bojbest:
I turn ladies off when chatting with them on whats app




Pls dnt knw what to do
Really need help
Help a bro

xxxtedyxxx:
Do You Still Make This Mistake With Women? by
xxxtedyxxx



Do girls flake on You? Do you always wonder why
she doesn't return your calls? Or why she doesn't
create time and space for you to be with her?
Perhaps you don't just understand how her weird
emotions can sometimes be a tool against our
romantic journey with her.
••••


For the most part, we guys are action oriented. We
think in terms of what we want to do and how we
want others to act. Therefore, when it comes to the
dating scene or any other social interaction we
always ask questions like :


How can I make her say yes to me? ...How can I
approach her and make her give out her
number? ... How can I make her kiss me? ...and
so on.


This goal oriented state of mind is addictive and it
can make us begin to over-analyze subtle things
that dont even matter - which is the mistake most
of us make.
••••


All hope is not lost. With process orientation we
can leverage the whole situation in our favour.
Being process oriented helps you to think from the
end.


So instead of asking... How can I make ber kiss
me? ..You should ask:
What state of Mind can I get her into to make her
kiss me easily?


What state of mind can I put her to make her feel
free with me.?
What state of mind can I get her into to make her
more invested in our relationship?
••••


Armed with this knowledge there are lots of
emotional states we can consider to get the girls to
do or behave the way we want.
You can make a girl feel CURIOUSITY, LUST, FUN,
ATTRACTION, A SENSE of BELONGING, ROMANCE
and so on.


These are all good emotions, but always try to
balance them out with emotions of TRUST,
CONNECTION, SAFETY, COMFORT.


The feelings/emotional states a girl experiences
when she feels free and totally connected to you is
what I tag as TRUST/CONNECTION/SAFETY/
COMFORT. This emotional state is important if she
is gonna date YOU.


CURIOUSITY, LUST, FUN, ATTRACTION, A SENSE of
BELONGING, ROMANCE are emotional states some
girls require but we still need a balance of both
sets of emotions.


Some guys are good at creating the CONNECTION/
TRUST and safety emotions easily. They are so
good at it that they don't include the second range
of emotions. This is the sole reason why 90
percent of guys get friendzoned. .


That moment
when you here:
" Emeka let's just be friends please"
If you don't show her the qualities of a boyfriend,
you are invariably putting yourself in a position to
get friendzoned.


Some guys are fantastic at creating emotions of
CURIOUSITY/LUST/FUN/ATTRACTION/A SENSE of
BELONGING/ROMANCE but there sometimes get
turned down at the last minute. You also need a
little dose of CONNECTION to get her to feel some
sense of trust. That way she won't flake at the last
minute or put up resistance.


All in all, its important to give her feelings of
attraction and positive feelings of emotional,safety
and rapport to get her to do what you want.
Apply this to YOUR GAME today...and see the
Difference.
Cheers.
Xxxteddy

Eleniyan15:
bro in the house
new chick around!!!!!

Am falling for a girl again ooo she's 65% cute tall straight,scholar emmm e.t.c
yea we don't talk cause she's in other department and I got 2 female frnds in her dpt,now have been trying too get close to her whenever we got a large class but she's always @d front and me nah back I dey Alwyn sit base on say i no dey quick go sch...cos who klass EPP

have been making this kinda eye contact with her for now nothing more and I don't want too be too needy base on the o.t cause it does not make sense to just walk up to a lady been a stranger and ask her out direct...I just need to get this green light from her,wah currently on my mind is WHENEVER IS SEE HER I SHOULD ALWAYS SAY HI then as time goes on will start entering her klass try bringing talking too her base on frnd package and academic issh just for the first day only after that the normal flattering and chyking stuff or wetin una think cause she's currently single base on my info for the dpt and she's jovial like me but have only a frnd.

Abeg how una see the package xxxtedyxxx ,djboosting and co
walahi I knw say una go answer me since when this thread dey here have been fallowing


oya make una drop o.t for me cos o.t no dey full basket


OR MAKE I USE ONE OF MY frequent INTRO WITH GIRLS I HAVENT MET BEFORE

I.E hello bae have you been told today....*den she will get this kinda weird look that was he trying too say then I drop dah shit


YOU LOOKING CUTE #Smiles it has never failed me how una see am
I wan keep this one ooo no be chop and clean mouth ooo

Eleniyan15:
bro in the house
new chick around!!!!!

