foolinlove:


No, it's because women are seen as sexual objects. Patriarchy.

Their entire personalities are judged on dress sense. Not so for men.

Men go topless - hot weather.

Women go topless - slvts who deserve to be raped.

itseintel:




Loooooool.....

You still haven't answered my questions..... it's not that complicated to give an explanation of a term you have been referencing all morning...

You can recommend texts on human sociology for me to look through, that could be a great way to start knowing a lot within the context of the last thousand years


Is it not amusing that you had all morning to lecture us on the the emotional,logical and psychological aspects of cleavage exposure and it's embodiments; yet you cannot spare just few lines to explain these 'patriarchal thoughts' that have littered almost every post you have made all morning... how encompassing,inspiring and thoughtful of you...


Be careful of what you read on Google.... it has always been an acquaintance, but never my friend..
kudos those who drink from your golden cup of wisdom!!!!

Tenkobos:
If your fashion sense makes you dress like a masqurade then you're one as long as you're in that attire and if I have idle N10 I will dash you. Do you really expect me to approach a man in military attire to look into his soul to know if he's truly a military man inside before I start obeying his commands?

Your dress sense speaks a volume about you.

Environment(society) dictates what we wear.

There are places you can go nude and nobody will even notice but you will be arrested for indecent exposure in some places.

Bottom line is, you've the right to wear what you want but you have no right to tell people how to see or treat you.

That's their freedom and you can't take it from them..

IamLEGEND1:
are you being serious right now?

So let's say two guys show up for an interview,one dressed in shorts and a T-shirt,the other in a suit & tie. Tell me,do you think the T-shirt guy stands a chance?

You have your home,you can go topless, bottomless.... headless, if you so desire. No one is gonna stop you. but society has lived forward,we're no longer in the stone age. so if you're stepping out,you try to uphold the standard of modesty of ur locality. it's that simple.
And you'll agree that women are the most likely to bend those rules, hence why the spotlight is focused on them.

foolinlove:


Freedom does not include treating people badly.

foolinlove:


I always just pay my own way. It's fairer.

And also, its protecting myself. I know if a guy invites me out and pays for me, he will expect sex. Then he'll get mad when I don't sleep with him.

When I refuse sex there is a chance he will rape me out of anger. It's so sad that women think like this.

As if him being nice is payment for my body. Another symptom of patriarchy and rape culture.

foolinlove:


It happened in old tribes. Kids weren't harmed. Babies see breasts constantly when they're feeding. Or are you against breastfeeding because bobbs are for sex only?

Breasts are not a sexual organ like a d. They're secondary characteristics, like facial hair on men.

You missed the entire point of my post. Well done.

KingCheezyPuff:
Nope. You'll turn me stupid like you

foolinlove:


Dress codes apply to everyone. But dress codes are more strictly regulated for women.

But socially, only dress codes exist for women. Women's personalities are judged entirely on their dress. Men do not suffer same.

I do not presume men can control their sexual thoughts in any situation. What I am saying is sexual thoughts are the problem of the person thinking, not the person they're thinking about.

Women wearing niqab still get raped. Dress can't prevent rape or sexual thought.

There is no excuse for mistreating people based on their state of dress.

IamLEGEND1:
...

Haha .....I didn't mean it

foolinlove:

Dress codes exist everywhere. But dress codes for women are more stringent.

foolinlove:


You don't need to tell me anything. You need to STOP telling me. You wouldn't seek to "educate" a man the same way.

foolinlove:


https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Patriarchy

Patriarchal thoughts are those that support privileges of men at the expense of women.

Both genders reinforce patriarchy. I am not attacking men, I am attacking an invalid social system.

KingCheezyPuff:
Haha .....I didn't mean it

aaaaawwww that's so sweet.
She cares about my feelings.
my mission is almost complete

#ProceedingToPhase3

iLegend:
Baby KingCheezyPuff, what are you doing here? Dress up let's go. I have an appointment.

Dont you get tired switching between 2 monikers in 1 day like this?

KingCheezyPuff:
Dont you get tired switching between 2 monikers in 1 day like this?

iLegend:


I don't know what you're talking about. If I want double monikers you can't even detect, so pullover.

you wanna bet? I watch Sherlock Holmes! I bet you don't even know who that is?
.....a detective from a show

Tenkobos:
If your fashion sense makes you dress like a masqurade then you're one as long as you're in that attire and if I have idle N10 I will dash you. Do you really expect me to approach a man in military attire to look into his soul to know if he's truly a military man inside before I start obeying his commands?

Your dress sense speaks a volume about you.

Environment(society) dictates what we wear.

There are places you can go nude and nobody will even notice but you will be arrested for indecent exposure in some places.

Bottom line is, you've the right to wear what you want but you have no right to tell people how to see or treat you.

That's their freedom and you can't take it from them..

IamLEGEND1:
You think we're the same person?

I know so. And yer gonna confess

iLegend:


I have heard of that, but I don't watch moves. The only one I was forced to watch by my ex was Avatar and Johnny English.

Ah ha!!!See here!! See the way you take turns answering!!!!
....dear guy why must you pretend?

iLegend:


Send me your Facebook name (if it please you). I'm not wooing you, so get that outta ya mind. I'm your friend.

Oh,yes sir, I won't let the thought cross my mind again (sarcasm)
.....Anyway, I don't have Facebook and I don't see how it's needed?
.....ain't this a social site?

chigoizie7:



Says who?

Go over my previous posts, I talk to men more than women.

I only try to educate women when they kinda have a certain stereotypes about men and how they behave.

I am a bad guy, but I always try to do things the right way, but I still envy thousands of guys who are better than me.

Tenkobos:
Oh really? It is obvious you haven't considered the terrible effects indecent exposure on the streets and tv are having on little children who are too young to be viewing.

Are you treating them nicely?

itseintel:



Hope you read the feminist theory attached to this social system (which i disagree is functional in this age) ... was the bias towards the female gender alone?

If not,why are you one sided?

This one sidedness is the cause of the modern feminist's mis-direction!!

People in this lane are sinking ships from past experience,who would rather blame others than themselves. They deprive themselves the room to be better by staying bitter, since they look outward rather than inward.

They don't look for the good outside since they are blinded, but will unconsciously reveal thier embittered souls in thier fight for a perceived sanity. ..

Try not to be one,they learn of the deepened injury when it's terminal.... Adios!!

foolinlove:


Yes. Educate me on my personal experience of patriarchy! You know better of my experiences and the experiences of other women.

Oahray:
You haven't answered my question. Would you view two different presidential candidates the same way when one dresses like a ceo of a corporate organization and the other dresses like a drug-addicted gangster?
So how is it you say men aren't judged by the way they dress?

You are trying to argue that a person's dressing doesn't matter and should never attract negative opinion. I am saying you are wrong.

Again, having sexual thoughts isn't the reason for discrimination based on dressing. I wonder why you aren't getting it.

Rape? Lemme tell you something all of you are trying hard to deny. Since time immemorial, there have always been persons without much self-control. That is why rape exists at all. But it's not the sole reason it has become so prevalent (take note that a reason is not necessarily an excuse).

The world glorifies sex, the media is awash with it. I've seen a matchbox with a female in a sexy pose. Tell me what that has to do with match sticks. These things matter.

When you dress with all parts showing, you might not get attacked because whoever gets aroused has self-control or because the conditions aren't favourable; but you may have contributed to the rape of the next person the brute catches in a favourable condition.

chigoizie7:



How sure are u about that?

I don't, I am not perfect.

I just want u to stop relating ur experiences to others. Or to start influencing them