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I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by Nobody: 10:11am On Jul 21, 2016 |
Well, it's not really a problem but it's a problem. I really don't know what to call the subject so I called it that. Now, the thing is I see every lady(girl) as either way to old or way too young, this has been my issue for a while now. Let me explain my history so you can understand what I'm going through: I'm a 23years old guy, who is already working (with Bsc), while I was in school (university), all the ladies I dated were older than I was, even NYSC was worst, as the corpers I dated were far older. I hide my age up and down. Now that I'm working, it's a different case entirely as we all know our age in my place of work, and looking out for ladies in my new area, I perceive most of the ladies as either underage or too old to date my age. Please help me out. Mature comment pls Thanks a lot in advance |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by PEPPERified: 10:17am On Jul 21, 2016 |
I was in your shoes. I only related to ladies way older than me. and ladies who were more than 2 years younger seemed underaged. I discovered it was because I grew up really quickly, (both physically and mentally), and at various times, what went through my head was different from that of my peers. in relationships, you end up hurting people for no cause. when they try to get more serious, you escape (knowing that because of your real age you cant keep the pace of their involvement) thereby, breaking hearts. HOW TO OVERCOME IT. First, tell yourself the truth about what you need in a relationship. whether yo want to be serious or you just want to flirt. Second, come up straight. Tell the lady your age... I know you fear that most of them would run away (call you a small boy), but its more satisfying when you have nothing to hide. Third, be ready to take shit. having dated older girls, you'd find younger girls stubborn, disrespectful and unnecessarily difficult. (that's the real lady's world). 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by Nobody: 10:20am On Jul 21, 2016 |
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Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by Nobody: 10:24am On Jul 21, 2016 |
^ I hope when you removed the shoe you had socks on? ![]() OP, I am sorry, but I have to say this. You have crafted an imaginary woman in your subconscious wish makes you see every other woman below your taste. The only solution I have for you is getting a lady you are younger than with the gap of two and forget the age issue you have in your mind. |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by firstking01(m): 10:25am On Jul 21, 2016 |
So, are you tryna tell me that you can date a girl of 20-21?? |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by happyjuliet(f): 10:29am On Jul 21, 2016 |
You really need help like seriously, there is radio program every Mon-Friday (102.3fm) Time 6:10pm to 7pm with IBK and Moses talk to dem am sure u will get ur answers there. |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by Nobody: 10:33am On Jul 21, 2016 |
happyjuliet: Do you know that not everybody listen to radio, if at all he's a radio guy, you have not done enough justice. You put the radio frequency without the location of the radio station. I hope you know not everybody resides where you live? |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by Nobody: 10:56am On Jul 21, 2016 |
firstking01: The thing is I find it difficult to accurately assume a girls age |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by Nobody: 10:59am On Jul 21, 2016 |
happyjuliet: I'm not really a fan of radio, I find it very boring. Thank you tho for the contribution |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by firstking01(m): 11:09am On Jul 21, 2016 |
ambidextrous:Hmmm, so, hw do you get to knw the one you dated in the past are older than you according to ur post?? |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by NevetsIbot(m): 11:22am On Jul 21, 2016 |
well.... Ive never dated a younger girl... I just enjoy myself and hide my age. No big deal |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by Nobody: 11:55am On Jul 21, 2016 |
firstking01: That's obvious, after we start dating, private matters become known like waec result, the girl's little brother's age, school I'd card, etc. For instance, my lady of NYSC, I got to know about how old she is when she gave me the wedding card of her smallest sister who is also a graduate. |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
NevetsIbot:But the things, I now (after NYSC) find it difficult to approach a lady I facially feel is way older than me. School and NYSC made things easier then, since you all feel you are in the same level, but now that there is no "group" "class"-level , I feel i'm thrown into the sea looking for pin. |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by NevetsIbot(m): 12:08pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
ambidextrous:i suggest you dive in at being just friends first... Get to know her age before going for a relationship. Many girls who are young look older than their age... So... You can't guess for sure what their age is. Just let em know your real age. Whoever will stay in your life will stay. You have a choice tho |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by Nobody: 12:46pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
NevetsIbot:Thanks, this really help |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by happyjuliet(f): 2:07pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
[quote author=ambidextrous post=47749376] I'm not really a fan of radio, I find it very boring. Thank you tho for the contribution[/quo his not necessary u talk to dem on air naa dey can have a little chat abt d program or u send dem a text |
Re: I Have A Problem With Women (PLS HELP!!) by NevetsIbot(m): 5:08pm On Jul 21, 2016 |
ambidextrous:you're welcome bro. 1 Like |
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