proeast:
And started pick'n groceries while she walked beside me, making coments like, wow they have this product here. Things are cheap here & bla bla bla to which I just nodded in agreement. She picked up one perfume and said my God, that she would have bought it if not that she wasnt having money with her, I just ignored the statement, then she left soon after saying she wants to check on her friend & I said ok. I continued shopping, filling the two baskets with goods. She later rejoined me and gossiped to me that her friend asked her if she should pick a lot of things and she replied her that there may not be a next time so she should make the most of it! I looked at her & shook my head, to which she laughed. I instantly felt pity for the guy on how they were unabashedly exploiting him even when the girl has no intention of dating him! I asked her whether they know if the guy has enough money to pay for all the items her friend was picking and she said that was there business.....

Spicylate:
Patiently waiting to read up before I drop my one thing, two things advice

kaziblake:
Proeast update fast abeg

ChemicalReaction:
Proeast, where art thou?! We're waiting for update!

proeast:
First of, let me do an intro or background analysis. I loved my ex beyond words could describe. I also tried all within my power to make her happy during our over 3 years together. She is pretty with a very good shape. Along the course of our friendship, things started falling apart, she started listening to bad advise from her friends & soon began to compare me to her friend whose fiance is in Malaysia. Despite the fact that I spend a lot on her, she was never satisfied & called me stingy! After much frustration from her(at a point she was constantly threatning to leave me). I called off the relationship but I later realized I was still very much in love with her & pleaded with her to come back to me but she refused & said she has moved on & now has a new lover!. To make matters worse, she came to visit me at home & in my presence, called someone to come & pick her up at a junction a bit far from my home. She then cut the call & told me it was her new boyfriend & even showed me a picture of him on her...

proeast:
I maintained zero contact with her, while updating good & exciting things happening in my life on facebook, while my friends will be congratulating me, she never did even though I know she must have been going through my profile but when I once posted a sad incident of my office being burgled, she was among those that consoled me on facebook! I discovered my success was making her jealous!

proeast:
Pls I'll need the advice and I hope it will be constructive. I still have feelings for the girl, despite the fact that I'm already in involved with two different girls who are showing serious interest in me. Inwardly, I know that if my ex comes begging I might still forgive her!!!

Liamm:
Okay... Proeast, you've succeeded in getting the attention of members on this board.... Come and finish up this your story so we can advice you on what to do....


takes my jotter and pen... Jots one thing or so

icedbeatz:
you upload the good and exciting things happening in your life on Facebook?!?! What the fk is wrong with your brains meeeeeeehn! how could you be doing such stupid thing that mostly girls are known to do? you're must be a fuccking joker to be "updating" your life on Facebook. I haven't seen some dumb thing like this for a while but I guess welcome back to Nairaland. Please stop that its awful and immature. Enjoy your life to the fullest, snap pics to keep memory if you can and go on publishing it to the world like you're one of the RKOI.

proeast:
Stop feeling funky bro, you just typed nonsense! What is facebook for if not to keep in touch with others and share life experiences? Kids like you thinking they know it all when its obvious they are ignorant!

iamkingzlee:
First of all, you broke the "guys code" by begging someone you had dropped for a come back Secondly, You never should have taken her serious again, the moment she started branding you "Stingy" despite all your efforts to please her, still.. she doesn't seem to appreciate, and you kept enduring with this?? Haba!!! Love they say... is blind!

proeast:
Thanks Dear

proeast:
She said I've refused to buy her anything. I said she didnt ask, then she quickly added that it was not too late, that would go and get them & left immediately. By now, it was my turn to display what I'm paying for, the guy was busy calculating what I bought, already a lady had earlier asked me jokingly if I was doing an occassion based on the large goods I bought & I smiled and said no. My ex rushed back with two perfumes when I was paying & told her i was sorry I wasnt having enough to cover that. She was embarrassed & went to keep it back. When she came back, I asked her if she could her me with some of the goods I bought to my car. She was flustered but obliged me all the same. when we got to my car, I packed the goods on the back seat and told her I would have giving them a lift but unfortunately, I need to get to somewhere first before heading home & she sahd ok. As I drove off, I observed she was looking at me & when I looked in her direction, she started pressing her phone....

Dab2mydick:
that's enough torture already... Take her back and stop these shii bro... U don't treat a lady that way. Don't u have a conscience

ellacute45:
are you really crying

proeast:
She said I've refused to buy her anything. I said she didnt ask, then she quickly added that it was not too late, that would go and get them & left immediately. By now, it was my turn to display what I'm paying for, the guy was busy calculating what I bought, already a lady had earlier asked me jokingly if I was doing an occassion based on the large goods I bought & I smiled and said no. My ex rushed back with two perfumes when I was paying & told her i was sorry I wasnt having enough to cover that. She was embarrassed & went to keep it back. When she came back, I asked her if she could her me with some of the goods I bought to my car. She was flustered but obliged me all the same. when we got to my car, I packed the goods on the back seat and told her I would have giving them a lift but unfortunately, I need to get to somewhere first before heading home & she sahd ok. As I drove off, I observed she was looking at me & when I looked in her direction, she started pressing her phone....

Dab2mydick:
I can't really do such to a girl... Dis story pained me, i just believe it's not true

Dab2mydick:
that's enough torture already... Take her back and stop these shii bro... U don't treat a lady that way. Don't u have a conscience

icedbeatz:
Sorry bro after all in your brilliant mind and perception Facebook is "only" meant for publishing the good and exciting things happening in our lives, btw if by now you're not smart enough to know what to do with the girl from when she started threatening to leave you for Mr. Turkey till when she was in the middle of gold digging operations with her partner in crime that seeks advice from her tutor then once again sorry bro. Enjoy yourself though.

proeast:
She said I've refused to buy her anything. I said she didnt ask, then she quickly added that it was not too late, that would go and get them & left immediately. By now, it was my turn to display what I'm paying for, the guy was busy calculating what I bought, already a lady had earlier asked me jokingly if I was doing an occassion based on the large goods I bought & I smiled and said no. My ex rushed back with two perfumes when I was paying & told her i was sorry I wasnt having enough to cover that. She was embarrassed & went to keep it back. When she came back, I asked her if she could her me with some of the goods I bought to my car. She was flustered but obliged me all the same. when we got to my car, I packed the goods on the back seat and told her I would have giving them a lift but unfortunately, I need to get to somewhere first before heading home & she sahd ok. As I drove off, I observed she was looking at me & when I looked in her direction, she started pressing her phone....