Am falling for a girl again ooo she's 65% cute tall straight,scholar emmm e.t.c
yea we don't talk cause she's in other department and I got 2 female frnds in her dpt,now have been trying too get close to her whenever we got a large class but she's always @d front and me nah back I dey Alwyn sit base on say i no dey quick go sch...cos who klass EPP

have been making this kinda eye contact with her for now nothing more and I don't want too be too needy base on the o.t cause it does not make sense to just walk up to a lady been a stranger and ask her out direct...I just need to get this green light from her,wah currently on my mind is WHENEVER IS SEE HER I SHOULD ALWAYS SAY HI then as time goes on will start entering her klass try bringing talking too her base on frnd package and academic issh just for the first day only after that the normal flattering and chyking stuff or wetin una think cause she's currently single base on my info for the dpt and she's jovial like me but have only a frnd.

Abeg how una see the package xxxtedyxxx ,djboosting and co
walahi I knw say una go answer me since when this thread dey here have been fallowing


oya make una drop o.t for me cos o.t no dey full basket


OR MAKE I USE ONE OF MY frequent INTRO WITH GIRLS I HAVENT MET BEFORE

I.E hello bae have you been told today....*den she will get this kinda weird look that was he trying too say then I drop dah shit


YOU LOOKING CUTE #Smiles it has never failed me how una see am
I wan keep this one ooo no be chop and clean mouth ooo

fabulous2000:


Bro if u ar damn in need of dis girl ....u need 2 approach her....approach her by breaking the silence...just walk up 2 her and open within 2 minute and leave.....within these 2 minute u need 2 create attraction by demonstrating higher value of urself...target her when she is in d midst of her friends..u walk up 2 dem and u'll be like '" hi ladies...can I get ur opinion on something or a survey...then u throw a question that comes 2 ur mind ...mind u,ur focus should be on her friends..when she wants 2 interupt u cut her off tell her one after the other..then u continue with her frnds....u give them the impression dat u gats go in 60secs...within 2 minutes u av created attraction here...when u see her d next day u go 4 her numba

xxxtedyxxx:
Do You Still Make This Mistake With Women? by
xxxtedyxxx


Do girls flake on You? Do you always wonder why
she doesn't return your calls? Or why she doesn't
create time and space for you to be with her?
Perhaps you don't just understand how her weird
emotions can sometimes be a tool against our
romantic journey with her.
••••

For the most part, we guys are action oriented. We
think in terms of what we want to do and how we
want others to act. Therefore, when it comes to the
dating scene or any other social interaction we
always ask questions like :

How can I make her say yes to me? ...How can I
approach her and make her give out her
number? ... How can I make her kiss me? ...and
so on.

This goal oriented state of mind is addictive and it
can make us begin to over-analyze subtle things
that dont even matter - which is the mistake most
of us make.
••••
All hope is not lost. With process orientation we
can leverage the whole situation in our favour.
Being process oriented helps you to think from the
end.

So instead of asking... How can I make ber kiss
me? ..You should ask:
What state of Mind can I get her into to make her
kiss me easily?

What state of mind can I put her to make her feel
free with me.?
What state of mind can I get her into to make her
more invested in our relationship?
••••

Armed with this knowledge there are lots of
emotional states we can consider to get the girls to
do or behave the way we want.
You can make a girl feel CURIOUSITY, LUST, FUN,
ATTRACTION, A SENSE of BELONGING, ROMANCE
and so on.

These are all good emotions, but always try to
balance them out with emotions of TRUST,
CONNECTION, SAFETY, COMFORT.

The feelings/emotional states a girl experiences
when she feels free and totally connected to you is
what I tag as TRUST/CONNECTION/SAFETY/
COMFORT. This emotional state is important if she
is gonna date YOU.

CURIOUSITY, LUST, FUN, ATTRACTION, A SENSE of
BELONGING, ROMANCE are emotional states some
girls require but we still need a balance of both
sets of emotions.

Some guys are good at creating the CONNECTION/
TRUST and safety emotions easily. They are so
good at it that they don't include the second range
of emotions. This is the sole reason why 90
percent of guys get friendzoned. . That moment
when you here:
" Emeka let's just be friends please"
If you don't show her the qualities of a boyfriend,
you are invariably putting yourself in a position to
get friendzoned.

Some guys are fantastic at creating emotions of
CURIOUSITY/LUST/FUN/ATTRACTION/A SENSE of
BELONGING/ROMANCE but there sometimes get
turned down at the last minute. You also need a
little dose of CONNECTION to get her to feel some
sense of trust. That way she won't flake at the last
minute or put up resistance.

