MisterPresident:
Not to make this a tribal issues, but please is the wife from the south-west?

The answer to this question will help with a research I'm doing and I will share my views once you answer this question.

Thanks.

viver1:
Itz nt d marriage that made her leave. She is a thief. D husbd just ddnt see. Y ddnt she go with only her belongings?

snakie86:
They dated for over one and half years. The friend has been the one picking the wife's phone since on Monday whenever the line was available.

The friend is married too but the husband told me yesterday that a friend to the lady's husband has told him before that he should warn his wife not to be discussing their marriage with the friend. It led to argument between them with the wife maintaining that she doesn't discuss anything with her friend.

The wife is not a full house wife, she works in a flexible environment and she do come home way early before the husband

thorpido:
Didn't they court?The seem not to be compatible.
However,they both seem not to be working on their marriage.Even as an introvert,the man ought to come out of his shell now that he has a wife at home.A married man must talk!

If you can reach out to the wife,tell her to come back and talk to both of them.I'm sure their families will talk to them too. I think the wife has the bigger issue.Why did she decide to marry someone she really doesn't fancy?A lot of women don't like extremely quiet and introverted men and often you can't change such men.You just have to decide as a lady that it is what you can live with which might not be the case.

That friend you saw with the wife is a sign she doesn't keep good company and she is like her friends.

MisterPresident:
Not to make this a tribal issues, but please is the wife from the south-west?

The answer to this question will help with a research I'm doing and I will share my views once you answer this question.

Thanks.

Kakamorufu:
thats what happen when two individual did not do the courting the way its supposed to be. Another thing is that they might have been rushed into the marriage. Its well with the man, if his wife ever come back, he should try spice up the marriage. Don't dull

Eyop:
The wife still has unfinished business outside. The matrimony is like caging her and not allowing her explore the goodies she's missing out there. Try have a man to man talk with the husband and let him tell you in details his own side of the story to enable you compare.

mrwonlasewonie:
Op i have a feeling the so called saucy friend knows her where about so what you will do is to pet her,beg her and calm her down. If she talks anyhow ignore all that.just find a way to soften her heart then when you have gotten her attention and trust ask her about her friends where about or who will know of her whereabouts; you will see ,she'll tell you

YOU'RE a man na.you guys know your ways around with women especially calming them down. Just try it.if possible buy something for her and give your wife to give her so that she won't think you're trying to make passes at her.you can give your wife money to buy anything she feels a woman might like. It could be hand bag,cliche purse, neklace or Ankara.just do it to make her divulge information

jusRadical:





Calm down? For what.

Either the woman is pursuing something or her friend wants to scatter her marriage. She is not interested in the marriage.

mrwonlasewonie:
hen let the man find the woman first so that the family of the lady will not hold the man responsible for her disappearance.remember the father handed the daughter over to the man on the wedding day to love protect cherish bla bla bla.so when she's found he (husband) should ask her do you still want the marriage, if she says no then the man has done his best he can then inform her parents and wash hands off her matter. It's even less complicated since kids aren't yet involved

jusRadical:




You are right but remember that the wife left on her own accord.

The man is not fed up with the union from his reaction so taking her to her parents will be dicey.

The woman I guess has something up her sleeve.

byvan03:
I will advise you to mind your business and let family members sort the issue. Only those inside the marriage know where the rain started beating them, just forget everything you think you know. Only the insiders ever know the true story.

BellaElla:
Oga morning o. In my opinion I believe you are too involved in their marriage. Firstly it is only an irresponsible wife that visits neighbours everyday without reason. You and ur wife shouldn't have let it get that frequent. Its not a behaviour to encouraged and breeds over familiarity and disrespect. Another thing is when she started complaining about her marriage to u people, you should have known the kind of woman she was. That woman can set u up, she can cause issues between u and ur wife . She is not a wise person to associate with. However its not late to disassociate urself. Distance urself from their issues. Stop calling the woman. E no concern u. Let the man and his family sort it out. It would surprise u that when they are talking about their wahala or name would be mentioned. Over familiarity between neighbours dey always bring insult.

jusRadical:



I beg to differ.

It is not about courting very well. It is about honesty, truthfullness, straightforwardness, and being real.

My parents neither courted nor knew each before the day of introduction.