sinaj:
lol u don't make choice for people.


The word Choice is very powerful.

It can only b chosen by an individual.

You only guide her, enlighten her, give her options nd let her choose.
It's either she chooses the path to destruction or the right path.


whoa!! noted.


A 14yr old should be in ss1.
You don't follow her to school or know what she does bhind your back.


Haven't you heard of cases where children from authoritarian home with all the discipline still go astray?




Mayb your bro was hiding his gf xo u wnt steal her from him

sinaj:
lol u don't make choice for people.


The word Choice is very powerful.

It can only b chosen by an individual.

You only guide her, enlighten her, give her options nd let her choose.
It's either she chooses the path to destruction or the right path.


A 14yr old should be in ss1.
You don't follow her to school or know what she does bhind your back.


Haven't you heard of cases where children from authoritarian home with all the discipline still go astray?




Mayb your bro was hiding his gf xo u wnt steal her from him

rawpadgin:
we are two different individuals, I'm a disciplinarian u are apparently not

I believe kids needs to be strictly guarded else they make wrong decisions & of cause u know the decision u make either make or break u

Let me use myself as a case study, when i was in my early 20's I was seeing a lot of bars but instead of investing i was flexing like there was no tomorrow

I was young & naive, nobody to advise & or knock sense into my headhead

Thank God for giving me a second shot


Wait a minute, are u not a nigerian

Chai! Oyinbo mentality don spoil some of us finish

sinaj:
lol am a full Nigerian


Evn as a disciplinarian, you can enforce discipline in your child only when he does something bad in your presence. What if he did that in your absence?

Ok lemme give you an example.
My dad is a disciplinarian, no one mess up whenever he is home.

And I live alone in school. I can decide to club, smoke or do anything in school, because my dad will not find out. And pretend to be a saint whenever I go home.

I dunno if you get, what am trying to make u undastnd is that you cannot enforce a behaviour on an adolescent via discipline.

Behaviour is controlled by the choice we make.

truth12:
Lol... age of accountability.

rawpadgin:
sinaj, sinaj, sinaj my dear friend

the topic says " @what particular age does a girl ALLOWED to be in a relationship"

to allow something simply means u are aware of it but decided to let go

if ur ward decides to live a promiscuous life & his/her guardian is keeping mute about it.......

boy oboy!

halfricanadian:
Wenever she is ready

truth12:
YOUR OPINION GUYS!!

Randy91:


2yrs...Idiat!!!!

Randy91:


2yrs...Idiat!!!!

Randy91:


2yrs...Idiat!!!!