All in all, its important to give her feelings of
attraction and positive feelings of emotional,safety
and rapport to get her to do what you want.
Apply this to YOUR GAME today...and see the
Difference.
Cheers.
Xxxteddy

diggy4real:
House....tried this tricks.....seeems the girls am trying it with are local chicks or are after something else.....how
Long will a chick visit one...b4 one attempts to Bleep her?....every chick DT visit me on d first day always wants to visit n probably get money n go..each time I try smth....dey leave d house never to come back or see me again..... Am tired of this lectures.....seems it iznt working or am meeting d wrong girls.

diggy4real:
House....tried this tricks.....seeems the girls am trying it with are local chicks or are after something else.....how
Long will a chick visit one...b4 one attempts to Bleep her?....every chick DT visit me on d first day always wants to visit n probably get money n go..each time I try smth....dey leave d house never to come back or see me again..... Am tired of this lectures.....seems it iznt working or am meeting d wrong girls.

diggy4real:


Girls pisses me off easily..... The way..,.dey act.....I get really angry.... Deleted virtually all girls off my list.....cos they seem to feel they are smarter.... Some even hang up on you wen u call....I can't be taking DT all in the name of gaming.....I think I will just be carrying oloshos and pay them than diz gaming shit.

Chepy1:

Lmao

brandnew54:
Bosses in the house help a broda,
There is this am so much in love with and she knows through my actions.She even confessed to her roomie that I can catch a grenade for her.
Here is the problem , she ditched me like a month ago .she stopped picking my calls for like month , Luckily my company sent me to Ph for an assignment for 2 days .After which I sent sms to her am in PH to meet with her in order to unrivaled reasons she has been blanking me.It took the intervention of my friend and her roomie to convince her she should give me a chance. When she did , should told me that the pastor had informed her that I am going to be a cheating type ,therefore she should discontinue our relationship(we are suppose to get married).We reconciled and got back together. I over heard a discussion between her an a friend concerning not been paid allawee ,so I felt that it was an opportunity to prove that i can be that guy she can rely on.I gave her 20k in the process while she waits for allawee. On the last day visit before travelling back to lagos , I went through her phone while she was having her bath , found out chat with a particular guy she had sex with the previous day. I drilled her so hard till confessed to me.At this point , I gave a liberty to chose of whom to stay with either with me or the oda guy that bleeped her since she claimed the guy got plenty money but rude.She confessed it me she want and promise to turn a new leaf. I forgave her and left bk to lagos. Now she started acting funny again , throughtout todat sunday am calling her she is not picking my calls and not returning myh calls either .How do I start treating this girl cos I do really love her .

brandnew54:
Bosses in the house help a broda,
There is this am so much in love with and she knows through my actions.She even confessed to her roomie that I can catch a grenade for her.
Here is the problem , she ditched me like a month ago .she stopped picking my calls for like month , Luckily my company sent me to Ph for an assignment for 2 days .After which I sent sms to her am in PH to meet with her in order to unrivaled reasons she has been blanking me.It took the intervention of my friend and her roomie to convince her she should give me a chance. When she did , should told me that the pastor had informed her that I am going to be a cheating type ,therefore she should discontinue our relationship(we are suppose to get married).We reconciled and got back together. I over heard a discussion between her an a friend concerning not been paid allawee ,so I felt that it was an opportunity to prove that i can be that guy she can rely on.I gave her 20k in the process while she waits for allawee. On the last day visit before travelling back to lagos , I went through her phone while she was having her bath , found out chat with a particular guy she had sex with the previous day. I drilled her so hard till confessed to me.At this point , I gave a liberty to chose of whom to stay with either with me or the oda guy that bleeped her since she claimed the guy got plenty money but rude.She confessed it me she want and promise to turn a new leaf. I forgave her and left bk to lagos. Now she started acting funny again , throughtout todat sunday am calling her she is not picking my calls and not returning myh calls either .How do I start treating this girl cos I do really love her .

