I don't know if this is age related but am so tired to the extent i cant live. I hate everything i do and anything everyone else does. Pls what is wrong wit me?

Warning: I wont reply u if i dont see a point in what u say or if u insult me.

I smell suicide attempt...A real candidate for BH boys

gabinogem:
I smell suicide attempt...A real candidate for BH boys

Dats true. Have thought abt it once

But not anymore, am passed that

Age related?How old are you?
What is it about your environment that you hate?

thorpido:
Age related?How old are you?
What is it about your environment that you hate?

I hate it when things don't go perfectly as planned

Could you be depressed? One of the symptom is a lack of enjoyment in anything, even things we previously liked, a mental exhaustion where even thinking becomes to burdensome.

Have you tried Cognitive Behavioural Therapy?

shaybebaby:
Could you be depressed? One of the symptom is a lack of enjoyment in anything, even things we previously liked, a mental exhaustion where even thinking becomes to burdensome.

Have you tried Cognitive Behavioural Therapy?

I like something for 5mins next second the feeling disappears

Hmmm...this is serious.

You're showing signs of depression.Have you tried to get therapy?

osesology:
Hmmm...this is serious.

what is?

na depression be that ooooooooooooooo

thorpido:
You're showing signs of depression.Have you tried to get therapy?

U mean professional therapy?

Hiroto:
I like something for 5mins next second the feeling disappears

Have you always felt this way as long as you can remember or was it something that gradually set it?

Either ways, it appears you are aware of these feelings and don't like being subject to them. Which is a positive step.

Hiroto:
what is?

The fact that you hate everything and anything around u...isn't that serious enough? hia!

Hiroto:
Dats true. Have thought abt it once

seriously, u neeed a shrink... I could help but it will cost u.

shaybebaby:

Have you always felt this way as long as you can remember or was it something that gradually set it?

Either ways, it appears you are aware of these feelings and don't like being subject to them. Which is a positive step.

I dont know how to answer this but i feel God has taken away my life purpose but why?

osesology:

The fact that you hate everything and anything around u...isn't that serious enough? hia!

Its not a fact. I am hardly impressed due to this situation

gabinogem:
seriously, u neeed a shrink... I could help but it will cost u.

shrink? What do u mean?

Hiroto:
I like something for 5mins next second the feeling disappears

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) though the duration isn't friendly but is the best for you.


A typical CBT programme would consist of
face-to-face sessions between patient and
therapist, made up of 6-18 sessions of around
an hour each with a gap of a 1–3 weeks
between sessions. This initial programme
might be followed by some booster sessions,
for instance after one month and three
months. CBT has also been found to be
effective if patient and therapist type in real
time to each other over computer links.


Try calming your nerves and relax your body and don't always get worried over issues that aren't relevant and even if they are.



If you don't work gets something doing. So that much energy will be directed towards task accomplishment rather than worrying your self over nothing. After all everything in life is vanity.

The rich and the poor under goes such.

May Allah help us.

Kagarko:





Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) though the duration isn't friendly but is the best for you.


A typical CBT programme would consist of
face-to-face sessions between patient and
therapist, made up of 6-18 sessions of around
an hour each with a gap of a 1–3 weeks
between sessions. This initial programme
might be followed by some booster sessions,
for instance after one month and three
months. CBT has also been found to be
effective if patient and therapist type in real
time to each other over computer links.


Try calming your nerves and relax your body and don't always get worried over issues that aren't relevant and even if they are.



If you don't work gets something doing. So that much energy will be directed towards task accomplishment rather than worrying your self over nothing. After all everything in life is vanity.

The rich and the poor under goes such.

May Allah help us.

I think i think too much about things

Hiroto:
shrink? What do u mean?

a psychiatrist or therapist who can help u analyse ur mental state appropriately.

BTW, how old are u?

gabinogem:
a psychiatrist or therapist who can help u analyse ur mental state appropriately.

BTW, how old are u?

eighteen

Hiroto:
I dont know how to answer this but i feel God has taken away my life purpose but why?

I recall your answer to someone else on here about how you feel when things don't go the way plan.
I think that feeling is helplessness and that you have no control over what happens in your life.

It can be very overwhelming and might I suggest where to start.

First, I will not denounce your having faith in higher being, it is very much useful and can be comforting. BUT, remove that thought that you do not have a part to play in shaping your life and that things are preordained.

Yes we do not have a choice in some things that happen to us, that is life.

However, we DO have a choice in our response to what happens. And there lies the remedy to that feeling of helplessness. People aren't just happy, people choose to be happy and this can be achieved wherever you find yourself.

Realise this, in whatever situations you find yourself, there is one constant and that is YOU. You can control, your thoughts, your actions and your emotions even if you cannot fully control events that happen.

Exercise that power you have, and even though it doesn't mean negativity will disappear overnight, you will have a more positive outlook towards life and everything in it. It is all about choice.

shaybebaby:

I recall your answer to someone else on here about how you feel when things don't go the way plan.
I think that feeling is helplessness and that you have no control over what happens in your life.

It can be very overwhelming and might I suggest where to start.

First, I will not denounce your having faith in higher being, it is very much useful and can be comforting. BUT, remove that thought that you do not have a part to play in shaping your life and that things are preordained.

Yes we do not have a choice in some things that happen to us, that is life.

However, we DO have a choice in our response to what happens. And there lies the remedy to that feeling of helplessness. People aren't just happy, people choose to be happy and this can be achieved wherever you find yourself.

Realise this, in whatever situations you find yourself, there is one constant and that is YOU. You can control, your thoughts, your actions and your emotions even if you cannot fully control events that happen.

Exercise that power you have, and even though it doesn't mean negativity will disappear overnight, you will have a more positive outlook towards life and everything in it. It is all about choice.

Thanks very much this is helpful

Hiroto:
eighteen

don't worry u will certainly outgrow such...

Hiroto:
Thanks very much this is helpful

I'm happy you found it helpful. If you ever need to talk or vent, give me a mention. I sometimes get wrapped up in life as well but I will always find some time to share some uplifting words.
You are going to be just fine.

shaybebaby:

I'm happy you found it helpful. If you ever need to talk or vent, give me a mention. I sometimes get wrapped up in life as well but I will always find some time to share some uplifting words.
You are going to be just fine.

I will do

Hiroto:
U mean professional therapy?

Yea,professional therapy.

You hate everything

But you like nairaland

KillerBeauty:
You hate everything

But you like nairaland

It depends on ur definition of like

Feelings of disinterest in virtually everything occurs normally once in a while.
This happens mostly when one is under pressure of work or feels he has not achieved much.
Boredom can also manifest the way you feel.

You have to realise that everything will not work out as you want them.
Ever heard of the saying "Every disappointment is a blessing?"
I think it means there is a better plan or strategy than we had, which will soon work in our favour.

You may have to take time off work or away from your environment.
Visit some close friends and hang out with them.