In a romantic relationship,who should offer/show more love? Please back your argument with reason(s).

the love shared and offered by both parties should be equal... unless the man is a dominant.. then the lady will have to share more love

By both parties, it should be equal.

The moment you begin to think of who is showing more love or investing more in the relationship, you begin to create a vacuum for doubts about the direction of the relationship.

Essence6055:
the love shared and offered by both parties should be equal... unless the man is a dominant.. then the lady will have to share more love

but can there be equal love between the two parties?

VolTOxic:
Both partners of course.
But they can't never love each other equally.

In a case where there is no equilibrium,who do you think should offer more for the growth and stability of the relationship?

Aboy82:
By both parties, it should be equal.

Can it ever be equal?

Badfinga:
In a romantic relationship,who should offer/show more love? Please back your argument with reason(s).

The person with the lowest self esteem

eph12:
The moment you begin to think of who is showing more love or investing more in the relationship, you begin to create a vacuum for doubts about the direction of the relationship.

I mean from your own point of view.Not because you are in a relationship.Whose percentage should be higher?

Essence6055:
the love shared and offered by both parties should be equal... unless the man is a dominant.. then the lady will have to share more love

How the do you measure love, I mean what is the unit of love?

francisbiz:

How the do you measure love, I mean what is the unit of love?

You go fear Jamb question nah

Badfinga:
I mean from your own point of view.Not because you are in a relationship.Whose percentage should be higher?

And I mean it shouldn't even be a question. How do one measure it?

The girl should show more

pcguru1:


The person with the lowest self esteem

Abeg how does showing love equates to low self esteem? No vex say I dey ask.

thesuave10:
The girl should show more

you be correct pesin

eph12:

And I mean it shouldn't even be a question. How do one measure it?

Love might not have any unit of measurement.But surely you feel it when the level of affection from your partner drops.

Badfinga:
Abeg how does showing love equates to low self esteem? No vex say I dey ask.

In relationships there's a reacher and a settler, the reacher shows more love to someone who's above his/her league and the settler is one that as the name implies settles, he/she can actually do better so its really not in his/her best interest to show love.

I do understand what I wrote sounds totally wrong but that's the way I see relationship in Nigeria , though some are exceptions which is the matured type, in that relationship they both show love.

pcguru1:


In relationships there's a reacher and a settler, the reacher shows more love to someone who's above his/her league and the settler is one that as the name implies settles, he/she can actually do better so its really not in his/her best interest to show love.

I do understand what I wrote sounds totally wrong but that's the way I see relationship in Nigeria , though some are exceptions which is the matured type, in that relationship they both show love.

So what can you say if we have an ideal situation? Meaning no reacher nor settler situation.

Badfinga:
So what can you say if we have an ideal situation? Meaning no reacher nor settler situation.

The person with the most to lose should be the one to show more love in the relationship, could be the guy or the girl.

This is no longer the reacher and settler situation, this is now the situation of risk assessment, e.g an elderly Babe in her late thirties would want to show more love in a relationship to avoid a break-up and the search for another partner.

Sorry lol I have more of these before I can say both should show love.

Badfinga:
Love might not have any unit of measurement.But surely you feel it when the level of affection from your partner drops.

OK what do you think? Who should love more in a relationship?

Badfinga:
but can there be equal love between the two parties?

Yes

francisbiz:

How the do you measure love, I mean what is the unit of love?

Love is measured by sharing and giving all you got..

When a lady cares more about the man and the relationship and is not willing to give up... you will say she loves more ...

Badfinga:
In a romantic relationship,who should offer/show more love? Please back your argument with reason(s).

OP I will advice that as a guy u should go for any lady that loves u more to avoid frustration of all forms.

Essence6055:


Love is measured by sharing and giving all you got..

When a lady cares more about the man and the relationship and is not willing to give up... you will say she loves more ...

What is is the unit of love; weight = kg,g, length=ft,m,km, temp=themo, data=b.kb.gb etc

Badfinga:
You go fear Jamb question nah

Shey you know

eph12:

OK what do you think? Who should love more in a relationship?

Personally I feel the lady should love more.Because when you talk about love,first thing that comes to mind is the lady

ghostwritter:

OP I will advice that as a guy u should go for any lady that loves u more to avoid frustration of all forms.

I feel thesame too.All parties should love.but the lady should do it more

Badfinga:
Personally I feel the lady should love more.Because when you talk about love,first thing that comes to mind is the lady

Because you are a guy. A girl will choose to go with the guy that loves her most. But one thing I have learnt is to always look at things from both sides and not just a side.

Where are the ladies at? Please come in and share your opinions