brandnew54:
Bosses in the house help a broda,
There is this am so much in love with and she knows through my actions.She even confessed to her roomie that I can catch a grenade for her.
Here is the problem , she ditched me like a month ago .she stopped picking my calls for like month , Luckily my company sent me to Ph for an assignment for 2 days .After which I sent sms to her am in PH to meet with her in order to unrivaled reasons she has been blanking me.It took the intervention of my friend and her roomie to convince her she should give me a chance. When she did , should told me that the pastor had informed her that I am going to be a cheating type ,therefore she should discontinue our relationship(we are suppose to get married).We reconciled and got back together. I over heard a discussion between her an a friend concerning not been paid allawee ,so I felt that it was an opportunity to prove that i can be that guy she can rely on.I gave her 20k in the process while she waits for allawee. On the last day visit before travelling back to lagos , I went through her phone while she was having her bath , found out chat with a particular guy she had sex with the previous day. I drilled her so hard till confessed to me.At this point , I gave a liberty to chose of whom to stay with either with me or the oda guy that bleeped her since she claimed the guy got plenty money but rude.She confessed it me she want and promise to turn a new leaf. I forgave her and left bk to lagos. Now she started acting funny again , throughtout todat sunday am calling her she is not picking my calls and not returning myh calls either .How do I start treating this girl cos I do really love her .

brandnew54:
Bosses in the house help a broda,
There is this am so much in love with and she knows through my actions.She even confessed to her roomie that I can catch a grenade for her.
Here is the problem , she ditched me like a month ago .she stopped picking my calls for like month , Luckily my company sent me to Ph for an assignment for 2 days .After which I sent sms to her am in PH to meet with her in order to unrivaled reasons she has been blanking me.It took the intervention of my friend and her roomie to convince her she should give me a chance. When she did , should told me that the pastor had informed her that I am going to be a cheating type ,therefore she should discontinue our relationship(we are suppose to get married).We reconciled and got back together. I over heard a discussion between her an a friend concerning not been paid allawee ,so I felt that it was an opportunity to prove that i can be that guy she can rely on.I gave her 20k in the process while she waits for allawee. On the last day visit before travelling back to lagos , I went through her phone while she was having her bath , found out chat with a particular guy she had sex with the previous day. I drilled her so hard till confessed to me.At this point , I gave a liberty to chose of whom to stay with either with me or the oda guy that bleeped her since she claimed the guy got plenty money but rude.She confessed it me she want and promise to turn a new leaf. I forgave her and left bk to lagos. Now she started acting funny again , throughtout todat sunday am calling her she is not picking my calls and not returning myh calls either .How do I start treating this girl cos I do really love her .

Lordsarmie92:
you be boss ooo, I try every clue u dropped here and it work like magic.g

The chick am into now is fond of me and can't but talk to me either thru calls or msgs ,she thought am jovial but presently I have no clue on how to continue the chat

xxxtedyxxx:
Here is the best line to use in ur dept or faculty. It works like magic. I don use dis line tire..sometimes e dey do me as if say na jaz

#

Hey..I was just heading to my class wen I saw u and I tot ...hey.dat girl I cute..I av got to say hello...what dept/faculty are u?

#

I crafted dis line after much tot..dis line open girls easily..arnd ur dept or faculty..or school.

Ask for her name, and just say..hi..nice seeing u arnd

Hehe..don't worry..next time u see her..she will rmbr u...and una yans go dey easy..u can meet tons of babes everyday..using dis scope.

OkeEsibe:
ave been trying to chike a gurl for mre dan 6months she still saying no

dunno wah tu say again

happyday:
No offense meant, but what do you do for a living?

brandnew54:
Bosses in the house help a broda,
There is this am so much in love with and she knows through my actions.She even confessed to her roomie that I can catch a grenade for her.
Here is the problem , she ditched me like a month ago .she stopped picking my calls for like month , Luckily my company sent me to Ph for an assignment for 2 days .After which I sent sms to her am in PH to meet with her in order to unrivaled reasons she has been blanking me.It took the intervention of my friend and her roomie to convince her she should give me a chance. When she did , should told me that the pastor had informed her that I am going to be a cheating type ,therefore she should discontinue our relationship(we are suppose to get married).We reconciled and got back together. I over heard a discussion between her an a friend concerning not been paid allawee ,so I felt that it was an opportunity to prove that i can be that guy she can rely on.I gave her 20k in the process while she waits for allawee. On the last day visit before travelling back to lagos , I went through her phone while she was having her bath , found out chat with a particular guy she had sex with the previous day. I drilled her so hard till confessed to me.At this point , I gave a liberty to chose of whom to stay with either with me or the oda guy that bleeped her since she claimed the guy got plenty money but rude.She confessed it me she want and promise to turn a new leaf. I forgave her and left bk to lagos. Now she started acting funny again , throughtout todat sunday am calling her she is not picking my calls and not returning myh calls either .How do I start treating this girl cos I do really love her .