Rexhenrex:
Thats a very illogical thing to do and it makes no sense in trying it on your partner only if and only if you suspect them cheating on you.but aside that why do you need testing your spouse when they have never done anything to arouse the contempt of your trust for them....an ex did that by sending her bestie to try and know if am loyal to her by dating me. trust me the bestie sold her out by actually dating me and it tore my bae apart but she cost it and i dated her bestie without an iota of pity,because it didn't warrant it because i loved her but it hurt me because she had doubts of me. Everyone has a weak point no need testing there loyalty till the need warrants so to me its a capital NO trying this is using your own hand in ruining your relationship because when your spouse find out it might not go down well.

Vanillaskin:
I'll love him more if he passes with flying colors

Rexhenrex:
Thats a very illogical thing to do and it makes no sense in trying it on your partner only if and only if you suspect them cheating on you.but aside that why do you need testing your spouse when they have never done anything to arouse the contempt of your trust for them....an ex did that by sending her bestie to try and know if am loyal to her by dating me. trust me the bestie sold her out by actually dating me and it tore my bae apart but she cost it and i dated her bestie without an iota of pity,because it didn't warrant it because i loved her but it hurt me because she had doubts of me. Everyone has a weak point no need testing there loyalty till the need warrants so to me its a capital NO trying this is using your own hand in ruining your relationship because when your spouse find out it might not go down well.

Rexhenrex:
sorry to mention you but please i wanna grasp something here and i will be very well honoured if you answer me,thanks in advance.

1,was it that you didn't like your b.f that you fell for the cousin?

2,And also did you know prior before you fell for the cousin that your b.f sent him because if you didn't know before accepting his cousin then you never loved him

3,and how did your b.f act about you and his cousin rolling together?

4,lastly what made you accept the cousin?

Cutehector:
Some of us like to play dirty games in our relationships, our insecurities have gone to the extreme we now set trap for our partners to see if they would ever cheat on us.



Some go as far as creating a new account and adding their hubby on social media either whatsapp, bbm, or whichever disguising under a very sexy lady or guy to entrap their partner to see if he/she will pass the fidelity test.



Now I put this foward to guys and ladies out there, do you think such measure is efficient to know the extent to which your man/woman really loves you?



Do you think it's a bad/good measure?




Do you also think you can forgive him/her should you happen to be "tested" and you found out?




Cc: lalasticlala, mynd44

halfricanadian:
It hurts i just move on somethings u dont av to fix them or dey get damaged d more just leave it nd move on

halfricanadian:
It hurts i just move on somethings u dont av to fix them or dey get damaged d more just leave it nd move on

BlizzydoDo:
I cnt test my partner, & I'll feel very hurt if I find out.

Exponental:
I won't try such... Trust is heavy! Easy to break, difficult to build. Many relationship lacks it, so why will I compromise what I have......kojoooor!

halfricanadian:


Or u went to her bestie ursef nd she found out

Which girl will send her bestie bloody liars

njiasi30:
It's nt a Gd measure to prove his/her love.... What ppl don't know is dat u don't play with s/o heart and feelings. We don't plan to fall in love,it comes naturally.

Hmmm, I can't put my love one to text, to avoid story dat touches d heart.

Rexhenrex:
normally i don't reply mentions but i will make an exception so as to clarify things..

According to what the bestie narrated to me,she said my bae actually said i was too good to be true because i never disturbed her for sex and all that. so she wanted to know if it was because i don't find her attractive enough so she liased(hope i spelt it well) with her bestie whom i didn't even know was her friend to get to me so as to truly find out if i was pretending and hiding whom i was to her and unfortunately the bestie fell in love with my personality as she was tagging very close to me and finally told me the truth and to pay back i dated the bestie...ma if you still think am lying, truth is u have the right to think such but last thing i will do is to try to convince you when am sayin the truth. have a nice night rest and dream sweet.

And btw i don't lie

halfricanadian:


Its a lie d bestie lied to get u cos she knew nd cud sense u dont even love d said gf d bestie as heard bou u nd all u do she used all d information to get u

Bt dats nt biggie am sure ur gf is doin berra off without u

U can take d bestie

halfricanadian:


Its a lie d bestie lied to get u cos she knew nd cud sense u dont even love d said gf d bestie as heard bou u nd all u do she used all d information to get u

Bt dats nt biggie am sure ur gf is doin berra off without u

U can take d bestie

Cutehector:
ur ex must be one hell of a stvpid boyfrnd. Just look at how he let a pretty girl go just becaus of his stvpid insecurities

rheether:
My ex tried it with me. He asked his cousin to woo me and lo and behold I fell for his cousin instantly. We are in the our second now and the relationship has been worth it.

rheether:
My ex tried it with me. He asked his cousin to woo me and lo and behold I fell for his cousin instantly. We are in the our second now and the relationship has been worth it.

schumastic:


sharap you failed her test by dating her friend so don't justify it.

Vanillaskin:
I'll love him more if he passes with flying colors