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How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(f): 4:21pm On Jul 17, 2016

I don't know if this is weird or normal #just a random thought.

When am sad and I don't feel good about something, I console myself with food grin

will just keep eating anything I come across for the rest of the day.

I know it vary with individuals,some resort to hanging out, some becomes Hot, some prefer to be alone etc

So please share your views, what works for you?

How do you manage sad moments? cry

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Sexxkillz: 4:30pm On Jul 17, 2016

I take a walk and think about all the people that died on that day that would have preferred to have the problem that is making me sad if it meant they would still be alive.

Then, I thank God for the life I have and realize it could have been worse.

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Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(f): 4:32pm On Jul 17, 2016

Sexxkillz:
I take a walk and think about all the people that died on that day that would have preferred to have the problem that is making me sad if it meant they would still be alive.

Then, I thank God for the life I have and realize it could have been worse.

Wow

Nice one.
I try to do the walking thing once in a while but there is just no time for me to.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 4:33pm On Jul 17, 2016

When am sad or down I tend to smoke some weed and write some articles about the tools I use, because feedbacks from people usually cheers me up.

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Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by unapapadeycraze: 4:36pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewande, longest time. How are you?

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Antina(f): 4:36pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewandequeen:
I don't know if this is weird or normal #just a random thought.

When am sad and I don't feel good about something, I console myself with food will just keep eating anything I come across for the rest of the day.

I know it vary with individuals,some resort to hanging out, some becomes Hot, some prefer to be alone etc

So please share your views, what works for you?

How do you manage sad moments?

I think about the good times I have had, sometimes listen to musics.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(f): 4:39pm On Jul 17, 2016

pcguru1:
When am sad or down I tend to smoke some weed and write some articles about the tools I use, because feedbacks from people usually cheers me up.

Han han

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by eph12(m): 4:39pm On Jul 17, 2016

I reflect on things. One thing is sure I don't let it weigh me down.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by jamalnation(m): 4:39pm On Jul 17, 2016

I listen to music [old school]

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by firstking01(m): 4:39pm On Jul 17, 2016

Sorry but i hardly go into depression cos i'm already used to how life works and i knw how to manage and adjust to circumstances and make myself happy....

Now listen to this, happiness is earned..
it's you who chosed to be sad.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(f): 4:39pm On Jul 17, 2016

Antina:

I think about the good times I have had, sometimes listen to musics.

If i have to listen to music, I will listen to the sad ones.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Diamondqueen(f): 4:40pm On Jul 17, 2016

I listen to hip hop music with my earphone. It helps me a lot.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(f): 4:40pm On Jul 17, 2016

firstking01:
Sorry but i hardly go into depression cos i'm already used to how life works and i knw how to manage and adjust to circumstance and make myself happy....

Now listen to this, happiness is earned..
it's you who chosed to be sad.

Never heard that quote before

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(f): 4:41pm On Jul 17, 2016

unapapadeycraze:
Yewande, longest time. How are you?

Am fine thank you and how are you doing?

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewandequeen:
I don't know if this is weird or normal #just a random thought.

When am sad and I don't feel good about something, I console myself with food will just keep eating anything I come across for the rest of the day

I know it vary with individuals,some resort to hanging out, some becomes Hot, some prefer to be alone etc

So please share your views, what works for you?

How do you manage sad moments?

That's binge eating, and it's not the best or most advisable of coping mechanisms because you have a tendency to bulimia and excessive weight gain.
For me, I get distracted by browsing, talking a walk, gisting with friends.
Just being actively involved in something could take away the sadness.The act of deflection is one I have mastered

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Sexxkillz: 4:43pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewandequeen:

Wow

Nice one.
I try to do the walking thing once in a while but there is just no time for me to.

Try it sometime. There's always time to walk.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jul 17, 2016

Sexxkillz:
I take a walk and think about all the people that died on that day that would have preferred to have the problem that is making me sad if it meant they would still be alive.

Then, I thank God for the life I have and realize it could have been worse.

