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7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by bamac(m): 12:11pm On Jul 18, 2016
Many relationship are not worth holding on to, many thinks they can still hold on to it and handle it meanwhile, nothing will change it, it will never yield good fruit but what you have already known it will be.

Some of the signs you should note that will not make your relationship stand includes:

1. When your partner don't believe in you

My God! What are you still waiting for? And you think something can change that conception about you? No two ways about it, you are just being used pending the time that your partner will get a better replacement that he/she can believe in his/her potential.
This happens to women majorly, i was shocked when i heard a man will always shun his girlfriend whenever she tries to speak English when he is around just because she is a drop out with statement like "is it your kind that speaks English language?".

What else do you need to prove to you that you will suffer even if he marries you?

It is abuse on your part if your partner don't believe in you if you don't know.

2. Your partner does not have your time

You claim you are in a relationship and your partner is giving you attitude of being busy more than Dangote or Otedola, you are on a very long thing if you don't run to those who will cherish you and accord to you the time you desire.

If you think a miracle will happen over night you can keep it going, no matter how busy someone will be he/she will always find time to be with the one he/she loves, don't be deceived.

3. When your partner is not proud to introduce you

Yes, many have been introduced, yet, nothing good comes up. Good thing didn't come up not because you too are not serious about the relationship. At times destiny steps in and there is nothing anybody can do about.

Do you know being proud to introduce you gives your partner the sense of responsibility for you?
That alone has a lot attached to it for those who really mean business and not for just children.

If your partner keeps telling you it is not yet time, it might not be time till you die separately at old age.

4. Your partner is Stingy uncontrollably

I am not saying your partner should give indiscriminately. But you will know when your partner is stingy. If it is the man, though you might end up in marriage but the future is very important, he will be stingy till everything get worst.

Part of being caring is to give your partner freely when it matters, not that you refuse to give when it matters or it doesn't.

Please run for your dear life if your partner is stingy uncontrollably, your relationship will not go well if you are not determined.

5. When your partner is jealous uncontrollably

The fact remains that we are all jealous but we just control it.
If that of your partner is uncontrollable, then you are in it for the worse as anything can happen, your partner can kill you if you are not careful.

6. Your partner don't give room for mistakes

You need to watch it when your partner nags at every slight opportunity.
Their should be room for errors, and this is why communication is necessary in any relationship.

You are human and you are bound to make mistakes and also bound to be corrected as you are also bound to yield positive response towards the correction.

Here, a man should not be too arrogant to be corrected, no one is above mistake.

7. When your opinion does not count

Two heads they say are better than one. You should be allowed to make suggestion that will keep the relationship going. If it is only one out of two that is making decision it will affect the relationship.

Do you know the way we handle our relationship also shows how we deal with people outside.

If you are the type that is bossy in your relationship, you cannot be a good leader.

If you keep going in such relationship you are heading into destruction. It is good to let your partner feel he/she is important when it comes to decision making in the relationship.

Well, i have just shared my opinion, you might have a contrary opinion, feel free to share in the comment box.


Source : http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/07/7-signs-you-are-in-wrong-relationship.html

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Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 12:16pm On Jul 18, 2016
I promise myself my next relationship will never be a wrong one.

I'm definately 100% tru with my last relationship

I look forward to my next one
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by UndisputedBosom(m): 12:18pm On Jul 18, 2016
halfricanadian:
I promise myself my next relationship will never be a wrong one


Pls do....i dnt want 2 see u cry anymore
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 12:18pm On Jul 18, 2016
UndisputedBosom:



Pls do....i dnt want 2 see u cry anymore

smiley smiley tanx
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by UndisputedBosom(m): 12:21pm On Jul 18, 2016
Still havin feelin's 4 ur Ex.......where does it fall at OP....cox am gradually loosin my mind cry
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by RoyalBlak007: 12:22pm On Jul 18, 2016
halfricanadian:
I promise myself my next relationship will never be a wrong one

Yes, I won't be

the wrong one



















grin

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Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by kilokeys(m): 12:22pm On Jul 18, 2016
when you and your partner are both jobless and unfortunately based in Nigeria
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by Mariojane(f): 12:22pm On Jul 18, 2016
the list above is not for wrong relationship at all, it is for imprisonment. who can survive all that?
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 12:22pm On Jul 18, 2016
RoyalBlak007:


Yes, I won't be

the wrong one



















grin

Ok
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by ForeverYoung197(f): 12:22pm On Jul 18, 2016
Yes how could he ever have time for me when he was busy with his other chick. Telling me he has so many things to do this and that. Before when he sounds jealous I thought that was cute and he loves me. Only to find out he's smothering other pucci angry

To my dead ex, I see you here everyday. I still have that break up letter you left on the table.
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by Cholls(m): 12:25pm On Jul 18, 2016
my brothers and sisters in ed sheeran's voice " when your d.ck don't work like they used to before ''
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by Dotwillis1(m): 12:25pm On Jul 18, 2016
I'm in a wrong relationship whenever she refused me sex undecided
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by UndisputedBosom(m): 12:30pm On Jul 18, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
Yes how could he ever have time for me when he was busy with his other chick. Telling me he has so many things to do this and that. Before when he sounds jealous I thought that was cute and he loves me. Only to find out he's smothering other pucci angry

To my dead ex, I see you here everyday. I still have that break up letter you left on the table.


