I come from Anguilla but I came to Nigeria to school at OAU, Ife. I fell in love with a girl and we started a relationship that was so abusive that I had to quit after two years.

During this period, I couldn't keep a friend (male or female) because Miss wanted all the attention. I was studying medicine but she wouldn't understand that I needed space to read. I liked to stroll (alone) in the evening to clear my head but Miss always insisted to follow me and she always had her way because she would scream and be unreasonable.

Every argument always ended up in a fight and when I noticed she always wanted to win all argument, I avoided arguments. She hated Muslims, criticized me for being a traditionalist (even though I told her before the relationship became more serious) and was very troublesome. She once insulted a girl on FB for daring to call me "Dear" while wishing me a happy birthday.

I couldn't pick what to wear. She always picked for me. I am a very simple person who liked to wear clothes that I find comfortable. She wanted me to wear suits and ties and jalamia in the heat.

She was very nice to me and very hardworking but she was trouble. Most of her demands were unreasonable. There were neighbours I couldn't greet and neighbours I could greet.

So many other terrible issues. I am so grateful to be free from her. Who else has stories similar to mine.

I don't need to read ur drama....



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HMMM interesting, thank jah you finally left her. i have never bein in any serious relationship, though the ladies IV met wanted something serious as in real relationship with me but im not just ready. i dnt even know when i will be ready.

Well, it's past now. On to the next one. And please, don't go all 'puppy love' 'please you my mistress' in the next.

Estharfabian:

What happened

TrapQueen77:
I don't need to read ur drama....


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Why

TrapQueen77:
I don't need to read ur drama....


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Can we be friends?

247Potential:
Well, it's past now. On to the next one. And please, don't go all 'puppy love' 'please you my mistress' in the next.

Thank you, bro. Well, nothing is happening again. I am facing my job squarely. Friends, yes. But girlfriend/fiancée/wife, no for now.

[quote author=TrapQueen77 post=47839238]I don't need to read ur drama....
after reading and commenting? smh...


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Op you are her bitch! for you to let her treat you that way, your self esteem must be -0 shio!

I don't know if my gf is abusive or not cos I am in a long distance relationship but I know for sure she's an attention monger cos she wants me to be on the phone with her 24/7/366

Opistorincos:
I don't know if my gf is abusive or not cos I am in a long distance relationship but I know for sure she's an attention monger cos she wants me to be on the phone with her 24/7/366

That is one of the signs.

Interesting story




U lucky to b out

sinaj:
Interesting story




U lucky to b out

Thank you very much.

Ever been in an abusive relationship?

sinaj:
Interesting story




U lucky to b out

Tru

LordofNairaland:


That is one of the signs.

I will have to agree with you on this

LordofNairaland:


Thank you very much.

Ever been in an abusive relationship?

nah



I evn avoid authoritarian or strict guys like plague let alone dating them.

2BB4CB3E:
op!
please tell me that her ass was big
please!!!!

Yes. But, bro, she was poison, trust me. She had serious insecurities. But she was very hardworking and very caring.

You will enjoy her hard works but she will stifle you.

. make i book space 1st...

now back to ur stowri.

sinaj:
nah



I evn avoid authoritarian or strict guys like plague let alone dating them.

Good!! Everyone has a fault but when somebody is always trying to change your faults while blind to theirs, then, there would be trouble.

I have noticed one thing with abusive people. In all my life as a psychiatrist who has a solid background in psychology, abusive people always look for whom to blame for their shortcomings. So, if you are unlucky to get into a relationship with someone with complex issues, you will always get the blames. They never take blames.

2BB4CB3E:

No offence bro!! but after i saw "yes" every other thing you said was blah blah blah blah blah
me and big yansh eh lmao

Smh...

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2BB4CB3E:

No offence bro!! but after i saw "yes" every other thing you said was blah blah blah blah blah
me and big yansh eh lmao

Na wah for you ooo!!

No, But If She Was Trouble And Also Made Unreasonable Demands, Then In What Way Was She Nice To You By Fvcking You Well?

cezarman:
No, But If She Was Trouble And Also Made Unreasonable Demands, Then In What Way Was She Nice To You By Fvcking You Well?

She will cook, pester you to eat, be sweet but once you ask for a little freedom like "can I stroll down the road alone?" face will change. You will be hearing stuffs like "I feel like strolling too. Let us walk together"

She was very caring to me personally but she never wanted me to be free. Just the two of us.

Sorry about all that. There ppl like that actually though I think you should have come out all clear to her about how her attitude annoy/frustrate you. There is nothing as risky as having a troublesome/possessive woman as bae .Sometimes you doubt if she has a got a working mind for herself. You can't just predict the height of her mischief.

mine! the guy was always accusing me of cheating! any call i receive am a cheat! i come late am cheating! i forget about something am cheating was really bad! painful part was that he was a boring person but i really loved him so i managed till i met my present and i left his lame sorry ass!

TrapQueen77:
I don't need to read ur drama....



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Lol.. afta readin the whole drama

Nay