh, its not good for your health, Na ladies dey love, Na brains niggaass dey get. Noff said

Randyhot:
she calls him uncle and most people know they are connected by blood

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name

Randyhot:
Above is the sms of tonite that futher roused my suspicions.

smithsydny:
howfar baba

princetom1:


Maybe this uncle is just taking advantage of her since she has no option. What about telling her u wanna know her parents or do they know u? By d way, how much can u tell she loves u? Is she d one that take Selfie with u? Post on Bbm, instagram and Facebook about u? Or d secret type that doesn't one anyone to know except friends
Does she had female friend u can confide in or trust?

princetom1:


Has she ever pick his call in ur presence? What does he call him, uncle or what?
Also, does her family knows u? U used d word fiancée.
Simple, tell her u are thinking of getting married soon and u have save enough without her knowledge, she should take u to get family for introduction, not traditional wedding o. Just intro to know her people. And see what her reaction will be, i think u will get it answer easily then

ocheze1:
Bro. your girl might be telling the truth. The uncle might also be taking care of her family's needs and not just hers. Please I will advice that you delete this post. This issue is a very private and delicate issue. If you seek advice from the internet you will harm yourself and your relationship. Please try your best to investigate this matter on your own. You are a MAN please act like one and stop falling our hands here.

It's glaring that you truly love this girl and this issue id eating you up but bro,you CANNOT get the answer to your problem here.

Everybody get their own wahala.. they are wise to keep it to themselves. Please next time be Wise enuf to know that you cannot get the kinda answer you want for this sort of issue here..

DASOL!!

"DON'T JUDGE ANYONE BUT DON'T TRUST ANYONE" use ur imagination. padimi.

May19th:

cool bro, u?

Randyhot:
both parents are divorced and she is staying with the mum, not nuch of a relationship with the dad, have met d mum but still to meet the dad. Yes she takes selfies of us together to upload in social media, and i dnt have any of her i can confide in.
Thanks for ur true concern.

cekhoe:
I will advise you as I would to my brother, and what I see here is a man in self denial, the suspicion is there, some evidence point to her being guilty, but deep down in your mind you wish it wasn't true hence the reason why.you have opened this thread, even when the evidence was so glaring. Well to clear all your doubts, first you have to plant survillance on her,online stores sell inbuilt wrist watches if she is a wrist watch person, or you can plant a camera pen in her bag, when the surveillance is in place,then ask for a meeting with her uncle for a formal introduction as her future husband, there will be two outcomes of this request, it's either she will agree or disagree, if she disagrees, don't make a fuss, just use ur already planted surveillance, do this if you are sure she is worth the trouble and be prepared for what you might find. But if you feel she isn't worth it,I will suggest you take a walk, I for one do not see a rationale behind her keeping you away from her uncle, good luck

princetom1:


Truth is, all fingers is pointing to get cheating.
But hey, she might not be amchaeting too. Some girls are just so dumb (pardon my language) they cant differentiate where to draw the line, they will do anything for who help them. Don't loose hope, i am not one of those who say u should just forget. Knowing the truth is what will set u free. Also, u need really be careful, the lies might seems so true to u bcoz u wanted it to be truth badly. Let's hear from u later if u make progress with this issue but don't confront her until that is ur last solution. Cheers

smithsydny:
Make Oluwa pick call

bitchcrafts:
He be like say your story true , so i go try talk sense this tym ... Now, Sheybi u are fukcing her too?... That aside, Guy man, if you know u can't handle the bills this her uncle is bearing better dey your lane and dey enjoy life as it comes. Don't complicate a complicated issue for yourself. From all indications yo still an hustling Nigga. If u know how to play your games right this 'uncle' can be helpful... Don't goan love up oh, its not good for your health, Na ladies dey love, Na brains niggaass dey get. Noff said

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name

Trendy247:
simply install "....." in her fone... its N900 in playstore. it has 'hidden feature' which means u can hide it after installation and she won't know somtin like dat is in her fone. leave it for at least one week, it will do d work for u...
But whatever happen next, u're on ur own.... The app have succeeded in destroying two of my friend's relationship..


Quote me if u're interested lemme giv u d name

Randyhot:
thanks for ur advice