Take heart...but i still believe you love him wink
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 12:30pm On Jul 18, 2016
ForeverYoung197:
Yes how could he ever have time for me when he was busy with his other chick. Telling me he has so many things to do this and that. Before when he sounds jealous I thought that was cute and he loves me. Only to find out he's smothering other pucci angry

To my dead ex, I see you here everyday. I still have that break up letter you left on the table.

Like we av same ex

He is so dead nd buried to me

Sorry bou dat tho
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by ForeverYoung197(f): 12:33pm On Jul 18, 2016
halfricanadian:


Like we av same ex

He is so dead nd buried to me

Sorry bou dat tho



Men are so wicked. They are so capable doing all the stunts to make us believe that everything is true.
I read your stories. It was painful.
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 12:34pm On Jul 18, 2016
ForeverYoung197:




Men are so wicked. They are so capable doing all the stunts to make us believe that everything is true.
I read your stories. It was painful.

Me dont care any more im done nd its all over to d core

My story is a lesson for my daughters i will av with a beautiful kind hearted husband till den tho
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by ForeverYoung197(f): 12:35pm On Jul 18, 2016
UndisputedBosom:



Take heart...but i still believe you love him wink



No. Not anymore but the pain he caused me are even worse.
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by ForeverYoung197(f): 12:38pm On Jul 18, 2016
halfricanadian:


Me dont care any more im done nd its all over to d core

My story is a lesson for my daughters i will av with a beautiful kind hearted husband till den tho




Yes you will get soon what you dream for yourself.
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 12:38pm On Jul 18, 2016
ForeverYoung197:




No. Not anymore but the pain he caused me are even worse.

Exactly wen i cried nt for d love bt for d pain nd torment i was put true

He will never go un purnished in Gods presence

For d hardship nd nt heartbreak
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 12:39pm On Jul 18, 2016
ForeverYoung197:





Yes you will get soon what you dream for yourself.

Amen nd it will never ever b him Amen

A new better person
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by ForeverYoung197(f): 12:43pm On Jul 18, 2016
halfricanadian:


Exactly wen i cried nt for d love bt for d pain nd torment i was put true

He will never go un purnished in Gods presence

For d hardship nd nt heartbreak



Same here. Pain and misery are only thing left to me.
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by halfricanadian(f): 12:45pm On Jul 18, 2016
ForeverYoung197:




Same here. Pain and misery are only thing left to me.

Nope for me d love of God is wats left for me
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by ForeverYoung197(f): 12:48pm On Jul 18, 2016
halfricanadian:


Nope for me d love of God is wats left for me


Thats good for you then. Great siggy as well.
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jul 18, 2016
halfricanadian:
I promise myself my next relationship will never be a wrong one.

I'm definately 100% tru with my last relationship

I look forward to my next one
smiley , baby ??
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by UndisputedBosom(m): 12:59pm On Jul 18, 2016
ForeverYoung197:




No. Not anymore but the pain he caused me are even worse.


Time is the only healer here.....but thats what you get when you give 100% in a relationship cry
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by ForeverYoung197(f): 1:04pm On Jul 18, 2016
UndisputedBosom:



Time is the only healer here.....but thats what you get when you give 100% in a relationship cry


I gave it all. Been Two years together with that smooth criminal. Who will expect he will only leave that break up letter? He never even have the balls to say it. to my face.
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by UndisputedBosom(m): 1:12pm On Jul 18, 2016
ForeverYoung197:



I gave it all. Been Two years together with that smooth criminal. Who will expect he will only leave that break up letter? He never even have the balls to say it. to my face.


The earlier you try hard to forget him and dispose that letter the better for you and the better you get prepared for the new guy wink
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by ForeverYoung197(f): 1:18pm On Jul 18, 2016
UndisputedBosom:



The earlier you try hard to forget him and dispose that letter the better for you and the better you get prepared for the new guy wink



I will burn that breakup letter while him holding.
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by UndisputedBosom(m): 1:39pm On Jul 18, 2016
ForeverYoung197:




I will burn that breakup letter while him holding.


That'll be called murder and would warrant you spendin the rest of your life in jail and regret
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by ForeverYoung197(f): 1:41pm On Jul 18, 2016
UndisputedBosom:



That'll be called murder and would warrant you spendin the rest of your life in jail and regret



We shall see. I am not scared of his ass wink
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by bamac(m): 7:55am On Jul 19, 2016
Mariojane:
the list above is not for wrong relationship at all, it is for imprisonment. who can survive all that?
lol
Re: 7 Signs You Are In The Wrong Relationship by bamac(m): 7:56am On Jul 19, 2016
halfricanadian:


Exactly wen i cried nt for d love bt for d pain nd torment i was put true

He will never go un purnished in Gods presence

For d hardship nd nt heartbreak
sorry, ehn?

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