I can walk with u... grin

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by FlawlesRebirth02(f): 4:44pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewandequeen:
I don't know if this is weird or normal #just a random thought.

When am sad and I don't feel good about something, I console myself with food will just keep eating anything I come across for the rest of the day.

I know it vary with individuals,some resort to hanging out, some becomes Hot, some prefer to be alone etc

So please share your views, what works for you?

How do you manage sad moments?

.you know when you said 'Eat anything you come across” u know one day you go waka jam GRASS tongue

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 4:44pm On Jul 17, 2016

I hate to admit this but when I'm sad or disappointed I locked myself in my room and cry til I fell asleep cry

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by firstking01(m): 4:45pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewandequeen:

Never heard that quote before

Postulated by the firstking01 himself cool

...but i hope you grasp the qoute??

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(f): 4:47pm On Jul 17, 2016

sapiosexual1:

That's binge eating, and it's not the best or most advisable of coping mechanisms because you have a tendency to bulimia and excessive weight gain.
For me, I get distracted by browsing, talking a walk, gisting with friends.
Just being actively involved in something could take away the sadness.The act of deflection is one I have mastered

Hanahan
You're mean ooooooo
You added that Cos am big right?

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by RoyalBlak007: 4:47pm On Jul 17, 2016

I hang out

at a strip club

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Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Jul 17, 2016

TrapQueen77:
I hate to admit this but when I'm sad or disappointed I locked myself in my room and cry til I fell asleep

WTF why nau nothing is that bad , I can't even cry even if I tried. Unless they told me star wars rogue one was cancelled then yep I'd pretty much cry

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(f): 4:48pm On Jul 17, 2016

FlawlesRebirth02:
.you know when you said 'Eat anything you come across” u know one day you go waka jam GRASS

Buhahahhahah

Now this is funny

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Sexxkillz: 4:49pm On Jul 17, 2016

TrapQueen77:

I can walk with u...

I walk fast. . . Very fast.

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Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(f): 4:49pm On Jul 17, 2016

firstking01:
Postulated by the firstking01 himself ...but i hope you grasp the qoute??

Sure I did

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 4:50pm On Jul 17, 2016

Whenever I'm sad, I feel really depressed as if the world's gonna end.

I always manage it by keeping to myself, like locking myself up for hours or days, watching comedies... Something that'll make me laugh and smile(natin romantic tho)
I also eat a lot. Gosh. Cos to me, food drowns all sorrows.

Finally, if you want me to recover, just provide your cheeks for two hot slaps. When I slap, all anger fades automatically. Weird.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewandequeen:

Han han

Its true dear, I tend to think alot and esp negative and depressing stuff, that ish gets me less bothered.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Antina(f): 4:51pm On Jul 17, 2016

Yewandequeen:

If i have to listen to music, I will listen to the sad ones.

Listening to sad one will instigate the sadness. I rather listen to my type of music best fit. In a day or two, I would be fine again.

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by tosyne2much(m): 4:51pm On Jul 17, 2016

Well, I will say that I'm already used to disappointments and betrayal in life which have made me a better and stronger person.. I have been disappointed/betrayed countless times by male friends, girlfriends, family members and perhaps, those I thought would be the last people to betray me. Even here on Nairaland, I'm already used to the fact that some people unleash their hatred towards me by posting untrue and ridiculous stories just to defame or tarnish my image. Most people feel that silence is an admission of guilt without knowing that it's sometimes the best way to show maturity and make haters look frustrated.

Despite the fact that I accord both young and old with love and open arms according to my inbred manner, people often pay me back with disappointment and I begin to wonder if I'm the only one on earth to be treated that way.

Perseverance, ability to overlook certain things and inability to give up no matter the war often help me to deal with disappointment

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Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Jul 17, 2016

RoyalBlak007:
I hang out

at a strip club

Which area ?

Re: How Do You Manage Sad Moments/disappointments? by Yewandequeen(f): 4:52pm On Jul 17, 2016

TrapQueen77:
I hate to admit this but when I'm sad or disappointed I locked myself in my room and cry til I fell asleep

Used to do this but not anymore

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