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Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by serah88: 2:06pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Today is my immediate ex birthday, and I've been in confusion over whether to call or send an SMS wishing him a "happy birthday." Naturally, this ought not to be a trouble for me because it will cost little or nothing to do so, but it's because our relationship of almost 4years ended in a very ugly note. Whenever the thoughts of the drama that culminated in our separation come to mind, I see myself cussing the entire time we spent together. All was well with us in our relationship until the time he was prepared to leave and he became very funny. He treated me like a piece of rag, like I never meant a thing to him. Because I loved him so much, it was a very difficult decision for me to let him go. However, when it became obvious that ugly situation couldn't be remedied, I had to submit to his wish to leave. It has been 7months now that we separated. He managed to call me in March when it was my birthday. Yeah! he managed because at the time I was mourning the death of a friend. So, he called to find out who the person was and used the opportunity to wish me. Today's his birthday. Since I woke up, I have been struggling within myself whether or not to wish him. Friends, should I or I should just ignore him? |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by EmperorLee(m): 2:07pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Just Do It.... |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by IHATEPUZZY(m): 2:07pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
I'll say no to call, BT u can send him a normal birthday message not the sweet ones ooo |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by HungerBAD: 2:08pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Call or text him. Shows the grown up you are. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by sinaj(f): 2:12pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
U still have his no? U quite strong emotionally. Just txt him nd wish him well since he did d xme thing on ur day. It's just that situations like this triggers memories u ought nt to remember. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Nobody: 2:13pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Text him already. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Dotwillis1(m): 2:13pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
if you have enough airtime to, then go ahead Lmao @ immediate ex How many exes yhu got honey |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by mizzbouqui(f): 2:15pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
You can also manage to call him, moreover he might be thinking you are missing him but you have to find a way to let him know you are happy without him but how will I still have such guy's number, anyway I've never experienced a heartbreak |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Nobody: 2:15pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
He would be expeting ur call or txt, judging from ur story he never valued u.. So dont send anytin or call him today.. If u must do that, do it in later days.. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Spicylate(f): 2:19pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
I would send a heart warming message. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by MidasTouche01(m): 2:19pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
sinaj: The past is meant to remain where it belongs In the past |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by agitator: 2:19pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
hmmmmmmmmm missing him |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Vendoor(f): 2:20pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Text only... |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by gsley: 2:20pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Do u hv feelings for d yr ex? |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Just text him. HBD, simple as that. Nothing else |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Nobody: 2:24pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
It's better you avoid him |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by correctyourself(m): 2:26pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
serah88: Please pay attention to your future/move formard and forget about this guy, what ever you do now because he is your ex, to me it means you are toying with your future, understant that i am not insulting you but that is my filling about this situation, i had a similar situation but thank God i understant there was not need forcing myself, hence moving ahead was the best option, thinking about him may not let you concentrate and to forge accept with somsbody that would be your life partner. thanks. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by vizkiz: 2:27pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Don't call or text him. Ignore him totally he will call you and ask why you couldn't call or text then you give your answer straight and clear. With "furck you" 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by HDee(m): 2:54pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
vizkiz:Did you listen to the other guy side of the story before concluding this way? So, you only believed what she said, and gave her this advice? OP... Gladly send the message like you're sending it to a normal friend. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by rosalieene(f): 2:56pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
I can relate....
A text would do |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by SmellingAnus(m): 3:01pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Some guys are fortunate, even after an ugly break up she still remembers his birthday while some other guys their girl friends don't even remember their birthday even while they are still dating... Anyway just send him a text... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Don't! Forget about him totally. Abi would you keep sending him birthday wishes till when? He's gone baby, you're gone too and you gats be strong.. For me. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Daniel2289(m): 3:09pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
From d way ur story reads, it seems dat u are still having feelings for dis ur ex. I want to ask u dis question: if given an opportunity,would u like to go back to him If Yes then text him. But if No, don't text. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Daniel2289(m): 3:14pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
discoprophet: One like for u. I concur wit u. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by ThinkingOutLoud(m): 3:16pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
DONT! Keep it moving. simple! 1 Like |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by argon500: 3:18pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Just do it for record purpose.. I know how it feels but trust me, it costs you nothing. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by shulamitewoman(f): 3:24pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
I guess u still have feelings for him..cos if u dnt u wouldn't even remember his birthday. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by olac21(m): 3:43pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
It appears you are still single with the way you still miss him!anyway-a message will do if I were you! |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Cornerstone001: 3:45pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
A text message is okay. |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Daniel2289:Boss.. I loyal! |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by pedrilo: 3:49pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
wetin concern me wit my ex bday na? |
Re: Should I Wish Him A Happy Birthday? by Nobody: 4:58pm On Jul 18, 2016 |
Just send him a simple HBD Text. |
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